Sorry to butt in but brizzbee's initial response did sound entitled. And "our society" is which society and where? 'Cause it's a world of difference re the society in SF/US for them and in Poland for you, and even in Sweden for me. And like, regardless of SH being set in NY where being queer is a lot more accepted, SH is set in a spn/fantasy world where homophobia is prevalent. So you can't apply w/e US society rules that exist in 2016 onto it.