My older brother and I are Chinese, and a tiny bit Korean. I’d say my brother’s pretty handsome and attractive. He’s really smart and is taking a lot of courses, which I’m super proud of. A few of the girls in my brother’s grade (11) admire him and crush on him because, I shit you not, say he’s “the perfect Korean Idol!!!111” and it really pisses me off when they try to act cutesy around him to gain his attention. He really hates fake people and overdone girls. The girls don’t care about the fact that he’s smart, or he has a little social anxiety, or any of the factors leading up to his personality. It’s as if they only care that he’s cute and tall and “everything a boy band member should be!!”. Every time I talk to him in the hallways or walk with him home some girl gives me the evil eye. Like, I’m his sister?? What’s wrong with that?? He has a strong dislike for Koreaboos and Weeaboos, but when a crazed fangirl asks him out he’s always mindful to let the down slowly. Over time, some of the girls started to realize I was a “dear Abby” column just waiting to be exploited. They started asking me what he looked like just out of the shower, his favorite foods, tv shows, etc, and two girls even asked me to snag a photo of him (preferably sleeping). How fucking overboard and obsessed??? I always told them “I’m his sister, don’t be creepy”.
Meanwhile, in my grade, a few people are convinced that I would “make a perfect girl group member” and constantly harass me to dance or sing for them. I’m pretty good at singing and regularly participate in the school choir, but koreaboos have regularly expressed disappointment that I’m singing in English. Good thing is my older brother (who towers over most people) helps ward off creep-o’s. The two of us are really annoyed and we really hate having to express desires for personal space every. single. day.
Can you do a reaction when their girlfriend has ADHD? <3
I would just like to say that these reactions might suggest that I think people with ADHD “need help” or are endless balls of energy and/or anxiety but I in no way think that way, I’ll just admit straight-forward that I’m not well educated about ADHD so these reaction might be invalid and/or offensive and I apologize so so so much if that is the case.
Xiumin:*he would learn to deal with your lack of focus, disorganization, fidgeting and squirming, and impatience along with all the other ADHD symptoms quite well after you told him about your ADHD* “I’m sorry for being so impatient and misunderstanding towards you all those times before in the past when symptoms would show up, especially when we were in public together, I’m sorry I didn’t figure this out on my own. I hope you can forgive me for not understanding before, now that I know I’ll do everything I can treat you fairly”
Luhan: “hmmm” *he hums as he looks at the diagnostic reports* “that makes sense, I guess” *he would’ve been entering your behavior online to see if anything came up and each time had lead to ADHD symptoms but he had wanted to make absolute sure. Now that he was sure that you had ADHD he could look up how to deal with it in a proper manner*
Kris: “ADHD? Really?” *he’d ask you over and over again. He hadn’t known that there was so much more to ADHD other than hyperactivity before so he’d be caught off guard with the symptoms that you list off that pertain to your ADHD*
Suho: *he would do so much research on what all of the symptoms of ADHD are and how it affects different people. Suho would want to make sure that he knew anything and everything about ADHD so that he could understand you 1000%. He’d read as many online articles and websites dedicated to explaining it and buy many books too, often asking you if what the readings said were anything like what you experienced and if you said yes he’d remember but if the answer was no than he’d look for other explanations until he found an answer or until you told him yourself* “Hey Y/N, this article says that people with ADHD, ADD, Anxiety and other things benefit from these “spinner…. fidget…. machine things…. whatever they are. Is that true? Do you want to buy one and see if it helps you at all?”
