So-Il

I couldn’t ship Ji Woon and Ha Won until he started doing things out of his feelings for her and not because he’s trying to help Hye Ji and sure enough;

  • Hyun Min went to her graduation because he realized he needed to give her her uniform.
  • Seo Woo went to her graduation because he read evil comments on his instagram and thought something bad was going to happen to her.
  • Ji Woon went to her graduation just because it was her graduation.

See, now we’re getting somewhere.

so everyone has been posting their feelings about cafk and this is completely self indulgent to get it off my chest but–

where to stART

ji woon

JI WOON HOW ABOUT HIM WELL. I don’t think he’s a bad character. I’ve seen characters like him often. and his past did suck so I feel he is understandable and his actions after the fact make sense. but it does not dismiss the fact that he prejudiced against ha won repeatedly and insulted her repeatedly. saying he didn’t know about ha won’s past and situation is barely an argument okay. so yeah he knows about it now, but has yet to apologize for his harsh words to her in the beginning. also, he said he was going after ha won afterhye ji said she wanted ha won gone from hyun min’s side. so it feels to me their relationship was built on a lie as of now and ji woon’s blinding love for hye ji. so if him and ha won are to work, that issue should be addressed.

hyun min

hyun min is definitely one of my faves I’m not going to lie, but imo he has more raw chemistry with ha won and has expressed regret after yelling at her to the point where he couldn’t even think straight and went to apologize even if he didn’t necessarily succeed. I do understand the concern that ha won is just a “toy” to him however and wouldn’t be against it if ha won was with ji woon but he continued to try or if it takes forever for him to prove himself that he has genuine feelings for ha won. but I have seen a good amount of chemistry, character and relationship development between the two and I do root for him so–sue me. but it’s not blind I have reasons sO MANY REASONS

seo woo

I love seo woo so much you have no idea my soN. he deserves happiness bc he’s so bright and just he shINES AND GLIMMERS LIKE A STAR. I can’t see him as a big romantic candidate though but like that friend you go to bc your crush (or crushes) is also his cousin (or his cousins) and they’re being annoying and you need remind yourself that not alL THE KANG’S ARE IDIOTS. I just want him to live and eat and be healthy okay

hye ji

hye ji…is not a bad character. her situation is real but I am not particularly fond of her. not just because she’s competition for the one I’m rooting for, but bc she deserves better and I just wish she could fiND SOMEONE TO TREAT HER WELL AND FEED HER WELL AND MAKE HER SMILE BC SHE SMILES SO BRIGHTLY. buuuut she seems dead set on fighting for hyun min so. it all rlly boils down to her saying she wants ha won gone from hyun min’s side bc that’s not fair play and honestly what has ha won done to her. she literally got dragged into this and I get she doesn’t know that but she has never once been actively rude to her like hyun min is constantly. and people saying that hyun min is still in love with her and that’s why he’s rude to her…umm???? like that’s a thing children do in grade school and while he is immature I don’t see him doing that? like he is interested in ha won but does not make fun of her at all. hye ji shouldn’t be with someone that acts like hyun min acts. I am not saying ji woon either just someone–anyone–else.

ha won

maybe she should just be herself and the writers shouldn’t portray her as weak and she can just be hersELF AND FIND A JOB AND THEN WORRY ABOUT WHICH COUSIN TO DATE. MAYBE THINGS WILL BE MORE CLEAR. JUST PUT HER THROUGH COLLEGE FIRST. although I understand it wouldn’t be a drama then really

yoon sung

why can’t it be him. he’s young. he’s handsome. he’s more than suitable. why can’t it be him.

anonymous asked:

Ciao! Ti scrivo perchè non so come gestire il mio orribile carattere. Io sono molto introversa, insicura, timida, e tendo sempre a sminuirmi in conforto a persone che magari sono anche peggio di me. Mi odio, odio i miei comportamenti, odio la mia paura di fallire, a causa della quale perdo molte occasioni importanti. Non riesco a stare al centro dell'attenzione, non riesco a ballare (anche tipo ad una festa). Sono letteralmente prigioniera di me stessa e non so come fare. Non so neanche perchè -

te lo sto scrivendo, forse solo perché ho bisogno d'aiuto. Sai, non ne parlo con nessuno perché mi direbbero le solite cose inutili. Ho giá chiesto ad altri blog, ma nulla. Ti prego aiutami.
Poi, come se non bastasse, ho zero autostima. Cioè, ci sono sere in cui mi piace tipo il vestito che indosso, peró poi esco e vedo ragazze stupende..e in quel momento vorrei solo sparire, perchè mi sento nulla in confronto a loro. Odio anche un'altra parte del mio carattere oltre ad essere chiusa. Quando sono triste, tendo ad essere acida e antipatica, e non riesco più a controllarmi. Scusami se ti ho annoiata.

Ciao cara,
Capisco perfettamente il problema della timidezza; è come una prigione che non ti permette di mostrare agli altri chi sei, cosa pensi e cosa provi.
E capisco perfettamente anche il fatto della bassa autostima, che, alimentandola, diventa sempre meno.
Devi iniziare a credere più in te stessa e ad acquisire sicurezza.
Innanzitutto smettila di paragonarti continuamente ad altre ragazze.
Non devi essere bella come loro, devi essere bella come te.
Ormai ti sei fissata così tanto per cercare di essere come le altre ragazze che ti sei dimenticata come sei tu.
Inizia a valorizzare ciò che hai. Inizia a prenderti cura di te stessa. Inizia ogni giorno, a guardarti allo specchio, a sorridere e a dire una cosa che ti piace di te, fisicamente o caratterialmente.
Prova a stare con persone che ti amano per ciò che sei, magari la tua migliore amica e vedrai che, passando molto tempo con loro, inizierai ad avere più forza in te stessa. Ti daranno coraggio.

Alle feste ti vergogni di ballare? Balla comunque !!! Balla come se non ci fosse un domani, lasciati andare, libera l'ansia e lo stressa al tuo corpo. Vedrai che dopo ti sentirai meglio.

Sei una persona bellissima, e nemmeno te ne rendi conto. Sii te stessa, non temere.
Prova a camminare a testa alta, a sorridere al tuo riflesso nelle vetrine, ad abbracciare più forte le tue amiche.
E concentrati di più su te stessa, invece che sugli altri. Tu meriti tutte le tue attenzioni ❤️

Ha iniziato a fischiarmi l'orecchio e, non so perché, il mio primo pensiero sei stato tu.
Al di là di tutto, del dolore, della rabbia, dei rimorsi, della distanza, ci sei.
Nel mio cuore, intendo, perché nella mia vita purtroppo no.
E questa fa male, fa male da morire ma ci ho fatto l'abitudine.
Ci ho fatto l'abitudine a vedere le foto del tuo migliore amico insieme a te, le foto tue con lei, le foto tue e basta.
Manchi. Sempre.

Mi sono profondamente innamorata del bar Le soleil de la butte e del barista e forse l'ha capito perché dopo due giorni che ci piantiamo ai tavoli ci ha offerto un giro di vin au verre (so meglio il francese del tedesco, non passerò gli esami ma who cares).

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“A long, long time ago, there was a kind and beautiful girl named Cinderella. Cinderella was always abused by her stepmother and stepsisters. But on one fateful day, she met a wonderful prince and thus, she lived happily ever after… Yeah, as if! Cinderellas nowadays don't have time to meet princes because of their damned part-time jobs. And on top of that, “princes" nowadays are just huge assholes. They all have Casanova complexes, and are all so damn haughty!”