I’ll also admit that one of the reasons I’ve not been on tumblr as much lately is that all of the drama is getting to me. I love you all dearly but my anxiety has been worse lately and I can’t handle it. I applaud all the good and important discussions being had but I likely won’t contribute to a lot of it until I’m in a better frame of mind

anonymous asked:

Ah yes, discourse, my favorite *sips coffee mug with vodka* I can't tell you how many times people badgered me into revealing my trauma then had the audacity to tell me that I didn't meet the criteria for someone who'd been in an abusive relationship/didn't act traumatized enough and so my trauma didn't count. Like you don't get to decided what is and isn't traumatic, everyone is different and what one person can handle might be too much for another person

Oh no, I’m so sorry to hear that Anon. You’re totally right and I 100% agree with what you said. Of course I don’t. No one gets to decide what isn’t and is traumatic to others

I should’ve been careful with my words with that other post. Sorry about that, I was behaving stupid. What I meant was that if someone is shipping something that contains triggering content to you then quickly block and avoid it instead of risking chances that you might see more of those contents and attacking them.

Again, I’m so sorry to hear that ;-; That’s really horrible…

anonymous asked:

I'm the anon from before I just wanted to add that I am white and not American so I was really naive to how 'casually' racist people are. Im kind of shook by it and its disgusting me

I can’t speak for all Z’s poc fans but I personally wasn’t shocked at the racism. It’s actually funny cause a lot of his fans like Z or did like Z until rumors if them being together started coming out and all of a sudden Z wasn’t someone he wouldn’t date and she was “too much” for someone like him to handle. Some of them like Z but don’t like the thought of her with Tom and have no real reason why. I’m, I feel subconsciously they don’t ever believe Tom would date a WOC that he would only date girls that are white. Like they don’t approve of him and Z but they love the thought of him and Daisy, which is fine cause they can ship him with whoever they want but it’s obvious they approve of Daisy more so cause she’s white not because he’s built a special relationship with her or something like that

anyone else kinda terrified you’ll never be able to hold a job in the future because of your mental illness

griffin and rachel's first date
rose buddies- ep. 66
griffin and rachel's first date

uhhhm…but yeah should we talk about our first date? …ye- yeah there’s just not a lot a lot happened we went to a…a fairly nice restaurant here that was known for their nice desserts yeah and then I had to..get gas on the way there and I spilled gasoline like pretty much all over my pants?? and i stank sooo bad *laughing* yeah the smell was pretty intense was very overpowering. and then we were gonna go to barton springs, right? were we? and then it got-we got rained out? we got rained out..yeah…and I don’t remember what we did I think we went to Grace and Bristol’s pool. and swam in that instead…..oh yeah! Yeah it’s ver..very romantic. and then knOW HAHA H A…YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENS AFTER THAT A H AHAHAHAHA LITTLE BIT O THAT *grunt from home improvement* AND A SOME O THAT boINGUGUGGGUUH and a little bit o that OOOooohhNOOOooo and a little bit o that *gets real close to the mic and makes mouth sounds* and a little- a wHOLE BUNCH O THAT..C O W A B U N G A DUDE!! and some of that *borat voice* uh mY WiFE…and some of that *deep breath* MUH SWAMP *breaks out into laughter* and some o that- okay..okay please stop..I was gonna *laughing* i  was gonna sit in silence until you stopped….uh but you really got me with my swamp

⇁ plums & melons | 01

Originally posted by trash-for-bangtan

pairing ⇀ Jimin x Reader

genre ⇀ smut, slight humor, drama || brother’s best friend!au 

warnings  ⇀ public indecency, dirty talk, a lot of teasing, jimin’s porn preferences, and boobs

word count ⇀ 6.3k

The long time running game between you and your brother’s best friend started when you noticed his fascination with boobs—yours specifically. It was never supposed to amount to more than harmless flirting and lingering glances, but now, one year later, Jimin was ready to change that.

alternatively: Jimin and you play a game. the loser is fucked. metaphorically. literally. all the above??

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