Yesterday I met some older women who talked about how much they need to fake in their everyday lives. They moved from bigger cities to a small village in the middle of nowhere. They told me how they have to adopt a certain way of speaking (no foreign words), make sure that they fake to get up at 7AM (the neighbours are watching and will call you out if you are up after midnight or sleep in longer, this includes weekends), never cook the stuff they want when neighbours are around (no fancy or foreign stuff, nothing vegetarian), how they avoid certain topics to not offend the “redneck-like” neighbours and to not be seen as the weirdos. It is really depressing. All of those reasons why I never want to live in a village again and women who had some very fullfilled lives tell me how they fake it every day to not be excluded from society. They also said that they have to break out every few weeks to go to a big city, because otherwise they couldn’t bear it.

Isn’t it depressing? I wouldn’t want to live like that. I wouldn’t want to pretend.

thecrystalotaku  asked:

Yesterday I was at a convention and there was a Chat and Ladybug cosplayer so I asked for their picture and after I was like "wow Heartstrings irl amirite" and they both went "omg yes we read that wasn't it great???" And I still can't believe your fic has reached a great enough audience that I met readers in real life for some reason it just blows me away also I hope you have a great day :)


Abs from this morning! It has been a hard weekend for me. I’ve been struggling with some emotional eating at my parent’s house and my IBS is acting up. I look a lot better than I did yesterday! But hey, it’s a new week. Even if I stumble a bit, I’m still not giving up on my journey. I can’t let yesterday influence the present moment.
Also, I’ve met so many amazing, kind, and beautiful people that inspire me to keep pushing on to be the best I can be. I am so blessed to have a wonderful following. You guys are the best! I can’t wait to continue growing and connecting with more people! I hope I can serve as an inspiration. I’m here to support you all the way!

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anonymous asked:

Okay so I met this girl on the sub yesterday and her name was Lynn, and she had the side of her head shaved, and I asked her what her inspiration was, because I'm curious and because she's cute af and she said, "Lynn Gunn from PVRIS, do you know her?" And now I'm running to get coffee and some fucking muffins because said girl is at my place, still sleeping. Let's just say, I had a good weekend and I thought I'd share.

this just made my entire week, thank you

ask me things, tell me things!


Seif: So what do you have planned for today?

Kirtana: I thought I could go around town and do some job searching, then I have a date, and then -

Seif: Wait, a date?

Kirtana laughed.

Kirtana: Yeah, I met this guy at the gym yesterday…

Seif tried to smile, but it came out as more of a grimace.

Seif: Great, have fun.

Then he pulled out his iPad, effectively ignoring Kirtana for the rest of her meal.

Turning 25

So I turn 25 in about 25 hours…damn
I’m not scared tho, I mean yeah I still have no fucking clue what the meaning of life is or my purpose but I’m content. I’m have a lot that I want to accomplish but 24 taught me that everything comes in due time. With that being said you have to of course work for the things you want but don’t get discouraged when it doesn’t happen over night. Continue to push forward and be better than you were yesterday. 24 had a great beginning a crazy middle and the best ending possible. I went into 24 feeling loved and found. I messed around with some women and then met someone who stole my heart and made me calm and crazy at the same time. Starting my 25th year on this planet I will be back in school (future psychiatrist) I will be moving into my first place as of September 30th. I am in a healthy relationship, and trying to live a healthier lifestyle. I have stopped apologizing for things I’m not sorry about and I have cemented some friendships and started other. I have reached a new level of woke and have become spiritual. It seems like 24 was the game changer and I can only hope 25 is bigger and better. I wish everyone reading this nothing but internal peace, happiness in all forms, and an abundance of love in the way you accept it. Thanks for rocking with me this long, and I hope you stay down for the ride

anonymous asked:

This is gonna sound weird, but can you throw some shade to a Libra? there was a lack of libra shade yesterday, and most people i've met either hate us or love us and id love to know why 😅-Libra Sun


Originally posted by tripcontrol


I went to NYC yesterday to see the Arbus exhibit at the Met Breuer (it’s, um, definitely her early work but the way it’s hung is absolutely amazing) and stayed for the UnFinished exhibit (about ten million times better than I expected and also they pried some late Turners out of Britain!) and then basically binge-read Didion in various Central Park locations and hung out with a friend at South Street Seaport and motherfucker. As a Philadelphian I am required to make a face at the very concept of NYC, but I loved it. I loved it so much – it was huge, and clean and interesting and no one was, you know, openly beating their child on the subway and I want to move there so bad.

