If you keep seeming to attract what you don’t want in a boyfriend, then utilize that to further clarify what you DO want. Right now you are in the process of attracting and allowing yourself to have what you DO want in a boyfriend.
Continue to develop a loving relationship between you and yourself. Rephrase everything you don’t want in a boyfriend into what you DO want in a boyfriend.
Instead of wanting to attract a boyfriend and wanting to speed up the process from a position of noticing the lack of a boyfriend in your life, start leaning more toward positive expectation.
Now that you know more about what you DO want, and you accompany those desires with positive emotion, you want to continue to send out less contradictory vibes.
But it’s not something that you have to constantly do. You want it to feel good, easy, and fun to do. When it starts feeling like it’s too hard, that means the vibes are little off. So you’ll want to do what you can to shift them.
Here’s an example of positive expectation and momentum:
Wouldn’t it be nice if today I was having fun and feeling confident and wonderful and then met and recognized my ideal boyfriend? What if that happened? How would that feel? What if I seemed to attract everything that I DO want in a boyfriend? How awesome would that be? How awesome would that feel? What if I appreciated everything around me and everything that I have? How would I feel?
What if my intentions to attract a boyfriend were pure, positive, and loving? What kind of boyfriend would I attract and have? What if I had my ideal boyfriend right now? How would I feel? What would we do? How would we interact? Would we love each other unconditionally?
You can think and say things like that to shift the energy. Then trust that the universe will deliver and appreciate everything that you are blessed with. Continue to be yourself and do what you normally do. This way you can relax and allow the Universe to do what it does best without you offering a bunch of contradictory vibes.
When you want to speed up the process, it is possibly inspired by the consciousness of the lack of what you DO want. So, if that is true for you, you’ll want to shift the energy so that your vibes better reflect what you DO want.