there are literally two things i will never forgive y’all (tumblr as a collective) for. that being:

  1. trying to tell me, a black woman, why mattie, a black woman, deserved to die.
  2. trying to tell me, a black lesbian, why poussey, a black lesbian, needed to die to teach our oppressors a lesson.

anonymous asked:

Hey I hope this isn't too much of a bother, but I really need help: literally every. single. time. I go to my astral space I/it gets attacked and invaded. I honestly don't know what to do anymore, I protect myself before I go, I have a thick, multi-layered shield/ward up, constantly cleanse the space, have some sort of selfmade guardian protection & try to raise the vibration whenever possible & I STILL get attacked, I even had a spirit fake being a guardian & it's so draining and frustrating :(

I…huh…That does sound rather annoying. I’ve never encountered that problem though. Maybe one of the other mods can help.

~Mod Faery

Hello to all my followers, you must have noticed my absence (some maybe), you will know a part of what I’m going through, this is a phase of drastic changes in my life, I ask you not to worry … Are family and financial problems, maybe personal too … I see that this community is dying and I feel the same way with my problems … but rest assured, gramsims is still alive … thank you

Originally posted by heavy-metal-lover-lady-gaga-blog

tomorrow is a new day so please hold on, i know your days drag and they feel so long. but remember that after dark there is light, that the day will only come after the night. you’re gonna come across highs and lows, days will come and you may feel all alone. but you’ll rise i can promise, you’ll find yourself i’ll be honest. maybe you might fall back my friend, but you’ll rise and your problems will end. you’ll find your way and your path, you’ll learn to find solutions to problems so hard. today may be painful i know, but you gotta pray for it to go. struggle in silence and keep faith, patience is so much more than having to wait. hold on and don’t let the world break you, you’re amazing on your own don’t let society make you. remember these words of mine, you’re gonna survive.
—  thesmilingakh

anonymous asked:

do you ever tougth that maybe camila's ocd became a big problem for de group? it could explain so many things... the unhealthy relationship with lauren, fights with the group (normani, mostly), If I recall camila has said late 2015 was when she realised it had been a issue

maybe? never thought about it 😧

anonymous asked:

so uh i just ruined the only friendship i had over something stupid, please tell me this is because of all the planets in retrogade. usually i can control myself but this time i was just all over the place and totally reckless, i feel so shitty right now

You know, I feel like things that you usually lose during the retrograde are things you are meant to lose. Maybe this friendship you had was lost because you’re meant for better things. I hope you feel better. Retrogrades are supposed to bring up deep problems that were always present, but maybe hidden also.

wikileaks: *leaks a bunch of horrible shady shit on us government institutions*

us government officials: we are aware that after the recent leaks the public is troubled and we want to put your mind at ease. it is our promise to you, the american people, that in the wake of this leaking of sensitive information, that there will be no more leaks and we will catch the traitors responsib


This is a friend over on Instagrams doing!! She posted a pic of Varric smiling and I had to see what smiling Solas looked like… So yeah! This is what he would look like if he really liked showing us those gnashers… 🤔 I feel very conflicted… Nice to see him smile and all but hmmm…. Also, I think we should all ignore the fact that he looks a bit like Gargamel in the bottom left pic… Yes… As you can see, I have had a very productive morning and got many, many important things done… *pats self on back*

You know what, the ‘suddenly, there’s 5 more Winter Soldiers’ subplot

has gotten a lot of flack, and I don’t disagree that it could and should have been handled a lot better, but even as it is, I really really like what it says, or rather, confirms about Bucky.

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As an INFP I...

-procrastinate 24/7
-never sleep when I should
-cry too much about small things
-automatically take things personally
-say the worst puns
-never read or follow instructions
-always lose track of time
-am never sure of anything
-forget all practical information
-always get lost irl and in my thoughts
-never know anything for sure
-am super clumsy
-worry too much about tiny disagreements
-talk to myself, a lot
-sing songs about everything
-am an emotional rollercoaster
-make things awkward

Hey to all those people telling people “ it’s not so bad, just power through the cramps” when they're on their period because it’s not an excuse to miss school/work etc.!

I had bad cramps today, but I tried to “power through it” and went to class anyways, even though my grandmother had to drive me because I couldn’t walk to the bus.

I tried to “power through it” when I started to feel like I was going to throw up in the middle of my lecture, leaving to take a walk outside in the cold to try and clear my head, even though walking made my right side feel as though it was being ripped in two.

I tried to “power through it” when I started getting cold sweat all over my body, taking off my sweater and then putting it back on two seconds later because my body couldn’t decide if it was hot or cold.

 I tried to “power through it” when spots started to appear in my vision, and just kept walking towards the exit.

I tried to “power through it” when I started to dry heave, and started walking faster.

I tried to “power through it” when my ears started ringing and the spots took over my vision and I was so so hot but shivering and my side felt on fire and twisted into knots and stabbed all at once.

I tried to power through it to the point where I collapsed in the middle of my college hallway. A stranger brought me to Outreach Services, where I lay on the floor, vomiting, for an hour until somebody could pick me up and take me home.

The school paramedics told me that I had passed out because I put too much stress on my already taxed body. My body was taxed because of hormonal fluctuations and blood loss aka my period.

Nothing like this has ever happened to me before. In the past when I’ve had cramps like this, I’ve stayed in bed and eaten strawberries and watched MASH all day.

So don’t you DARE tell me that you should “power through the cramps and do it anyways”. Powering through made me pass out. Powering through made me have to be wheeled out of the school in a wheelchair because I couldn’t keep my balance to walk. Powering through made my grandmother with osteoporosis and a tendency to panic have to come pick me up from school and help me up the stairs and almost break her hip when I started to collapse backwards on the front steps. Powering through made my 13 year old brother have to supervise me while I took a bath because I was afraid I would pass out and drown (he was super sweet about it actually; we closed the curtain and he read me Voyage of the Dawn Treader). Powering through made my mother who works to support our family pretty much on her own have to take time off work to come home and make sure I was okay.

In conclusion; If someone feels crappy because of their period cramps, leave them alone. Don’t make them do things anyways, because you might make it worse. And definitely don’t make them feel bad for not wanting to do things because of cramps; that’s the reason I even got out of bed this morning. Be nice to people on their period. Possibly buy them chocolate or painkillers. Nut don’t make them do things when they have cramps, and definitely don’t tell them “it’s nothing, power through” because cramps? Cramps can be one of the worst things you could possibly imagine.

Seriously. Fuck you all.


Then and now