Lanalphabet: Drugs.

“ I was a big drinker at the time. I would drink every day. I would drink alone. I thought the whole concept was so fucking cool. A great deal of what I wrote on ‘Born To Die’ is about these wilderness years (…)  My parents were worried, I was worried. I knew it was a problem when I liked it more than I liked doing anything else. I was like, 'I’m fucked. I am totally fucked’. (…)  Like, at first it’s fine and you think you have a dark side – it’s exciting – and then you realise the dark side wins every time if you decide to indulge in it. It’s also a completely different way of living when you know that… a different species of person. It was the worst thing that ever happened to me.”

I just spent the entire day talking on the phone with my boyfriend and it was the best thing in the world. There were times when we didn’t need to talk we just sat there quietly listening to what the other was doing or just doing our own thing and it was so calming and peaceful and just /nice/. And just being able to talk to him for 10 hours without much interruption on my end was really refreshing because I’m always worried about parents coming home or my brothers being here and it was just real nice and I wanted to brag and talk about it for a little while. So yeah ☺️ Today was really good.

anonymous asked:

Both my bf and I are INTJs. Currently we're in a ldr, which has worked out well up until now. Recently we've started to get frustrated with each other more often and although we talk it out, it seems as if we keep coming back to similar issues. He's also mentioned that lately he doesn't feel as connected, that he can't seem to get through to me, especially emotionally. I'm trying to be as open with him as possible, and I'm at a loss of what to do.

HBF: Create a profile on any dating website and add the following. 

“Do you like pineapple and coconut based cocktails? Do you like getting wet in the rain? Do you hate new age shit like yoga and astrology? Are you intelligent and like champagne over beer? I love to have sex in public and the beach is one of my favourite places. Especially at night. I know this cape near my place where we can get it on ;) If you like doing all the above, then message me and we can escape our boring lives together”

Now comes the waiting. You HAVE to wait for someone who is witty and funny. He will probably say something like “Yes I like all of those. I have to see you by tomorrow noon. Come to this bar (preferably an Irish pub) where we will plan our next moves.”

Then, go to this bar and voila, your boyfriend will be there (trust me!). Then, I’m guessing you will both laugh and forget the fact that you tried to cheat on each other. Instead, it will be a bonding exercise where you realise you had more in common than you thought previously and you will re-connect and he won’t be distant anymore and your relationship is fixed.