So I’m seriously considering going to the shelter and adopting another cat. My cat Sterling is very chill and friendly and I’ve had him for about 5 weeks now. He’s adjusted to my apartment immediately.

I’m thinking of getting either a kitten or adult cat. However, I don’t know which age of cats seems to adjusts better to new environments or other cats. I also worry that getting another cat may upset my cat, but I plan on slowly introducing them.

Should I hold off on getting a cat? Any tips and advice would be much appreciated!!

It’s going to take me a long time to get over you and everything we had. I may get there or I may not but just know that I am trying.
—  Tenari Ioapo // I hate heartbreaks

@kummitusmusikaali and @prideandperdition tagged me for a selfie. So have some shots of me and majestic horses. ^^
I tag @mathiasismywhore , @blacksunrise6669 , @nerdgal-dorkski , @skadi-och-skjoell , @viinamaenmies , @alexi-gayhoe , @kawaiichurchburner , @asylumsammet , @tursas , @exiafang

People want you to fit into the box they want you in and if you don’t, they’ll make conclusions about your character. Even if you do fit in, they’ll talk about you. So being honest with yourself by being you is the best thing you can do. They’ll never be pleased, and we weren’t created to please people.

Personal update

Hey everyone just letting you all know I may not be on as much for a while as I am literally that girl who has fallen to pieces. My heart is aching and it can’t stop breaking from something that has happened. I am sorry I don’t want to let you all down but it’s a very emotional time for me please understand and know that I will be back as soon as I can 💛


Super thankful to have @smoke-stungeyes come and visit for the past 3 days!! Her friendship has helped me so much this past year and I’m so thankful for her. I’m also thankful for the friendship of @itskristinenotchristine and @hippocrites who we went to Amoeba and to see The National with (and The Getty and Venice Beach).

Tumblr has given me such great friends.

i can’t wait to be a Gay Farmers Market Dad y’all gonna catch me early mornings in overalls buying ripe peaches with my pet dog while my husband and our kids are still sleeping at home it’ll be great

hey friends!! i’ve been getting a lot of fashion related asks lately and i just wanted to make a note of some things

  • i can’t answer every ask. i’m so sorry but i get a ton and sometimes they’re just repeats or i simply don’t know how to answer it.
  • please check my fashion advice, coord, and ootd tags and my faq before asking!
  • if you want to ask about a specific piece that you want to know how to match, it’d actually be a lot easier if you sent me an im or un-anon message with a link / photo to the item. reason being, sometimes i can’t get a good idea of what the item actually looks like through text alone and /or matching a specific piece isn’t really relevant to all my followers.

but thank u all for sending me asks and i appreciate all the nice feedback!! i hope you all have a nice day 💕