It’s interesting to see how many young women post about their shopping hauls, gifts, destination getaways, and cash, but I rarely see anyone actually talking about the sex and intimacy. I understand the desire to show off and brag about the spoils, but so few bloggers write about what sugaring actually entails. Why?

I’m not asking to be facetious. I think it’s important to talk about the intimacy, to talk about limits and red flags so girls aren’t taken advantage of. Just because you’re getting spoiled doesn’t mean you don’t have a right to sexual boundaries. ?