a day in the life of kaya

@dexterdarden: Today marks Day 1, of the Final Chapter, of one of the biggest blessings of my life. I’m honored to do it with these guys one last time! Let’s go!!!! #family #mazerunner #deathcure #day1 #glader #gang

anonymous asked:

I just can't get behind living nests until she actually freaking apologizes to freaking feyre.

See, this is the exact thing that makes me love her even more. That she hasn’t apologised properly yet.

Bear with me here, Nonnie, because this is going to be a long one. 

Nesta is not perfect. She has made mistakes and stupid/bad things. One very stupid thing would be letting her little sister, our beloved High Lady, provide for them all by herself and letting her carry that burden while at the same time being unsupportive. But a stupid/bad action does not equal a bad person.

When I was a kid my mama always put emphasis and made one thing very clear to me, as she was handing my ass to me, and that thing can be boiled down to this: “You did a stupid thing. You are not stupid, the thing was. You are smarter than this. Make it right and next time do better.”

In my opinion, Nesta knows she fucked up. She is a smart woman. But she is also a proud woman. Nesta telling Feyre that she went after her when Tamlin took Feyre, that she braved the woods and the unknown to find a sister she loves only to be stopped when she could not find her way through the wall, is a part of her making it better. Another thing is letting the Inner Circle use their house for meetings with the Mortal Queens, despite the danger it put her and Elain in. I don’t know if she’ll apologise to Feyre straight out, we’ll see. But I believe she will make it right, she loves her sister too much not to. 

I also very much believe this situation is similar to the one with Rhysand in the hiatus between ACOTAR and ACOMAF. Many people wanted so badly to love him but couldn’t because he had not apologised to Feyre for the things he made her do Under the Mountain. I know, he did not do these things to Feyre for years and he was not someone Feyre are supposed to be able to rely on, her big sister. But for us fans it was similar, you like the character but you will not allow yourself to 100% go for it because they hurt our Feyre. From your ask it seems like an apology is what you are waiting for, that is the one thing standing in the way. Same as many felt with Rhys. 

We got an entire book where Rhys got to redeem himself, show us his true self and explain his actions to Feyre. We have not had this opportunity with Nesta, yet. I think ACOTAR 3 will give us a lot more Nesta and I am freaking ecstatic about that. To understand her motivations beyond protecting Elain, see how she deals with being Made (into an Illyrian), how she will handle being around Cassian, how Rhys will communicate and talk to her as he is still very much thinking about how she treated Feyre, and that pisses him off, understandably. And I look forward, beyond words, to see her interactions with Mor and Amren. Gah! I am so excited! 

Another reason for me to love Nesta’s character is the fact that she is almost Mor’s opposite. We need characters like Mor that are kind and warm and girl power and likeable, she overcame terrible circumstances and is still warm towards those she cares about. But we also need characters like Nesta. Women who go through bad things and deal with it by closing themselves off to those they cares about. We need this because women in our society are not allowed to just be one or a few things, we have to be everything. We have to be perfect. 

We have to be good students, beautiful, dress well, be funny and cool, yet not too cool because a girl can’t possibly know if she is smart and hot because then she is obnoxious and cocky. We have to be good mothers, good sisters, good daughters. A woman is supposed to be sexy but not so much so she is slutty. Virgins are boring and too much work and pressure but if she has had sex she is a whore. We are supposed to be independent on our own but also not too independent because then we hate men and will become lonely cat ladies. We are not to tell men we want marriage and kids  because then we seem desperate but at the same time the women who do not want kids are shamed for it. We are admired if we are strong, work out and know how to fight but then “oh god you work out so much aren’t you afraid you will get too many muscles and look like a man”? A woman has to be kind and emphatic but she also needs to be fierce and not care what anyone thinks. The list goes on.

