Just to be clear

You can be polyamorous and still cheat.
You can be polyamorous and still cheat.
You can be polyamorous and still cheat.
You can be polyamorous and still cheat.
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One of the most liberating feelings in the world is realizing you don’t owe anyone shit

You don’t have to be friends with someone who treats you like crap even if you’ve known them your whole life. You don’t even owe them an explanation either. You get to choose who gets to be in your life. It’s a privilege, not a birth given right. 

If someone is hurting you or just flat out annoying, you don’t have to give them the time of day. Please cut the shitty people out of your life and surround yourself with awesome ones who make you happy. You deserve nothing but happiness and anyone who brings you down doesn’t deserve to be in it. 

anonymous asked:

i just realized havent had an opinion that was actually mine literally ever and now im sad...

:/ oh jeez that sounds like a kind of a scary realization

 i get you though….it can be so hard to actually like introspect (idk i can’t think of the word) and realize what you /actually/ believe, especially when you’re in a place where you don’t want to look inward because feel like you don’t /deserve/ opinions…or if you’ve just never been allowed to form them on your own

idk i don’t know your situation, and i don’t know if you’re in a place where you /can/ do that sort of reevaluation of your own needs and priorities, and it’s definitely going to be kind of scary to try and decide what holds true for you

like, i hope you get a chance to assert yourself and determine what’s most important to /you/. i think it’s such a complicated process to form opinions in the first place, and it’s going to depend largely on your own experiences, and not anyone else’s

i hope everything’s okay, though…..