Yixing: *he would make sure that you didn’t feel ashamed for having ADHD, he’d know that you couldn’t control it and didn’t feel so secure about it when you are with him because he might not (or did not) Understand and might have thought you were strange, annoying, or even worse… crazy* “it’s OK Y/N” *he’d assure you with a bright smile and loving kisses to your forehead as you both cuddle on the couch* “I still love you and don’t see you any differently, don’t feel so discouraged, just because you have ADHD it doesn’t mean that you’re any less valid as a human being or as my lover. I’ll always love you no matter what you do or do not have and I hope the same is for me from you”
Baekhyun: *This energetic fluff ball would actually struggle to keep up with you as signs of your ADHD completely exploded from you, especially the running around energetically to stopping almost immediately only to return to running around again, then the signs of fidgetting and squirming as he back hugged you to get you to “calm down “ long enough for him to at least catch his breath and get a hold of the situation* “Y/N please, I know you can’t help it but I’m so out of breathe, I might die.” *you might succeed in wearing him out to the point of taking a nap anywhere that he happens to be at the moment his eyelids become to heavy to keep open*
Chen: “ADHD you say?” *he says, looking at you interested in the sudden information he’s been given* “Well, to be quite honest I kinda suspected it but didn’t want to say anything in case it would offend you so I’m not that surprised but I’m still glad that you told me now and I’ll always love you”
Chanyeol: *he would handle this information well once you told him as you two were eating pizza, switching between playing video games, watching movies, building forts then taking them down, to cuddling then repeating the cycle again. Like Yixing, Chanyeol would assure you that there was nothing wrong with having ADHD and that, in his eyes, you were still the perfect to him in every way that is possible for a human to be perfect. There would be 111% love and support from him at all times*“I’ll always love you no matter what. I don’t care if you’re have ADHD or if you didn’t, I’ll always be there for you no matter what, even if I don’t understand your behavior or actions sometimes”
Kyungsoo:*he would pay close attention, stressing and feeling some pity for you as you try to pay attention during situations when your ADHD was especially bad, spending as much time on your homework and other activities as possible before losing interest or switching to something else for some other reason, trying to stay organized, and trying not to get so distracted by things. When you get upset over not being able to control those things he’d be there to tell you that you’re are doing you’re best* “I know it bothers you a lot but all we can do is try to deal with it as best as possible and you’re doing such a good job right now. I’ll never know what it’s like to have ADHD so of course you’re probably scolding me about it in your head and telling me that what I’m saying is easy for me to say and that you don’t want to deal with it anymore but there’s really nothing we can do but just stick together and deal with it”
Tao:*Tao might have some breaking points where he’ll be too exhausted to help you deal with your ADHD but he’ll try his best to make sure that doesn’t happen often and that he at least attempts to understand what you’re going through. he’ll still love you no matter what, even when he’s too exhausted* “I may not understand and I may not always be able to keep up or be there for you but I regret those days and I’ll do my best to better inform myself of what your ADHD does to you so that I can be there for you always”
Kai:*Kai is very understanding,supportive and easygoing. He wouldn’t let your ADHD get in the way of him loving you and being by your side at every possible moment and when he can’t be there for you because he’s busy with schedules or is on an extensive tour he’ll at least call you or video chat you as often as he can manage and ask how everything is going* “I still have 3 more months until this tour is finished. I love you and miss you every day, every second. How was your day? Did you eat well? Are you doing ok?”
Sehun:*he’ll ask you questions and do research, like Suho. Sehun might even go the extra mile and look up articles and/or books about advice on how to treat people with ADHD* “so, if you have ADHD then does that really mean that you are always energetic and can’t pay attention to things or is what everyone says about ADHD wrong? I want to know so that I don’t misunderstand you”
While collecting an example of every iPod made, Grady began using iPods as a medium for art. He began a year-long process of procuring thousands of broken iPods to be used in mosaic motif. Drawing from digital and 8-bit icons, Grady in his second act has finished his first collection of iPod art to be presented in his first gallery exhibit, “Pixel Perfect” at 111 Minna Gallery April 24, 2014.
THE BEGINNING OF THE SONG IS LIKE BAAAMMM WITH THOSE KICKASS SUPER COOL VOCALS LIKE OHHHO HHH OHOHO HOH OHOH H AND THEN THE DRUMS AND THEN HER VOICE COMES OUT OF NOWHERE LIKE AN ANGEL’S AND THEN POLAROIDS AND THEN SCREAMING COLOR AND THEN ARE WE OUT OF THEW OODS YET ARE WE OUT OF THE WOODS YET ARE WE OUT OF THEWOODS YET AND THEN THE FUCKING TWO PAPER AIRPLANES FLYING BYE I AM DEAD AND THEN THE FUCKING BRIDGE AT THAT POINT I WAS LIERALLY CRYING BECAUSE THE BRIDGE!!!! IS!!!!!! SO!!!! PERFECT!!!!!!!!111 AND THEN “I REMEMBEMEMBERRRRRRRRRR!!!!” AND THEN AREWEOUTOFTHEWOODS SOME MORE AND THEN THOSE LITTLE “YEAHHH!!"S IN TEH BACKGROUND GOOD FUCKING BYE AND DON’T GET ME STARTED ON THE ENDING "ARE WE IN THE CLEAR YET GOOD!!!!!!!!"