What I am trying to say is that we can’t win. No matter what we do we are set up to fail because society puts so much pressure on women to be all these things, to an extent men does not have to live with. And so writing amazing characters, basically flawless, like Mor, I mean she has her struggles but we have yet to see a real flaw in Mor, can end up putting more pressure on young girls. But then SJM balance it out beautifully with Feyre and Nesta and Elain. These three sisters who are all incredible and admirable in their own ways but are also very much flawed, in a way that only male characters really get to be flawed. Because if a man has one redeeming quality, that is usually all it takes because we as a society ask so little of men compared to women. 

So we have a almost flawless character like Mor who loves and befriends a flawed character like Feyre. Showing us that you do not have to be perfect to be loved by something good. To deserve good things. 

To end this rant I would just like to say that I would love to see Nesta apologise to Feyre. But I will love her even if she doesn’t. I love her because she is interesting, I love her because she loves her sisters in her own way, I love her because SJM has written such a perfectly flawed female character that is still a good person and what that represents to young girls. I love her because, at the end of the day, Feyre does too. 

Nesta, my (illyrian) thunderstorm

meko-mi  asked:

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Thank you~

(Can I tag ten people instead of sending this to them?
I will tag people anyway:
@delicatewizardstranger @finfileors @starryryu @starlumen @ask-bendyboo @ask-sensitive-bendy @anjoysblog @okamix397 @zoegloom @the-oreo-skele @everyonereadingthis
(I am sorry, I am just too lazy…)


On this day in music history: March 23, 1978 - “Kaya”, the tenth album by Bob Marley & The Wailers is released. Produced by Bob Marley & The Wailers, it is recorded at Island Studios in London, UK from January - April 1977. The album consists of tracks recorded during sessions for Marley’s previous release “Exodus”. The album features more laid back, relaxed songs standing in stark contrast to the bands’ more militant, politically motivated material. The release of the album will also coincide with Marley’s return to Jamaica after more than a year of living in London, leaving the country after an attempt is made on his life in December of 1976. It spins off two singles including “Is This Love” and “Satisfy My Soul”. Originally released on CD in 1986, it is remastered and reissued in 1994, with another remaster in 2001 that includes one bonus track. It is also released as a double CD Deluxe Edition in 2013, with the original ten track (plus one bonus track) album on disc one. The second disc features a full concert recorded at Ahoy Hallen, Rotterdam, Netherlands on July 7, 1978. The album is also remastered and reissued as a 180 gram vinyl LP in 2013. “Kaya” peaks at number four on the UK album chart, and number fifty on the Billboard Top 200.

Para sa mga nagtatanong, eto na po. Wayback 2007, highschool pa lang ‘ko non, before ako pumasok sa school, nagbebreakfast muna ‘ko sa karenderia malapit sa'min. Araw-araw ‘yon. Kapag umaga, wala pang mga ulam don. Yung tipong sopas, champorado, spaghetti, pancit, at mga kakanin ang menu nila.

Then, one time, medyo nalate ako ng gising. Pagdating ko dun sa karenderia, pancit na lang ang available, so ‘yon yung inorder ko. Ang problema, hindi ko nagustuhan yung lasa. Nakalimutan ko na kung matabang ba ‘yon or kung ano, basta, hindi ko nagustuhan. Eh ayoko namang magsayang ng pagkain, at hindi din naman ako mareklamo. Naghanap na lang ako ng pwedeng ilagay na pampalasa para matolerate ko siya. Eh tadhana nga naman, ubos na yung toyo. Wala na ring calamansi at ayoko naman ng suka. Tapos, nakita ko yung ketchup. Hindi ko alam kung ano naisip ko pero nilagyan ko ng konti. Nung tinikman ko, nagustuhan ko naman kaya dinamihan ko na yung ketchup.

The next day, marami nang choices, pero tinry ko ulit. Nagustuhan ko ulit. Haha. Ganon ako lagi kapag pancit ang inoorder ko sa kanila. Ang problema, nasanay na yung panlasa ko sa ganong set up. At ang problema ulit, since then, kahit saan ako kumain ng pancit, hindi ko na gusto yung lasa ‘pag walang ketchup. Life changed.

