i am 25, i am the heaviest i have ever been and for the first time in my life i absolutely adore myself to bits, but holy fuck you guys.

i fucking cried in the dressing room when my friends took me to a place that actually sold cute bras in my size.
i no longer feel like i should shrink myself down or that i have to hide what i eat from my family, because honestly fuck that noise and the people that make you feel that way. 

and listen; loving yourself is not a goal that you reach, it’s a journey and it’s a fight that doesn’t end. everyone struggles with this shit, and that’s ok! body positivity doesn’t mean you feeling awesome 24/7

shoutout to tumblr’s fat positivity gang and all of my amazing and supportive friends

Got7 Ideal Type

A/N - An anon asked about Got7′s preference in girl (girly/badass/in between) so here’s my opinions! Again, these are my opinions so they obviously don’t reflect the boy’s views just what I think they’d like 😊 ALSO CAN WE TALK ABOUT THAT MV HOLY CRAP THAT WAS BEAUTIFUL I LOVE THEM AND I AM DEAD (also Jaebum is trying to be my bias again and idk if I’m okay with that)

So Jinyoung and Yugyeom would prefer someone who’s more of a ‘girly girl’ and has more of an innocent look. I think they like girls who look soft and cute and wear more dresses and skirts. They’d still date other girls but I think that would just be their preference.

The members who’d prefer a girl who dresses more badass/sexy would be Bambam and JB. I can definitely see those two liking girls who wear much darker and less feminine clothes than the girls Jinyoung and Yugyeom like. Ripped jeans, leather jackets, anything that gives them an edgier look.

The three members who I think would be inbetween or indifferent would be Mark, Youngjae and Jackson. Those three wouldn’t really mind how a girl dressed as long as she felt comfortable in it. Some days they might lean more towards the sexier and edgier clothing and other days they might prefer a more innocent look.


Had to make myself one too. Some people messaged and asked I could make them one. I only have one panel left but am thinking about ordering more when the fabric goes up for retail in the next week or so. Let me know. I love my “like a girl” fabrics. I have these kid sized panels too. My poor children are going to realize someday that not every kid has to get a history lesson when they get dressed.

Now that I have time to sew, my office looks like a fabric tornado hit. I love it.

Finding a fancy dress for an upcoming event was significantly more fun. Anthony’s mom let me shop her closet for dresses and being able to fit into all of them and find a dress I love (and heels!!)
With these events (valentine’s dance) and the upcoming gala being just about 8 months apart, I am so happy with the difference I am seeing and can’t wait to see the difference by next valentine’s day 😊

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hg-rising  asked:

STAR, FLOWER, MUSIC NOTE I'm on mobile how do I symbols.

I can mark and copy paste on mine?? Idek man

  • ♪ - music you like?

I like all kinds of music tbh. Like a music buffe. I like some of this and some of that but I am rarely inlove with a genre or a band entierly.
The only bands that I love each and ever song at least to some degree would be Gorillaz and Mindless Self Indulgence. Other than that I usually just listen to 2-4 songs from diffirent artists and stuff.

  • ✿ - fave kind of clothing?

comfortable clothes.
Thats a lie. I love punk/gothic styled clothes, or lolita styled clothes. Alas I, IMO, dont think I fit v well in either of those styles so I will forever be waring normal jeans and a t-shirt/sweater.
I refuse to wear dresses or skirts though honestly they look so nice but are so dumb to wear I hate wearing those.

  • ✬ - photo of me?

I look like a mess and I dont know how to take photos of myself why


I didn’t mention but I managed to push my way through the Nuka World DLC yesterday, overall thoughts about this raider hell

  • I learned to love Raider Radio after a while Redeye is just a virtuoso and I am screaming I NEED ONE LAST SCORE irl rn none of you can prove otherwise
  • I’m glad someone finally decided it was time to introduce a STYLISH faction like I actually look GOOD in the operator armour even the chest pieces I look dressed to kill (1/3 of the gangs in this soft drink basin)
  • Gage grew on me quite a bit, shame I probably won’t stick around to see what else Nuka World has to offer with him :/
  • Cappy in a Haystack was quite a nice quest, I favoured Bradberton and left with a nuka infused fat man which I will likely never ever actually use….. but I did feel very sorry for the man so….
  • I want to bring Cito and his family home with me I’ve got loads of gorillas hanging around in Sanctuary they’d get on like a Prydwen on fire!
  • I’m having vivid wartime flashbacks of the nuka galaxy area I NEVER want to step foot in there again
  • I managed to finish this DLC with Preston still a happy man, all is well in the world :)))
  • (Also I went and sided with Operators and Pack)

anonymous asked:

i am a lesbian, and i want to dress more feminine because my style is more casual inbetween sort of and i enjoy girly things. although, i don't own any girly clothes, and i don't want to look 'straight'. like, i don't want people to think i'm faking being a lesbian and i don't want guys to assume i'm straight and hit on me.

not all lesbians dress more androgynously!! and the clothes you wear aren’t the only things that can indicate your sexuality - a rainbow bracelet or a pin on your backpack (if ur in school) works just as well

Aesthetic - Cinderella

After much playing around to find the pictures and colours I liked the most for this aesthetic, I think I’m finally happy with how it looks! I find pale blue looks so pretty in aesthetics, especially paired with other pale colours like in this (and my Beauxbatons aesthetics *cheeky plug*), and obviously it’s largely associated with Disney’s Cinderella due to the iconic blue dress.I actually love the floaty dress in the middle so much (I WANT IT) and the details on the envelope are so pretty ahhh!

I am still taking aesthetic requests, so please feel free to send me an ask anytime, anonymous or not, and I’ll see what I can do! :D


Gaten Matazzaro. That smile could get him away with murder.

Caleb McLaughlan, dresses better than 99% of grown-ass men that I know. HOW DO YOU HAVE SUCH STYLE AND SWAG AT SUCH A YOUNG AGE?!

Millie Bobby Brown: I’ll be fucked if she isn’t rolling in nominations next year. and I am so THRILLED to see more of her on the red carpet

I’m 27. My girlfriend is 35. In this past year, we have… worn flower crowns and danced in the rain and moonlight, gone to the zoo and named all the animals, colored with sidewalk chalk on our porch, slept in a tent without out a roof under the stars, stayed up all night giggling about how much we love each other, made a fairy garden, gone to see a play in a different city and got dressed up super cute. We have picked flowers and gone to the beach and taken baths together and sang silly songs to each other and spent too long picking out produce at the farmers market. This is my real adult relationship. I am 27. My girlfriend is 35. This is a real and genuine love. This is a practical and real world application of “childish idealistic” love. Please do not bash my wonderful Love, because you can’t see past your own bitterness.