anonymous asked:

I'm having a hard time in my long term relationship. It's not making me happy anymore. I want to end it but I'm afraid of what others will think and I don't want to hurt her. I'd like to lessen the pain as much as possible. Happy, less pain the goal.

Don’t be afraid.

As you learn and grow, so do your friendships and relationships. I really noticed this when I started committing to a spiritual practice everyday. My circle of friends completely shifted. This is nothing to fear.

It’s not a “good” or “bad’ thing, but it’s important to understand that throughout our lives, people are going to fall away. And who knows, they might be back, but all you do know now is that you’ve learned all that you can from each other at this time.

When relationships and/or friendships end or shift, there is nothing to fear. Whether or not you realize it, everything always works out the way it’s meant to.


Forrest Curran