Kung sasabihin mo sa'kin na sana, nag spaghetti na lang ako, gago, ‘wag mo nang ituloy. Hindi ko naman siya ginagawang alternative sa spaghetti dahil una sa lahat, hindi din ako mahilig don. Kumakain lang din naman ako ng pancit kapag no choice at ‘yon lang talaga ang nakahain na pagkain. The thing is, kelangan ko lang talaga ng ketchup para makain ko siya. That’s why ‘pag umoorder ako ng fries sa mga fast food, hindi ko ginagalaw yung ketchup. Nilalagay ko na lang sa bag ko para may stock ako, in case lang.

Nung una, nahihiya pa ‘ko. Pero ngayon, pucha, nahihiya pa rin talaga ‘ko. Lalo na kapag may bagong kakilala, nakikita ko yung itsura nila habang nakatingin sa'kin. Disgusted. Tumatalikod na lang ako.

Yung mga kaibigan ko naman, sanay na sila sa'kin. Hahaha. Ayun lang. The end. :)

Papa! Happy father’s day po! Sobrang miss na miss kana po namin at ang dami mo na pong namiss sa event sa buhay ko. Sayang pa, wala ka nung graduation ko. Ineexpect ko pa man din na nandun ka, diba pangarap natin to? Na makatapos ako ng Engineering Course? Natatandaan mo paba nung time na sinabi mo sakin na “Nak kayanin mo yan, kasi maganda yung magiging buhay mo pag naging engineer kana” Yung mga oras na umiiyak ako sayo dahil gusto kona magshift ng course dahil sobrang nahihirapan nako, nandyan ka parin sinasabi mo na may tiwala ka sakin na kaya ko malagpasan yung engineering dahil bilib ka sa talino ko. Eto na pa graduate nako.

Sayang pa hindi mo man lang nakita tong graduation picture ko oh. Ang pogi ko dyan, kamukhang kamukha kita. Sayang talaga pa, tas hindi mo pa nakikita yung ECT kong license, hindi pa sya yung ECE pa pero License Technitian na po ako pa.

Pero pa, meron po akong winowork ngayon, nagrereview po ako para mapasa ko yung isang board ko, yung para talaga sa course ko. Pa, alam kong gagabayan moko sa boards ulit! Alam kong kaya ko to kasi sabi mo magtiwala ako sa talino ko, kaya eto ako naglalakas loob na sumubok sa board exams.

Pa kahit anong mangyari ah, sana proud ka parin sakin sa kung ano mang narating ko. Basta pa magsisikap pa po ako para malayo pa po yung marating ko para mas maging proud kapa sakin dyan sa Heaven. Lagi nyo po akong iguguide ah! Maraming salamat po papa! 

Happy father’s day. I love you papa! You’ll be here forever in our hearts. 

Ilang taong nga tayong nabuhay na single e no? Ano pa kaya yung ilang taon nalang na pag aantay kasi darating din sya, pag di sya dumating ‘Get a life, mag alaga nalang ng 45 days chix para gawing negosyo, pag madami ka ng chicken gawa ka pagawaan ng Chicken franks tapos magpakasaya. Kasi….. Kasi…. Basta sasaya tayo!

starryryu  asked:

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Aww thanks bruhh!!!
I already sent this so I will just tag people!!
@cutepanda000 @arialcloud @brendojay @kawaiikat1 @blackshino @anjoysblog @roch6103 @cearacoffeetoast @okamix397 @diamondbeeloxdraws
And @everyone reading this!!!! ^w^

