this show started with two strong, smart, independent women who put their jobs and themselves first. it sent the message that girls could grow up to become anything they wanted to be; that women could be fulfilled by their work and their passions; their family and friendships. and now it’s ending with a message that women can’t have it all; that in order for a woman to be truly fulfilled, she needs to sacrifice her career and friendships and the things that make her happy in order to make time for a relationship (with a man). this show has disappointed me a lot over the years, but the direction of this series ending has hurt the most. this show could’ve been groundbreaking and instead it’s just heartbreaking.