anonymous asked:

I realize this is tmi, but I don't know where else to look for answers. I'm dfab, always identified as a woman, but as i got older (currently 21) i began dressing more neutrally because I liked dressing both feminine and masculine, and I realized that I don't really like my downstairs area, like, at all? And now I'm questioning everything and I don't know what to do. I don't know if I'm fluid or nonbinary or if I'm even that. Any advice?? Am I blowing this out of proportion??

You’re not blowing this out of proportion. Loving your body and being comfortable in your body are very important things. But, it sounds like there is still some exploration to be had here. You’ve realized some things about your body, but there are still some things that are unclear.

So, you job now is this: attempt to make your exploration as loving as possible. You don’t have to have any sort of “right” feelings about your body, you just need to be kind to yourself as you explore. Take the urgency out of the exploration. Get still. Get quiet. Go one small step at a time. 💛💛💛💛

anonymous asked:

I saw this post and tought is a perfect prompt: someone ask to an omega “Where did you learn to fight like that?” and the O answer “I have three older alpha brothers.” “Really?” “Yeah,Will played first table on the chess team, Chester used to start crying every time he heard a sad song, Dan can really rock a cocktail dress and six-inch heels, and I wasn’t going to let anyone give them any shit for any of that. So I had to learn to beat up people bigger than me pretty early on.” Is just too cute

I am fucking deceased. I love this so much. It reminds me of playing Candyland with friends and having to be the moderator when they start fighting one another. 

I love this prompt idea, I love you anon. This is so cute and stereotype breaking. 

I never knew I could watch a whole episode with Big Foster interrupting my Sasil. I mean them scenes were absolute and utter pure gold! I mean, did I just fall a little for Big Foster? He had me cracking up! That look from him to Sally Anne after she mean mug him in the kitchen…I must have watched that twenty times already. You hear Hailey’ s voice when she saw Hasil roll up? It was all pleasantly surprised. Has nothing to do with Hasil all dressed up and fine as hell. She know her panties got damp. I had to sit on a towel the whole episode. Lord Jesus all that neck whispering had me fanning myself and thanking WGN for this gift. I was never into nape caressing but I am now. So Sasil can go up the mountain and visit now. I love that they finally matured and put it all on the table and compromised. I was hoping this wouldn’t drag out. Sally Anne knew who he was before she met him and she still have him the drawers. Just no guns in the house but knowing Hasil their baby will be a ninja Assasin. I’m so happy Sally Anne is going to school! It’s exactly what I did when I got pregnant. Realized no more Fucking around. I’ll be damn if I let this life down. And I got my Associates Degree so it’s good the show is pointing out just because you pregnant and poor now doesn’t mean you get to settle. You can still achieve your goals. Lil Foster got some nookie

Originally posted by ptxgifs

ABC Tag, for characters

I was tagged by @thewarlordscontract​​ in a fun tag game! Thank you! :) It has take a while, but I decided to do a bit of protag-love and am filling this in for Rafe.

A is for Age: Mid-twenties and already a horrendous grouch.

B is for Biggest Fear: A good ol’ family reunion.

C is for Current Time: As of Wensergutted start, blustery autumn.

D is for Drink Last Had: Most likely something cheap, alcoholic and in excess.

E is for Everyday Starts With: A burp, a fart, and stumbling around trying to get dressed in the dark. Early starts when you’re a cook.

F is for Favorite Song: He isn’t a music guy, but likes Lucia’s chilled choice on the wireless, when it’s late and the bar is quiet.

G is for Ghosts, Are They Real?: Rafe… probably wouldn’t be surprised. He’s seen weirder shit. Throughout the story, he definitely starts to suspect, but maybe that’s just what comes with living in a spooky hotel.

H is for Hometown: Hazel Mire, out in the marshlands west of Feyskrone city. Rafe is a small-town guy.

I is for In Love With: Realistically? Solitude. Peace and quiet. Doesn’t experience romantic love so much as awkward encounters that might or not be something. When he was younger, he did nurse a crush on the most popular girl in his class, who was ridiculously out of his league.

J is for Jealous Of: His older brother, Marshall: golden boy, first-class graduate and part of the Satyr brigade at the palace.