Fingers crossed for next spring. I want to live there SO BAD.

xstalkingtheshadowsx  asked:

Help me pls I met a really cute British boy yesterday and I got his number how do I flirt

find a point of common interest so you can start talking and get to know him. when you think it’s comfortable enough maybe you can ask him to hang at your place or grab some dinner sometime?(if you want it more casual you can go for coffee)  its ok though if you want him to make the first move if ever. i honestly don’t know how to properly flirt but  let the conversation be natural and free-flowing, don’t overthink too much stuff but be fearless in talking about the deeper aspects of life (i know i have). have confidence in what you say. when you meet again in person, eye contact is good- body language is important. idk every relationship is really different and there’s no quadratic formula to it so i suggest to just trust your instincts and have fun! 

if all else fails lure him in with some beans on toast and english breakfast tea and lock him in your basement

Get to know me tag

I was tagged by @my-lungs-will-phil. Thanks for tagging me! :)


  • Drink: water
  • Phone call: my dad
  • Text: my cousin
  • Song you listened to: Polarize by twenty one pilots
  • You cried: like 3 weeks ago


  • Dated someone twice: I didn’t even date someone once haha…..
  • Been cheated on: nope
  • Kissed someone and regretted it: no
  • Lost some special: yes
  • Been depressed: yes
  • Been drunk and thrown up: no

List 3 favorite colors: black, red and purple


  • Made a new friend: yes
  • Fallen out of love: no
  • Laughed until you cried: yesterday actually when i saw a picture of ash ketchum bald
  • Met someone who changed you: yes
  • Found out who your true friends are: YES YES YES 100% YES
  • Found out someone was talking about you: yes
  • Kissed anyone on your fb list: I don’t even have a Facebook page


  • How many ppl from your fb list do you know irl: ^
  • Do you have any pets: no :(
  • Do you want to change your name: no, I really love it
  • What did you do for your last birthday: I had a ‘party’ with my friends
  • What time did you wake up today: 10:20 am
  • What were you doing last night at midnight: drawing
  • Name something you can’t wait for: I really have no idea? Food battle? Pinof 8?? idk
  • Last time you saw your mom: 20 minutes ago
  • One thing you wish you could change about your life: the people around me
  • What are you listening to right now: Ruby by twenty one pilots
  • Have you ever talked to a person named Tom: not that i remember
  • What’s getting on your nerves right now: literally everything
  • Blood type: I have no idea
  • Nickname: don’t have one
  • Relationship status: single af
  • Zodiac sign: Leo
  • Pronouns: She/her
  • Favorite tv show: don’t have one
  • High school: going into my first year, which here in the 10th grade
  • Long or short hair: I have really long hair
  • Height: 1,65m which is about 5′5″
  • Do you have a crush on someone: no
  • What do you like about yourself: I’m honest, I’m very passionate about the things that I love
  • Right or left handed: right
  • First surgery: never had one
  • First best friend: I never really had one
  • First sport you joined: I played basketball for one year


  • Eating: nothing
  • Drinking: nothing
  • I’m about to: go to bed
  • Listening to: Ode To Sleep by twenty one pilots
  • Kids: nope
  • Get married: yes
  • Career: I’d love to be a photographer or a graphic designer


  • Lips or eyes: eyes
  • Hugs or kisses: hugs
  • Taller or shorter: I don’t really care
  • Romantic or spontaneous: spontaneous
  • Older or younger: again, I don’t care
  • Nose, stomach or nice arms: arms
  • Sensitive or loud: idc
  • Hookup or relationship: relationship
  • Troublemaker or hesitant: idc

HAVE YOU EVER ((again?))

  • Kissed a stranger: no
  • Drank liquor: no
  • Lost glasses/contacts: nope
  • Had sex on the first date: ???no
  • Broke someone’s heart: not that I know, probably no
  • Turned someone down: no
  • Cried when someone died: yes
  • Fallen for a friend: no


  • Yourself: no, I try
  • Miracles: no
  • Love at first sight: no
  • Kissing on first date: yes

I tag @squiggy7, @opathia, @ironicanthropologist, @lookihaveacello and @kreeolecaay. You don’t have to do this if you don’t want to!

