I really like the idea of being a stay at home wife/mom. I like the idea of keeping my house and laundry clean, making good and quality meals for my family when they wake up or get home, and being able to help quickly in case of an emergency at my husband's or children's work/school. I would love to properly take care of them and make sure their quality of life at home is amazing but tumblr has made me feel guilty about feeling this way tbh
A general rule of thumb is not to trust Tumblr’s judgement.
You can do anything as long as it’s discussed by and agreed upon by both parties. There’s nothing wrong with being a SAHM, so long as you’re not building up resentment from miscommunication and ‘compromise’ and so long as your partner is okay with supporting you financially. What you do, as long as it isn’t immoral and so long it doesn’t affect other people, stays within the marriage, not under the noses of snobby fuckers who think they know better than you do.