a relationship that matters

Reminder:

You are bi no matter what, even if you have a preference.
You are pan no matter what, even of you have a preference.
You are transgender no matter what, even if you like a certain thing that is stereotypically gendered.
You are ace no matter what, even if you sometimes want sex.
You are aro no matter what, even if you sometimes want a relationship.
You are agender no matter what, even if you have a pronoun preference.
You are (insert sexuality/gender/romantic identity) no matter what, even if you have a preference to something.
YOU ARE YOU NO MATTER WHAT.
ONLY YOU CAN DICTATE WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE.

anonymous asked:

'sorry to ruin this post' don't do it then????????

Okay, listen here you heterophobe. The point of that post was to show that no matter what, love is love. Gay relationships are love. Lesbian relationships are love. Hetero relationships are love. Pan relationships are love. Friendship or even loving yourself is love.

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Japan and America Headcanon

I’m in love with the idea that Japan owns a sushi restaurant in America, and he and America take care of it together. Japan is the sushi chef and America handles the customers. Japan teaches America how to make sushi and eventually he’s as good at it as Japan himself. Not a whole lot of other countries know about it, they like to keep it more of a human life kind of thing. The place is a local favorite, America’s even made friends with the regulars. They decorate the store front for the holidays. Every once in a while England, Russia, or China will stop in to mess with them. The idea is just so cute to me! It does matter if they’re in a relationship or it’s a friend thing, I want them to be co-sushi shop owners :3

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If you were scrolling through Twitter this past weekend, you may have seen people posting adorable photos of themselves and their significant others to celebrate love between people of color. Twitter user @PoCBeauty started the hashtag #PoCInLove on Saturday, and it quickly went viral as other users began tweeting adorable photos of themselves with their partners.

Literally every single photo we found was In. Credible.

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Dear ‘Raffe (Short for giraffe),

It’s weird. Our relationship still excites me like brand new shoes although we’ve walked so far together already. I decided yesterday, amidst leaving subtle kisses along your neck and jaw as you snored your life away, that I’m going to give you all of me.

At this point, you may be wondering what I’ve been giving you all of this time if it isn’t all of me… and I can tell you… I’ve been giving all of what I thought I could. Something about last night, in the moments that I could feel your belly rise up and down, grazing my own ribs in rhythm, that I realized, with you, I’m not scared to be more, to be anything and everything. You revive, ignite, and create parts of me I killed, put to sleep or wasn’t aware of at all.

You make me proud to carry all of my identities. I feel pretty and handsome. I feel strong lifting you in the air or being bent over by you. You speak to every part of me.

You’ll stumble on this post  in a few minutes or weeks, depending on when you feel like perusing my Tumblr. I hope you understand how you make me feel in this moment.

Love,

~ Love

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Thank you to anyone who has supported our journey and our

Youtube Channel (Tae and Lou). The support has been so appreciated.

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Arya Meme
1/7 Relationships: Sandor Clegane

“Why don’t you just kill me like you did Mycah?” Arya had screamed at him. She was still defiant then, more angry than scared.

He answered by grabbing the front of her tunic and yanking her within an inch of his burned face. “The next time you say that name I’ll beat you so bad you’ll wish I killed you.”

even if kagome hadn’t “gone off to get married” after high school, how much you wanna bet she still would have left for the feudal era?

this fandom quite often either forgets or purposely tends to ignore the fact that first and foremost inuyasha and kagome are friends. best friends

and losing a person you’ve gifted that title to is a kind of hurt that equally rivals losing a s.o.

likewise, though, you want the best for that person even if it may mean you never see them again. you acknowledge, like inuyasha has, that there are other people in their lives that would miss them aside from yourself. and like kagome, you put up with certain things your best friend does even if, personally, it may disgust or hurt you because you understand that it’s not always about yourself

those two, regardless or their current relationship status, are never gonna have that kind of connection that they do with other people. no one else is gonna teach inuyasha how to laugh and cry. and no one else is gonna change kagome’s view of the world like inuyasha has for her

those two truly were meant to meet and once they did, there was no conceivable way they’d stay separated if it was their choice

You are the first person I want to talk to when I wake up. The last person when I fall asleep. The one to share good news with, the one to upset with. I love you.

IF YOU LEAVE SOMEBODY AT LEAST TELL THEM WHY, BECAUSE WHAT’S MORE PAINFUL THAN ABANDONMENT; IS KNOWING YOU’RE NOT WORTH AN EXPLANATION