This-is-my-destiny!

i’m weak + soulmate au’s

i can’t hold it in anymore guys…… i really want to write about produce 101 LOL but i won’t write a lot, i’ll only be taking the first 11 requests!! i take eliminated trainees too!! just know that 11 requests = 11 different boys to make it fair ^^

just send me a name + an au, and i’ll slip a produce 101 scenario into each update. they’ll be really short/mini au’s though ^^ i’ll make a post of the first 11 requests once i get them so you can anticipate/see if your request made it

ALSO i’m cancelling the seventeen soulmate series and instead just taking them as requests. please just specify if you want your chosen member to be an idol or non-idol!!

have a good day/night darlings ^^

anonymous asked:

gasps if ur willing to talk rarepairs. do u have any hcs for. kaz and wylan. bc ofc im the one who ships the super dangerous sarcastic asshole with the Nice Boy this is my destiny

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- When Wylan meets Kaz he’s immediately infatuated by Kaz’s ability to give no shits about what other people think

- Kaz always went out of his way to make sure to tell Wylan that he was wanted and valued even before they dated

- Wylan was horrible at hiding the fact he thought Kaz was hot like the boy would be blushing every time Kaz got near him.

- Wylan tries to subtly flirt. Emphasis on trying. He is not subtle. Kaz doesn’t mind though.

- Kaz is actually the one to make the first move after a month of Wylan’s horribly disguised flirting

- The constantly play with each other’s hair, Kaz likes playing with Wylan’s wild curls and Wylan likes to style Kaz’s hair in different ways

- Wylan is the only person who can play music Kaz will actually actively listen to. Plus, Kaz thinks it’s sexy when Wylan’s holding an instrument

- On Wylan’s birthday Kaz steals/bribes an entire chemistry lab for the Van Eck manor

- They also totally have matching rings. Kaz totally didn’t steal said rings.

- 1AM walks on the docks when one of them has a nightmare and can’t go back to sleep

- Wylan likes to practice painting Kaz

- Kaz is incredibly protective of Wylan everyone in Ketterdam knows not to mess with Wylan or a hoard of Dregs will be knocking at their door, a very angry Kaz leading them. Basically Wylan is (mostly) a cinnamon roll and Kaz will murder anyone who so much as glances at him the wrong way

- Kaz would pickpocket the entire world for Wylan and Wylan would blow up the entire world for Kaz

- Dates usually end in cuddles and occasionally fireworks ;)

- Wylan teaching Kaz how to cook something fancier than rice for dinner dates

- Early morning showers together

- The roofs of either the Van Eck Manor or Crow Club are their favorite spots. Even when they’re not talking they can still sense each other’s emotions

ID #76817

Name: Dezi
Age: 22
Country: USA

My actual name is Destiny but I go by Dezi. I love music! Some of my favorite bands are all time low, waterparks, a day to remember and panic at the disco.

Some fandom things I’m into include Supernatural, Doctor Who, Marvel and pokemon.

I’m also into horror and creepy things. From movies to books to just random urban legends.

Penpals has been a thing I’ve wanted to try for a while now and I happened to find this blog. So I figure why not try it out?

Preferences: 19+

You know the best part about Wonder Woman? She’s a hero because that’s what she’s always known she wants to do. She’s not all “woe is me, I am suffering under the weight of my destiny”. Hell no, right from the get-go she’s like I’m gonna save all these people because I have the ability and I know that’s what I should do. People keep telling her she can’t do it, and she sits them the fuck down and does it anyway. She actually WANTS to be a hero, and despite what BVS might have led you to believe, she NEVER stops being one.

“Look, if it’s my destiny to save the world, that means it’s gonna happen no matter how little effort I actually put into it. And right now, my effort is going into this potluck dinner.”

Steps for Letting Go of Painful Memories

Experiences can leave us with some painful memories. They tie us to the past and prevent us moving on. And the only way to freedom is to work on letting go – so these memories don’t haunt us or keep us trapped in pain. Below are some guidelines to help you work on this.

1. Before you can let go, you must face whatever happened and accept that it is part of your past experiences. Suppression doesn’t work as a long-term solution. It can only be a band aid that brings temporary relief. Talk to someone you trust, or write about it in your journal. You need to share what happened, in order to move on.

2. Identify the lessons you have learned from what has happened. There’s always a lesson – so look for what you’ve learned. It doesn’t make it better – but it does lessen its power.

3. Write the lesson down on a piece of paper and repeat it to yourself when you’re hit by old, painful memories. For example, if you’ve been scarred by abuse, then you might write something like: “My experience of abuse does not determine who I am. I’m a stronger person now, and that is not my destiny. I’m choosing my own future, and the person I will be.”

4. Repeat this mantra often so it takes root in your mind. Allow it to be stronger than the bad experience. Say it often, till you mean it, then you’ll start to feel you’re freer. Persevere and keep on fighting when those old memories return.

5. Seek to be a person who’s at peace with themselves. When peace is your focus, old thoughts and memories have much less power over how you think and feel. However, seeking after peace must be a conscious, constant choice.

6. When the past tries to intrude, focus firmly on the present. Ground yourself in what’s happening around you in the room, and try to breathe deeply - and deliberately relax. You are here in this moment; you’re not living in the past.

7. Forgive – for your own sake. Try to heal from what happened – then let resentments go. You don’t want them in your life for they’ll just tie you to the past. It’s not an ease process; it takes work and discipline. But it is worth the daily struggle - as one day you’ll be free.