Since Bel most likely won’t have a younger sibling until she’s at least 10 years old and seeing as how all my siblings I actually know are within 5 years of age…. would anyone like to share some pros, cons, or stories about having a sibling or children with 10+ year age gap?

It feels like everyone believes in you…except yourself. And that's the only thing stopping you. If others can believe in you, why can’t you?
—  My Mother trying to make me realize i CAN do it. 
When I’m a parent I’m definitely going to ask my child often “are you okay?”
I never want my child to be crying their eyes out when I’m peacefully sleeping under the same roof and I certainly never want them to feel like there’s nobody there for them. Because I always will be.
At some point, Fred said ‘No, no, no this isn’t good enough, I have to go higher here, I have to put more into this, I have to get more power in.’ So he downs a couple of more vodkas, stands up, and goes for it. And you can hear the middle eight of 'Mother Love’ just soars to incredible heights…. and this is a man who can’t really stand any more without incredible pain and is very weak, has no flesh on his bones, and you can hear the power, the will he’s got.
—  Brian May in a BBC Radio 1 interview in 1995

“I still have good memories of him.”

“Of course you do and that’s okay. There’s nothing wrong with having fond memories of him, don’t let anyone ruin that for you.”

—  Conversations with my mom || Chapters from my life