anonymous asked:

Do you ever accidentally over hear your parents talking about how much medical bills are and immediately feel guilty about wanting to go see a therapist, cause you're afraid you're gonna make your parents broke?

Hey There Anon Friend, I’m so sorry you are feeling down.  

Know what, if your parents didn’t love you and care for you, they wouldn’t go out of their way to help you.  I would drive myself to bankruptcy and beyond for my son.  You need to speak with your parents and let them know you heard.  Here’s the thing about eavesdropping though, you may have heard only a real snippet of the conversation.  The entire conversation may have been much different and with a different outcome.  They may have come up with a plan to pay the bills or they were talking about the real cost of the medical verses what the insurance pays and what their out of pocket expense is.  

Example:  My son heard me talking about his last surgery.  The total cost was over (well over) $100,000, the anesthesiologist had billed me for $35,000.  The conversation with friends went on quite a while but he only heard about the cost of the surgery and what he thought I owed.  What we spoke about later was what the real cost to me was for us.  My total out of pocket was $500.

Talk with your parents about the situation.  Don’t let it fester and cause you additional harm or stress.

Hope that helps,

Have a peaceful day/night


After breakfast, Sylvia jumps straight to the plan.

Sylvia: We have to get the statue out of the house. I have no idea what the deal with Skylar is or when he is coming back from his surprise vacation, but if I have to take a pay cut for not delivering or pay out some money, I’m willing to do that. I just want my house to no longer contain a creepy ghost.

Barron: Sounds good. How do we go about it? 

Sylvia: Well, I figure since I brought the ghost home, it’s my job to get it out. I’m going to throw that statue away if I have to. 

Barron: So, you’re actually going to go back in there? I thought you were terrified of that thing. 

Sylvia: Well, I am. But now that I’ve had some rest, I’m seeing things a bit more rationally. The ghost didn’t actually try to hurt us, right? I think it was just trying to get noticed, to get our attention. And really, I’m just going to take the statue and take it elsewhere. Nothing happened when I was carrying it around the first time around, after all. 

Barron: Would it work? Taking it away from the house, I mean.

Sylvia: It better. If it wants to stay, then that ghost better start paying rent or something.

Barron: Nice to see you back, Sylv.

Finally got time to redraw what might be my favorite shot in the entire show <3

“Here’s what I know about Dean Winchester”

> final version

CC being more involved with the show
  • blue contacts for everyone
  • three seasons of incest angst probably
  • slutshaming :) no more clizzy friendship :)
  • alec “biphobic and petulant” lightwood
  • also blue contacts
  • idk maybe harry gets lifts in his shoes
  • because god forbid the actors look different from what she imagined
  • the inevitable start of the Heterosexual Love Triangle™
  • magnus being relegated to helpful neighbour warlock
  • healthy mother/daughter relationships? bitch where
  • death
  • please don’t let this actually happen
  • i will cry

baby, go home. he’s seen somebody else’s eyes and fallen into them. 

i know it hurts in places you can’t touch, i know the sky feels darker for it. but he’s loved somebody else, baby, and so should you.

don’t stay. you’ll spend your time worrying what you did wrong, whether tomorrow you’ll wake up and he’ll be gone. you’ll try to become better for him when you’re already somebody’s impossible dream. you’ll try to be her when you’re already exactly who you need to be.

people make mistakes, but nobody accidentally winds up naked. either he loves you enough to keep his clothes on, or he doesn’t love you enough for you to waste your time on him.

go home. cry. take long showers. tell yourself you deserve better than a future spent worrying about him.

relationships are built on trust. find somebody who won’t mess it up.

—  In answer to someone who asked me: “Do you think it’s possible to be with someone who cheated on you/Is it possible to work through that at all?” // r.i.d
An Actual Scene From Supernatural:

Dean: Cas! *laughs* Damn, it’s good to see you.
Dean: [brushes a finger across Cas’ cheek] Nice peach fuzz.

Castiel: How did you find me.
Dean: The bloody way. You feeling okay?

Benny: Why’d you bail on Dean?
Dean: [defensively] Dude.
Benny: The way I hear it you two hit monster land and hot wings here took off. I figure he owes you some back story.
Dean: Look, we were surrounded, okay? Some freak jumped Cas, obviously he kicked it’s ass, right?
Cas: [ashamed] No.
Dean: [dumbfounded] What?
Cas: I ran away.
Dean: [disbelieving] You ran away??
Cas: I had to.
Dean: That’s your excuse for leaving me with those gorilla wolves?
Cas: Dean.
Dean: You bailed out and what, went camping? - I prayed to you Cas, every night.
Cas: I know.
Dean: You know and you didn’t… [taken aback] what the hell’s wrong with you?
Cas: I am an angel in a land of abominations. There have been things hunting me from the moment we arrived.
Dean: Join the club!
Cas: These are not just monsters, Dean, they’re leviathan! I have a price on my head, and I’ve been trying to stay one step ahead of them, to… to keep them away from you. That’s why I ran.
Dean: [relaxes] [understands]

Dean: Hold on, hold on. Cas, we’re getting out of here. We’re going home. 
Cas: Dean, I can’t.
Dean: You can.

Dean: Hey, we’ll figure it out. Cas, buddy, I need you.
Cas: [brokenly] Dean…


Dean: Let me bottom-line it for you. I’m not leaving here without you. Understand?
Cas: I understand.