Xiu Xiu

being fetishized, fetishizing other people, enjoying the
power of being a sexual object, wondering if that is good for you,
enjoying the thrill of finding an ultra specific desire, wondering if
that is acceptable, feeling ashamed of one’s body, feeling love for the
desirability of one’s own body, feeling ashamed for objectifying a
person’s body part, feeling fulfilled by someone who is cranked up by
being objectified, feeling fulfilled by someone objectifying you in the
bedroom, being proud of who you are, being afraid of what you want,
being unafraid of what you want, considering, all the while, is this
good or bad and not knowing if you care?
—  Xiu Xiu on (the very NSFW) ‘Black Dick’ music video