“)(appy birthday @askbl00zee !! A full year has past since you’ve started the tras)( pit. It feels just like yesterday!”

((Really though, I feel like this has been one of the best years of my life. A year ago today I met one of my best friends that I wouldn’t trade for the world. Happy first birthday, bloozee!))

                 she spots the younger girl the second she enters the store, quietly sneaking to her side once her focus is taken, and then – ella lightly squeezes anna’s waist, piping a “boo!” but interrupting it with her giggle. “that’s so funny, i ran into hana just yesterday too!” ella had met anna’s friend by coincidence when she had been over at the sisters’ house, discussing some of qing’s ideas for her new line. “you two should come by my house some time for dinner,” ella beams, recalling how hana had asked about one of her recipes. “qing too.”

                       ( @sheebwrites )

AUGUST 15TH - goodbye germany and new zealand here i come!

it’s always hard to say goodbye, there is no way around. i left berlin yesterday morning and my wonderful family as well as a whole bunch of my friends came to the train station to wave us goodbye which made me super happy. i love you guys, see you soon <3 

taking the train to frankfurt wasn’t too exhausting. we met a girl who traveled to new zealand and the fiji’s before and she recommended some nice spots and affordable hostels to us. already felt some good backpacker vibes :D 

the flight was nine hours long and tiring. lulu accidentally ordered the weirdest south korean food, it was hilarious 😂 we tried a salty soup made out of algae and rice porridge with onions and stuff that looked like fish food. korean air is a super nice airline though, we even got slippers 😂 

we landed in south korea at around 6 a.m. german time. right now i’m sitting at the airport in seoul, super tired and not ready for another long flight. but in 13 ½ hours i will finally arrive in new zealand! i’m excited for auckland, for the hostel, for meeting my guy best friend one more time, for buying a car (maybe one that we can sleep in??) and for finding a job! emmy xx

Okay, so I had a dream yesterday night that Dru was married. Not to Balthazar for some reason, but to a woman.

If you haven’t met her yet, meet Cassie.

For a very weird reason, I’m starting to liking Dru and her. I still love Balthazar and Dru though! But like one of them can be an AU ship, would that be fair? I just love both ships so hard right now it’s painful to choose!

different types of systems i’ve met/noticed:

  • everyone is always screaming and front is often stolen if someone is mentioned
  • mildly dysfunctional family in which headmates call each other out sometimes/tease each other but also keep each other in check
  • extremely dysfunctional family in which the headspace is literally a hellscape
  • “we have a new headmate” “you just got one yesterday” “yeah the one from yesterday dragged this one in” “oh my god”

feel free to add your own, these were only from memory

Originally posted by mindedful

Rules: tag some people you’d like to get to know better

I was tagged by @ouat2011 @jurcyte and @girlmeetsrileyandlucas

I tag:


FAVORITE FANDOM: Um like ever? I’m going to say the Sunset Beach Fandom, so yeah a fandom from 1997-1999. I met some of my best friends in the world in that fandom and yes I still talk to several of them to this day.

LANGUAGES YOU SPEAK: English and a little bit of French, I really need to brush up on it.

FAVORITE FILM OF 2015/2016: Magic Mike XXL, Pitch Perfect 2

LAST ARTICLE YOU READ:  Um, oh about Pre-Veto/Post-Veto happenings in the Big Brother house yesterday and Paulie’s pity party.


More Than a Feeling *NSYNC
Indian Summer Brooks & Dunn
How Forever Feels Kenny Chesney

LAST THING YOU BOUGHT ONLINE: Ecto-Cooler from Amazon Prime

ANY PHOBIAS OR FEARS: I’m afraid of Cows and Turkeys, I got attacked by both when I was like Axton’s age. My step-mom thinks I’m nuts, she didn’t understand why I wouldn’t go near the cows that used to live behind us. Also I get nervous with heights, again drives my step-mom crazy because she always wants me to be the one to climb the high ladders.

HOW WOULD YOUR FRIENDS DESCRIBE YOU? Um, Sassy, Sweet, Mother of the Group.

HOW WOULD YOUR ENEMIES DESCRIBE YOU? I’m pretty sure Evil Bitch who steals creativity is what I’ve been called, probably worse.

WHO WOULD YOU TAKE A BULLET FOR? My nephew, my family, hopefully I never have to.