  • Usopp: I wanted to tell you one story. Uh. This is the story of the best meal I’ve ever had in my life, okay. Happened when I was eleven years old in Syrup Village where I grew up. I went to a place called the Salt & Pepper Diner, uh, with my best friend Kaya. We walk into the diner one day, and they had a jukebox there, okay? And the jukebox was three plays for a dollar. So we put in 7 berries and selected 21 plays of of Tom Jones’s What’s New Pussycat. And then we ordered and waited.
  • Here’s the thing about when, uh, What’s New Pussycat plays over and over and over and over and over again. The second time it plays, your immediate thought is not ‘hey someone’s playing What’s New Pussycat again.’ It’s ‘hey, What’s New Pussycat is a lot longer than I first thought. The third time it plays you’re thinking maybe someone’s playing What’s New Pussycat again. The fourth time it plays you’re either thinking ‘whoa someone just played What’s New Pussycat FOUR TIMES or at least someone played it twice, and it’s a really long song.’ So the fifth time is the kicker, alright?
  • Now, Kaya and I we’re watching the entire diner at this point, alright? Most people have gotten wind as to what’s going on. And we’re staring at this one guy and he’s sitting in like a booth with his stupid kids jumping around, and he’s like staring at his coffee cup like this, and he’s been onto us since the beginning. And he’s sitting there, and his hand is shaking, and he had this look on his face like, aw, like he had just gotten his thirty day chip from anger management. And he’s staring like this, and the fourth song fades out. It’s dead quiet. Then, I don’t know if you know this, but the song begins very quietly…
  • BWAAAH BWAAAAAH WHAT’S NEW PUSSYCAT and he goes GOD DAMN IT and pounds on the table, silverware flies everywhere, and it was fantastic. But a word about my best friend Kaya and what a genius she was because when we first walked into the diner, okay? When we first got there and I’m punching in the What’s New Pussycats alright? I’ve punched in like 7 at this point then Kaya says to me ‘Hey hey hey before you punch in another What’s New Pussycat let’s drop in one It’s Not Unusual.’
  • Oh yes. That is when the afternoon went from good to great. After seven What’s New Pussycats. In a row - It played seven times. Suddenly - Dum da dum, IT’S NOT UNUSUAL and the sigh of relief that swept through the diner. People were so happy. It was like being united under the World Government all over again. You know for years scientists have wondered can you make grown men and women weep tears of joy by playing Tom Jones’s It’s Not Unusual and the answer is yes you can. Provided that it is preceded by seven What’s New Pussycats. It’s true. Dead honest.
  • And on the other hand. When we went back. Holy shit. It’s Not Unusual fade out. It’s dead quiet. BWAAAH BWAAAAH WHAT’S NEW PUSSYCAT people went insane. People went out of their minds. No one could handle it. No one could handle it. And they were surrounded by this seemingly indifferent staff that was just like ‘yup some crap as always.’
  • They unplugged the jukebox after eleven plays. And that was the best meal I ever had.
You spend your whole life stuck in a labyrinth, thinking about how you’ll escape it one day, and how awesome it will be, and imagining that future keeps you going, but you never do it. You just use the future to escape the present.
—  Looking for Alaska, John Green
American Girls as Disney Characters

- Kirsten is so at one with nature and all the fuzzy little animals, I’ve just gotta say Snow White.

- Felicity is extremely adventurous and willing to jump in to potentially life-threatening situations, I’m going with Moana.

- Elizabeth can be mature, but prefers to be cheeky and fun. I’m calling Alice.

- Tomboyish Kit helped to save the day after convincingly passing as a boy and then escaping capture. Mulan anyone?

- Shy new girl trying to find her voice among a culture that’s not her own. Josefina? Or Ariel?

- Clever forward-thinking booklover Samantha, meet Belle.

- I’m not just gonna match Kaya with Pocahontas because they’re both Native Americans, ‘cos that’s just lazy. Slightly self-centred girl learns to look after, help, and stand up for friends and family instead. Lilo!

Feel free to add any others you think of, or debate the ones I’ve given above. :)

~ Mod Maryellen ~

Okay so. My life has taken a ridiculous turn. Things have gone south very quickly, and now I have to move home for a little while. I have no idea what my life is going to be like over the next few months, and I just wanted to post saying that I have no idea when I’m coming back, or if I ever will. Hopefully I will find some sort of normalcy one day and be able to start again, but, until then, I am saying an unofficial goodbye.

You are all so freaking wonderful, and have all made an impression on my life. I have so much love for you all. Thank you for writing with me, and making me feel so special.

Please keep yourselves safe. The world is an incredibly harsh place. Never forget how strong you are.

I love you all.

Until next time,