a real life couple

anonymous asked:

Ever RK shippers turned crazy when heard Kristen said the word BF and somehow considered it as present situation but when Jamie, one of Rob's friends, who I assume if Rob and Kristen still a couple, he would be one of the ppl who know, said it's more hard for Rob and Kristen in Twi movies coz they were also couple in real life, no one cared. RK shippers finding things that suit the imagination. Kristen was never pic in London when not working so how is it Rob still in London at his leisure?

Okay Anon..Let’s Play!  

First no…we did not go crazy when we heard Kristen call Rob her boyfriend in the present tense.  We were just very happy.  It’s ppl like you that went crazy about it!  

The proof is in your comment to me!  

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anonymous asked:

Hey hey, can I ask how you feel about He Tian bottoming? Because you only write him as a top what I totaly understand but I just have this thing for He Tian giving up his "power position" (do you know what I mean? English is not my native language) and giving himself to Mo and ohwwoiohfih sorry if this is too personal and something you don't want to answer >_< please ignore it then

Hi! Hahaha, not too personal at all! 

I was actually going to write a NSFW scene for TianShan Week with He Tian bottoming, but I ended up writing very little smut at the end of it hahaha! I actually really like the idea. It gets rid of the stigma surrounding male-male sex and yaoi/BL tropes, and is far more reflective of real life gay couples, for whom most don’t really have a set ‘position’? 

Like, of course there is preference, and just general physical ease, but for most it’s just how someone wants to have sex on any given day? You don’t sign up to a relationship and tick a box on whether you bottom or top.

I’m thinking about a scene in Dawn Rising actually… Just how careful Guan Shan would be and how they’d snap at each other while they prepared themselves, because He Tian would never have let anyone get quite that close before. Like, there’s a severe amount of trust involved in sexual acts of any kind (or am I being a romantic?) so I think it would mean a lot for him to do something like that – and like you said ‘give himself’ to Guan Shan. 

In ancient Greek and Roman contexts, it very much is about a power play. If you are the submissive (the one being penetrated), then this is unmanly and you are the subject of social ridicule (unless you are a boy and undergoing ‘teaching’, but once you reach manhood it would be socially frowned upon for you to be sexually penetrated from then on). I think the same idea has still clung with us today through the emergence of Christianity – that to be the bottom is to be unmanly, and to be handing over power. 

While I understand the ‘power’ part, only on account of giving someone trust, the ‘unmanly’ or feminised part of male gay sex is pure sexism – and ‘lo and behold, that has certainly stayed with us.

Health update~

Turns out I can’t have plants in my room cause it causes my asthma to flare up lol and I don’t know why I didn’t realize this because I am allergic to everything green and beautiful in life. I think I watered one of my plants too much and it released some sort of chemical and fucked my lungs up. Anywho, once I moved my plants downstairs 3 days ago, my lungs started to get better- they’re just about 100% clear!

As for everything else, it’s coming along slowly. I’ve been hiding for a couple of days trying not to deal with real life, but we can’t avoid that, now can we? One of my cats is very sick and I don’t think he’ll make it through this time… and I’ve accepted it, if it’s his time. He’s quite old and I don’t want him to suffer any longer. I am worried about his brother, though. I know cats can get depressed if another cat they’re fond of dies… If anyone has any experience in dealing with this sort of thing, let me know, please.

I am once again dealing with a disconnect between me and my practice, but with all that’s going on, I guess I shouldn’t be too worried. I’m gonna meditate tonight and hopefully get some clarity on the direction my life is headed and bring in some healing energy for my sweet cat.

Positive vibes, loves.

Monday 8:27am
I woke up with you on my mind.
You called me babe last night —
my heart is still pounding.

Tuesday 10:53pm
Today I realized we won’t work.
What we are is hurting her.
And I think she matters more to me than you do.

Wednesday 11:52pm
I broke things off with you today.
She barely said a word.
I’ve never regretted anything more than this.

Thursday 4:03pm
I shouldn’t have sent that message.
You shouldn’t have been so okay with receiving it.

Friday 9:57pm
I almost messaged you today.
I didn’t.

Saturday 8:49pm
I’m walking around town in search of alcohol.
They say that liquor numbs the pain of having a broken heart.
I want to put that to the test.

Sunday 2:32am
I heard you texted a girl you’ve never spoken to before.
I wonder if it’s because you’re trying to replace me.
I can’t help but wish you weren’t.
I thought I was irreplaceable.

—  a week with you on my mind, c.j.n.