*claps* glasses. Yes. And correct me if I'm wrong? But like, wasn't there a silly anime that had these guys all wear glasses and one wanted to be populat with em or something???
OKAY SO ARE YOU TALKIN ABOUT MEGANEBU??
okay here’s the thing:
my type is very specific and doesn’t just stop at glasses like… idk the guys in the glasses anime are too… pretty… so I was never interested in the first place… because I’m not really into it…
I just had to look up Meganebu! and I feel like I’m actually thinking of something else??? but idk
EUGH THOSE COLORS
but now I’m lookin at gifs for it and… it might be… something i’m interested in… we’ll see…
but like if you wanna know for real… like… in terms of anime… just anime? I was really into Shinichi from Parasyte
ya know, before he lost the glasses and his sweety-boy personality (which is when the show got bad, imo) plus of course the production value went way down after episode 1 like this show just disappointed me all around i cannot believe
aND YURI MY BOY THE ONLY REASON WHY I WATCHED YOI TBH
(i still haven’t seen past ep3 rip me)
AND YUKIO MY OG BOY HOW COULD I FORGET AGH
Stein is p good too he’s such a perfect dorky dad-type
I guess Shinra is bae too tbh but not really personality-wise? I’m more into sweety-boy types but Celty and Shinra are #GOALS
actually can’t even really put a pin on it bc ANY glasses boy in an anime will pique my interest but if we’re talkin like… absolute perfect man, 100% my type and everything I’d look for in a guy (and pretty close to my bf??)… definitely Rei…
uhh I feel like there are more but I can’t… think of them… if we’re just talking anime…
teach your girl to say no, to spit no like fire, to never apologize for it. her spine: NO. her fists: NO. her teeth all NO together.
but first and more importantly, teach your boy to see no, hear no, understand no before it’s spelled out for him. have him take “no” easily, not as an excuse to keep trying.
have him feel “no” like a change in the air so that he can infer it without so much as a word. don’t settle for no as just as the dictionary definition, show him no in body language, in “i’d rather not,” in “yes, but i’m drunk.”
teach him that “no” is not “convince me,” teach him to accept it gently, without violence, without feeling that he’s having something “denied” to him. “no” is not “take it from my fingers.” no is a shrug, is “i’m not sure,” no is a look, a scared smile, a terrified giggle. No is in the pocket of her clothes, no matter what they look like.
have him assume “no,” not “yes, unless otherwise stated.” girls are not swings on the playground, he cannot be upset when they don’t “share” themselves with him. there is no sharing, she is not an object. of a girl he sees on the street who doesn’t give him her number or react well to what he calls her: teach him she is not taking from him what is due, she is not denying him, she has never and will never belong to him. she will be his only after explicit and repeated consent and only by that alone.
do me a favor
teach him no.
A GIRL NOT SAYING “NO” IS NOT A GIRL SAYING “YES” // r.i.d
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