speaking of intimate partner abuse I wrote an essay for my lit seminar in which I talked about Fiona Apple’s “Extraordinary Machine” & what it meant to me, how I connected it to that abusive situation, and I mentioned that I had considered putting it on a playlist for said abuser but “decided that I didn’t want to take the risk.” and this absolutely stupid fucking male TA left a comment like “hmmm yeah sharing personal things with someone is always a risk :)” and I was like. no you complete fucking dipshit the point isn’t ~sharing a piece of yourself is always a risk uwu~ when I say “risk” I’m not EXAGGERATING or trying to be fucking CUTE I mean that doing something like that that could be seen as defiance could have serious fucking adverse consequences for me because this man was an ABUSER. you UTTER fucking simpleton. god I was so angry!!!!