a meeting of minds

I saw exo by myself after their concert and freaked

Okay so after exo concert on February last year. They let the fans out of prudential center first. Most fans had left but there were a handful that stayed. So tell me how the security tried to give us the slip (me and my friend) saying that they were going out through the closed gate which was on the other side of the building. So, we went over there because the van was actually facing that way. We saw them come out and they waved before getting in.

Then, to my utter and complete horror, the van proceeded to reverse and then go out through the other gate. My ass was like hell no. So I bolted like the Usain Bolt down the block to see if I could meet them at the corner. (Mind you I have asthma and it was raining and them blocks are long as shit) so then, I stopped at the end of the block because the van was at the stop light. And I was the only person at the corner. I ain’t know what to do. I just waved like a goofball and cheese really hard. Chanyeol waved back, Kai was staring and sehun too. My ass almost fainted.

But this ain’t the end of it yall. So my friend had to leave and I had to go back home so I had to take the NJ transit train back and I was also lost a couple times. But I made it to 32nd street. My train is at the corner of 32nd, right in front of this hotel. So, I walked up to it and stood in front of the train sign, pulled out my phone and proceeded to call my mom, however my phone died mid call.

So, a van pulls up directly in front of me but I ain’t think too much on it. Until I was hearing korean. I looked up so fast and almost shit myself. The boys came off the bus and we’re standing right in front of the entrance. I can see chanyeol, Kai and sehun watching me. I actually thought they would recognize me and I swore they did but I pretended to not know who they were and faked an entire phone call with my mom as they stood there talking for what felt like forever. Before they walked in. Now, I broke down crying the moment they stepped foot inside the hotel. The manager saw me, looked at me like he wanted to say something but didn’t and followed them. I can honestly say I went home crying heavy! 

Will-power should be understood to be the strength of mind which makes it capable for meeting success or failure with equanimity. It is not synonymous with certain success. Why should one’s attempts be always attended with success? Success develops arrogance and the man’s spiritual progress is thus arrested. Failure on the other hand is beneficial, inasmuch as it opens the eyes of the man to his limitations and prepares him to surrender himself. Self-surrender is synonymous with  eternal  happiness.  Therefore  one  should  try  to  gain  the equipoise  of  mind  under  all  circumstances.  That  is  will-power.
—  Bhagavan Ramana Mahrishi, from “Talks with Sri Ramana Maharishi”

my boyfriend picked me up after school today and it was so nice tbh. he had driven his dad to work so he stopped by the restaurant and made his mom and me food which was honestly so delicious and just so thoughtful cause I always leave the chem lab starving and anyway we went back to house and hung around with his mom and siblings eating and watching scary movies and just chilling. it was really nice his mom is so sweet and really tries to make me feel welcome. plus we watched a pretty decent scary movie which meant optimal cuddle time. his brother was so cute tho omg cause he’s turning five in a couple weeks and any time he sees anyone he says “it’s my birthday!” and they’ll be like “really!” and he’s like “no! but we’re going to chuck e cheese!” he’s so excited omg. anyway overall a nice day we laid down a bit it was nice and lately he’s been trying to be cute like taking pictures and shit which I love

Hey, do you have to focus on sex to find a good poly relationship? I would like to start seeing women, but my husband insists that the only way to find someone is to sleep with them. I have sex related PTSD and it takes me a long, long time to be ready for sex. My husband is sure that we can never find anyone because I’m not capable of having endless one night stands to find someone to stay. I feel totally worthless and unlovable and he seems pretty miffed that I can’t just screw strangers.

What!? Of course you can meet people without sleeping with them. The first thing that comes to mind is making an online dating profile where you make it clear that you want to make sure you “click” with someone before hopping into bed. You can also hit it off with someone at a bar, get their number, and text-flirt for as long as you like before touching bits. There are lots of ways to meet people and establish chemistry besides one-night stands. Sure; it’s sometimes easier to flirt really sexually, then “invite them up for drinks,” then go in for the heavy petting, but it is pretty lazy and uncreative thinking to imagine that that’s the only way to find a partner. 

If you two are trying to find women to see together, and your husband insists that he has the best strategy for picking up women, let him do it his own damn self! He can go out and be like hey, I’m married, I’m interested in women, let’s bang, would you be interested in my wife? Or, you two can date together - make an online dating profile, go to poly meetups, join hobbyist groups and communities where your-kind-of-people hang out. Or, you can date on your own; pick up people’s numbers, go dancing, whatever.

It’s a huge problem that your husband is acting in a way that makes you feel “worthless and unlovable,” that he isn’t respecting your totally valid boundaries, or that he’s pressuring you to do something that triggers your PTSD. If this is any kind of pattern with this guy, you may need to reconsider the health of this relationship overall. And if you’re not already seeing a therapist for these feelings and this PTSD, please do yourself a huge favor and do that!

