We need more examples of genuinely happy, healthy relationships on TV and in books and films. No more of this bullshit about how real, epic love is painful and impossible or deadly. Love should not break you! Love should make you stronger. Show me two friends who make each other feel safe and confident and empowered. Show me a couple that respects each other fully and without question. Show me a couple that has FUN. Show me a couple that support each other. Show me a couple where their issues and conflicts are resolved with love, respect and kindness. Show me healthy love. Happy love. Real love.
okay so I'm a baby lesbian (as in young (16) and gay ) and I've not been able to completely come to terms with my sexuality yet and can I just say that seeing you and your gf being happy and in a relationship and in love etc. really really helps me a lot like.... it's possible and I can maybe do it and be happy and have a gf too and??? Just.. thank you for this