If your partner is trying to force you to diet- that is abuse.
If your partner belittles your weight- that is abuse.
If your partner throws away all the food in the house to try to force you to diet- that is abuse.
If your partner constantly questions everything you try to eat- that is abuse.
If your partner threatens to withhold sex or cheat on you if you don’t lose weight- that is abuse.
This type of behavior is an abusive control tactic. Run far away from someone who treats you like this.
We recognize abusive control when your partner tries to dictate how you dress.
It’s the same concept with food and weight.
If someone is treating you like this, please. Try to get away before they shred your self esteem completely.
Someone else WILL love you. You don’t deserve to be treated this way.
When we teach young girls that no one will love them unless they are thin, we are teaching them to accept abusive behavior.
Fat girls are loved. I am here to tell you that it is real.
Love will find you. You deserve love and it will come to you.