ok sorry, still me, I just have one more thing... I'm always reading about INTJs sort of avoiding love, seeing it as pointless and stupid. I think dating someone just to have a partner is certainly pointless, but every now and then I do start to crave interaction a little. I know if I'm not careful, I could get hurt, but I don't want to be alone forever. I just... don't know how to flirt, or how to show someone that I do actually care about things at all.