really important info (ill be gone for a few days)

hey so i kinda wont be on for a few days
tomorrow my counselor is pulling my mom into school and me, her, mom, and my bf are going to talk abt my issues. im deleting the tumblr app off my phone in case she tries to check my phone like last time

stay safe ok,??

anonymous asked:

Are you in an abusive relationship?

It has been abusive at times yes, and I’ve gotten scared and decided to stay because he was going through so much. There hasn’t been an incident for months now and I hope there wont be again because if there is there will be no excuse and ill be gone for good.


“Nick loved a girl I was pretending to be. “Cool girl”. Men always use that, don’t they? As their defining compliment. “She’s a cool girl”. Cool girl is hot. Cool girl is game. Cool girl is fun. Cool girl never gets angry at her man. She only smiles in a chagrined, loving manner and then presents her mouth for fucking. She likes what he likes. When I met Nick Dunne, I knew he wanted cool girl. And for him, I’ll admit, I was willing to try. I wax-stripped my pussy raw. I drank canned beer watching Adam Sandler movies. I ate cold pizza and remained a size two. I blew him semi-regularly. I lived in the moment.
I was f u c k i n g game.”

But Gone Girl’s apparent problems with women lurk beyond just Amy, too. The film’s male lead, Nick (Ben Affleck), Amy’s husband, laments that he’s spent his life with women controlling his every move, and when he settles in at her side by movie’s end, he’s been completely broken of his spirit. This, it would be easy for an anti-feminist critic to argue, is the logical conclusion of women’s dominion over men — a mostly good guy imprisoned by a vile monster who holds him in place with her womb.

Couple that with Fincher’s … let’s say … less-than-perfect track record with female characters in the past, in films ranging from Fight Club to The Social Network to The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo, and you have a perfect storm, just waiting for thinkpieces to erupt.

But open up Gone Girl and dig around in its guts, and you find something surprising. This is perhaps the most feminist mainstream movie in years, a forthright depiction of the ways that society controls women and forces them into certain roles, then lets men basically do whatever they want. Amy Dunne might be a monster, but she’s no sui generis psychopath. No, she’s Frankenstein’s monster, stitched together by a husband, parents, and a social order that demanded she be certain things, rather than who she really was.

And in destroying her husband’s life, she’s symbolically taking back power for women everywhere.


take this as an apology and a (rubbish) explanation of why i have suddenly stopped talking about anything except this stupid show

i got most images apart from two from google or i screenshotted them; the credit for the other two go to hostile-17-owes-me-kittens and psicosomatico

(this was made between the 3rd and 4th eps of s2)

(here’s where you can watch it internationally)

(sorry again)

edit: if you’re in the uk, please watch it on iplayer if it’s on there, we need the ratings! :)

edit no 2: please take part in the #saveintheflesh campaign - we don’t yet know whether we’re going to get a 3rd series!

edit no 3: in the flesh has been cancelled but check out this post to see how you can help to bring it back!

Reading that fanfic again for the 100th time and it's like slipping on those pjs you've worn to perfection and everything is good in the world.

NO WAY, BABY [listen here] | (a gone girl mix)

i. this is what it feels like - banks | ii. hunger of the pine - alt j | iii. jdnt - glass animals | iv. dig a grave - dark dark dark | v. texture of my blood - dillon | vi. wicked games - katie kim | vii. adelma - grizzly bear | viii. gun (jamie isaac remix) - chvrches | ix. cannibals - kyla la grange | x. gun - emiliana torrini | xi. blue blood blues - the dead weather | xii. you’re so dark - arctic monkeys | xiii. 10 cent pistol -  the black keys | xiv. no rest for the wicked - lykke li | xv. cruel world - lana del rey | xvi. ghostly arms - zoo animal | xvii. sour times - portishead | xviii. darling are you gonna leave me - london grammar | xix. biggy - warpaint | xx. shallow - 16bit | xxi. gravediggress - cocorosie | xxii. babylong - sza | xxiii. i follow rivers - lykke li | xxiv. two weeks - fka twigs | xxv. begging for thread  - banks | xxvi. skull crushing - cliff martinez