anonymous asked:

(I need advice) This guy I've been talking to has just told me he's asexual, he said "were in this together" and honestly, and I told him, I'm not going to do that I like being sexual and so does he but he's stuck on being ace. It's very frustrating, especially because he told me I can't take care of my sexual needs myself and I can't not do that. I don't know what to do, I really like him but I don't think I can do this, especially if he believes I'm going to become ace too.

I think that if he is ace and is not interested you should respect that. But I think that if you are sexual he needs to realize that he’s not going to “convert” you. Especially if he is trying to control what you do on your own time, that’s not okay. I think that you should probably talk and get how u really feel out there. you could see about being friends or be in an open relationship. But if he’s being controlling I would suggest not sticking around.

anonymous asked:

I'm worried that my daddy is talking to other girls. He won't check messages in front on me, and it always girls messaging him. I've also noticed that he gives other girls cute nicknames on messenger. There's lot of girls who are all really pretty listed as friends on his facebook. He also refuses to make thing official with me. Even though we do exactly the same thing as people in any relationship and have been doing this for nearly 8 months. I'm really worried. I don't know what to do.

Break up with him. He sounds like a dick flat out. Don’t let a man take advantage of you like that. Confront him if you feel necessary and safe too do so, but unfortunately sounds like a bad man.


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I want to thank you for always taking care of monbebes and loving us unconditionally, i hope you have a fantastic birthday and you receive truck loads of love and warmth. I hope you feel the love we have for you to! And thank you for just being you! You have a heart of gold, you always work so hard for monsta x, monbebes and yourself and you are truly an big inspiration.
have a lovely day and celebrate with all ur loved ones!

anonymous asked:

My dog has fleas and it's really bothering him and I don't know what to do. I give him regular baths and he has a store bought flea collar and my family can't really afford a visit to the vet right now. Are there any natural home remedies I can try?

If you can afford plants, then lemon balm (bee balm), rosemary, lemon grass, and mint (which spreads a lot) are all great plants that repel fleas (and a variety of other bugs). Catnip can do it too but don’t plant that in your yard with your dog. (To the followers that don’t have a dog and secretly dream of becoming lost in a sea of cats, go for it.)

If you don’t mind the smell you can spray garlic water in the yard. The recipe I found suggests boiling 8 heads of garlic in one gallon of water. Spray it all over your yard. Just a light spray.

To spray your dog, combine a sliced lemon, fresh rosemary, sage, and boiling water. Leave it to soak overnight, and then spray your dog whenever you’re gonna send him outside.

Now I also saw products at walmart that are dog-safe for fleas. I don’t remember the brand but they were green. The bottle was safe for inside and outside, and they had a shampoo.

If it’s bad, real bad, if none of this works, then you may have to put those timed gas things,insect foggers?, in the house. They should have them in the same area as the green bottles, or near the Raid. 

-Lou the Lobster

jemchew  asked:

"I SUCCUMB MYSELF TO HIS POWER. AND HIS VIRGIN OLIVE OIL, STRAWBERRY BLUSHU, DAIFUKU BUTT, YUMMY NOODLE HAIR AND TSUNDAIFUNESS." <--- This is going on all the Yasu club t-shirts. All of them. Your explosive bursts about him give me life, because he is creeping in so fast I don't know what to do. I CAN'T RESIST HIM ANYMORE. HELP MINA. IT WASN'T SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN LIKE THIS. 💕💕💕


y’all ladies can pick which one, the simple or girly one!

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anonymous asked:

Theres this customer that is somewhat regular but especially on my overnights he will hang around at my register for HOURS(3 1/2) after his transaction and crowds customers.I don't know how to tell him to leave. He's autistic and doesn't quite grasp social cues but I have stuff to do. I can't just have him following me around and crowding customers. I've walked outside to smoke hoping since we were already outside he'd leave but he just follows me back inside. I don't know what to do about him.

anonymous asked:

So i need some advice, my daddy has cheated on me three times. Twice over text and he kissed another girl. Ik it's silly but I don't know what to do. I love him, and I can't bring myself to leave someone I love. So, what do I do mister?

