Just to kind of make it more clear, yes I’ve come out as nonbinary. I want to be called they/them. I don’t feel like a male or female despite being born as a male. I’ve never been happy being called a man or boy or anything growing up and it honestly made me feel weird and confused. It’s always been an issue with me I’ve kept away for a really long time. My parents are very set in their ways which often scared me growing up to tell them I didn’t feel like a boy. They still don’t know and I don’t think they ever will at this point.
For those who are my friends and don’t understand: You’re welcome to ask me questions if you don’t understand. You’re welcome to stop being my friend if you want. While I hope you can eventually get used to calling me “Jordan” instead of Matt and refer to me as “they/them” instead of “he/him.” It’s ok to accidentally misgender me, don’t feel stressed out talking to me or feel bad if you slip up. It’s ok. Just correct yourself and move on!
For those who have been following me for a while: You’re welcome to unfollow if it makes you uncomfortable for WHATEVER reason. It’s ok if you misgender me as well, I know all the URLs who have been following me for a long time, both mutuals and nonmutuals. Again, just correct and move on!
For new followers/recently followed: Hey, thanks for following, I hope you enjoy my blog!
What this means for me: I’ll go about my life like I have been, my appearance might change in the coming months for me to feel more comfortable but nothing major, mainly just my hair probably. I’ll continue to dress mutually (prob a bit more fashionably tho) as I currently do.
That’s about it really. This is a big step and it’s nice to really get it out there officially.