It’s hard for any couple to find a woman to date; if you two are having struggles, it is NOT the result of you setting reasonable boundaries. Your husband is very wrong that his imagined way of finding someone to day is the only way. He should not be blaming you for the fact that you two haven’t found someone to date, or pushing you to do something you’re uncomfortable with. This is definitely a relationship dynamic that needs to be addressed; partly because you deserve to be in a safe and healthy relationship; and partly because it’ll be totally impossible to date a third person while you two are acting like adversaries, not partners, in this project.

victorgalra  asked:

So uh... so u'll be OK if I kinda draw mr. Bendy and Fucky? Like... Their meeting or... something else idk... So u don't mind right?? /sorry I just shoul ask once again after lots of questions this type bc why not. damnmyapologies/ -that one who wants to create an askblog too but has not enough determination-

//No i don’t mind at all !! and it never bothers me if you ask a question ♥

anonymous asked:

Random headcanons from your favorite characters

this was actually pretty fun to do hehe 

Todoroki Shouto

  • really likes winter and its aesthetics
  • Listens to instrumentals and relatively mellow songs, maybe some catchy pop or hip hop songs or rap songs w artists you never heard of there is no inbetween (i think of him like that cool modern au) 
  • the type to have a theme on instagram
  • also is filled with aesthetics


Momo Yaoyorozu

  • Probably tired of Mineta’s shit (is tired of Mineta’s shit who isn’t)
  • Big book nerd and follows all her favorite authors
  • she’d be the person you’d go to to tell everything that’s on your mind + secrets
  • little awkward when y’all meet for the first time

angeluscaligo  asked:

I think quite a few people'd like to be your bf, or at least become good friends and get to know you more - Tumblr, tbh, is quite a bad medium to make friends thru, even tho it's a good one to meet like-minded peeps :3

Aw thanks man that’s a very sweet thing to say. I will say though that I really do not want a boyfriend. I’ve more important things to do be doing right now

Aoji: “……oh…w-wait, before I leave.”

*About 2 Minutes Later*

Aoji: “This is also a part of my dream, I hope you don’t mind. I-I drew two, so here’s one for you.” *Aoji hands the copy to the other Darkrai* “It’s so that I can remember your advice. T-Thank you.” 

@asktheoldmandarkrai​ ((I thought this would be a nice little thing Aoji would do after meeting with other Darkrai. I hope you don’t mind Eclipse being a part of it…and continued interaction;w;))

Continued from Here
Darling, I hope that you’ll meet someone who always knew what you deserve. From the things you wanted to feel to the words you needed to hear. I hope you will meet someone who will not mock you—laugh at you when you started blurting out all the crazy things that touched your heart. Someone who will not walk away from you when you started telling them about all the precious things—that runs through your mind. I hope you will meet someone who will not only promise you to stay, but also do everything just to keep you with them. I hope you will meet someone who will embrace every little piece of you. Someone who understands your passion and supports you in loving it . And if you meet that someone, I hope that there will be mutual feelings between the two of you. That even if you are the moon and he is the sun, both of you will always remember that you always light each other’s life. That when you get tired, he will always be there to lift you up—and the same thing as for you to him. I hope you will find someone who will make you feel all the best things you deserve to experience. Because like other people in this world, you deserve to be genuinely happy, even if you thought that you will never be.
—  ma.c.a // Sunlight and Moonlight, Makes a Day

Phan elf au created by the amazing @incaseyouart is just irresistible ubuubu (´∇ノ`*)ノ next time id go for something that can actually be called a painting h a  h    a 

Looking now i have just realised phils coat makes zero sense im so sorry ;;;;;

On the humans are weird thing, what about the Hadron Collider?

Like, aliens come to earth and are kind of impressed with how fast our technology is progressing, and they’re like, touring the earth and meeting the greatest minds of our generation and eventually end up at CERN.


Alien: So what are you doing here, Human Scientist of CERN?

Scientist: Oh, well, we made this machine that smashes atoms into even smaller stuff.

Alien: Oh? And how did you achieve this?

Scientist: Well, we throw them at each other at amazing speeds until they break apart. It’s actually pretty cool.

Alien: It does sound interesting.

Scientist: Right? It sucks there’s people who are pissed about it.

Alien: Excuse me?

Scientist: Well, theoretically there’s a chance that we could create a black hole if we go through this process.

Alien:

Alien:

Alien: Why do you persist in this endeavor if this is a possibility?

Scientist: It’s fuckin’ sicc


And then the aliens realize that oh, humans are only so ahead of the times is because they’re fucking crazy and just do shit. And then they leave.

Just in case.