Silly? You dont know what to do?

are you even serious?

Is this like a serious question? you honestly dont know what to do?

Heres a scenario for you:

You get a puppy! yayyyyy a puppy!!!! its cute and cuddly and its all sunshine and rainbowwws!! ahhhhh!!! puppppyyyy!!!!!

Now that puppy grows a little.. and guess what, it doesnt exactly care about being cuddled or thrown the ball anymore. In fact, its gone to the dog park and seen that theres others it could get that from.

So what does it do?

it bites off your arm.

OUCHY RIGHT? I MEAN CHEESE AND CRACKERS PUPPY… i raised you and loved you and fed you and cuddled you and gave you my everything and you bite off my arm?! well… i loves you though sooo… im gonna keeps you because youre my puppy and OBVVVVVIOUSLY theres no other puppies out there.

anyways…. you can get by with one arm right? I mean.. washing your other armpit with the leftover arm might be hard, but thats ok. you love your puppy… the one who just took a dump in the living room and knocked its water bowl over… the one who keeps doing this little things that are making your life extremely stressful and difficult….but oh right,… you love puppy…. 

but time goes on.. and… cuddling puppy with one arm kinda makes you think about when it bit you. but then whats it do? turns around and bites off your other arm. DANG PUPPY… FUH REAL DOH??? BUT I LOVE YOU… WHY YOU DO DIS TO ME?!

puppy dont care…. puppy is gonna do and get what puppy wants. so for good measure, now that you cant defend yourself because puppy realizes you will just take the punishment.. then puppy gets wise and bites off your leg.

that way youre now trapped.

because without any arms and no ability to get out of the situation youre in.. puppy has turned into a rabies infected, slobbering, evil…  junkyard dog, and hes going to keep eating you.. and eating you… until one day… youre going to wake up and have nothing but a blank grey face with a pair of sunglasses on.

ohhhh puppy love. how grand it is……

anonymous asked:

i miss him. he treats me like shit but i miss him. i don't know what to do to get over him. please help

If you don’t respect yourself enough to leave toxic people then I can’t help you there baby. Some words are just too hard to swallow, I know.

anonymous asked:

I recently got my heart broken by one of my good friends. I fell in love with him and he just wanted to stay friends. He has hurt people in the past and he told me he wishes I never got to know that side of him and he wants to start over. I don't know what to do cause I care for him too much and he's such a sweet guy and we've always had the best conversations. I still want to be his friend cause I don't want him out if my life, but I don't know if it's a good or bad idea...

i think like… it’s possible to still have a friendship but like. i think it’s reasonable to need some space for a little while and like need a break from him because it’s nearly impossible to move on from someone if you just act like everything’s fine, you know? it’s so hard to ignore romantic feelings from that standpoint. so like say u want to save ur friendship and in order to do that u need some time and i think that he’ll know that it’s a really reasonable request

anonymous asked:

I feel so neglected by my boyfriend. We have been in a long distance relationship for almost 3 years. He's had some personal work/family troubles for most of our relationship and I just feel so neglected by him, more and more every day. I've been very sympathetic and supportive, but I don't know if this is what's best for me. I want someone who makes me feel loved and wanted. It hasn't been just a bad month it's been over a year of neglect I don't know what to do I love him so much.

end the relationship. you’re not just saying that he’s going through a rough patch, you’re saying it’s been a year of misery. long distance relationships require both people to be all in. it does not sound like this is the relationship you have

whats the point of being in a relationship where you don’t feel loved or wanted? isn’t that the whole point of being in a relationship? what’s the point of you staying in this relationship?

you know what to do. you just don’t want to do it

This fluffy boyfriend makes my “heart drop a beat, three times in a row ”