K is for Killed Someone: No.

L is for Last Time They Cried: I feel like this would be giving a lot away, so I’m going to dodge this one.

M is for Middle Name: None.

N is for Number of Siblings: One, unhappily. He’d much rather be an only child.

O is for One Wish: The quiet life, with good food, a big kitchen, and plenty of lazing around… having one-upped Marshall in the most spectacular way possible and become The Favourite Son. Rafe is kind of obsessed with having achieved ‘success’, being envied by those back at home etc.

P is for Person Last Called/Texted: Not applicable. He writes the odd letter to keep his mum happy.

Q is for Questions They’re Always Asked: What’s with the trousers, Rafe? In-universe, most fauns don’t wear anything on their lower half, but he feels naked without.

R is for Reasons to Smile: Being in the kitchen, cooking uninterrupted. He does, however, enjoy working alongside his sort-of apprentice, Flo.

S is for Song Last Sang: He’d rather leave the singing to Ricky or Flo! On his own, however? Embarrassing earworms from when he was a teenager.

T is for Time They Wake Up: Early, for the breakfast shift. Oftentimes while it is still dark out.

U is for Underwear Color: Hahaha I’ve never thought about this. xD I think he’d probably be boring (classic???) and go for black or white. He wouldn’t care all too much though, as long as they are comfy and can fit his big butt.

V is for Vacation Destination: Peaceful little cabin in the Feyskrone forestlands, with a trickling brook and a spot in the shade to relax.

W is for Worst Habit: Definitely self-sabotage - getting himself into knots over the small things, plus a nasty tendency to spiral into even worse situations through desperation and a lack of self-esteem… Also has a history of spinning impossible lies and then ending up tangled in them.

X is for X-Rays; Ever Broken a Bone?: Yes, his wrist, falling out of a tree when he was a kid. It was as painful as it was embarrassing.

Y is for Youth: THAT IS A CAN OF WORMS. Major point of contention in Wensergutted and something that Rafe really needs to come to terms with. Was kind of an arsehole, to put it mildly. Is better now - or maybe just different.

Z is for Zealous: What Are You Passionate About?: Home-cooked food, as he discovered while at university. His degree (barely scraped through) is in historical literature… but he couldn’t care less. Was born to cook (and to eat).

STOP THE PRESS I’M GOING TO TRY TO TAG THIS TIME! @merigreenleaf @wewriteworlds @scripturient-manipulator @dancingdarkling @jamieanovels @nuriaiha @fashionablyfyrdraaca and anyone else who would like to! But it’s also okay if you’ve already done this or don’t fancy it. xD

my heart is so tender to only be 20 years old. I swear that in my past lives I must have sung opera, drank with beautiful people around the world, had goats and cows and beautiful dresses, wore flowers in my hair, flipped off boring white men, loved my life and the people that I surrounded myself with. I bet I have always been full of this kind of love. I swear that I am not going to ever run out.

things my friend’s new boyfriend said about her the first time i ever met him
  • “i am an old man lost [deep sigh] in the sea of love.” (he is 21)
  • (she shows off a new dress she just bought that is covered in butterflies and is prancing around the apartment) “i never thought i could like butterflies so much in my life. can i…can i please give you a kiss on the cheek? please?” (kisses her on the cheek with a resounding MWAH sound) “magnificent.”
  • “three years in texas? too much.” (emphatically points to her) “the fourth year? totally worth it.”
  • “so, i hate social media, like getting caught up in these filtered lives and shit, but with her? i just wanna take pictures of her all the time, man, and post them all over the place.”
  • he also kept whispering “oh my god” and “wow” under his breath while staring at her while she was talking to me about random stuff

“It has been an honour and a privilege to provide more positive on screen representation to the queer community- my community. And I would not be here today without all our fan’s support. I would not be here today without all of our fan’s support. I also want to thank everyone at smokebomb, shaftesbury, shift2, and my mom who’s my number 1 fan who made my dress last night. And especially to my beautiful co-star who is the real backbone to the little web series that could. You inspire me to work harder every day, Elise, so thank you so much, to my onscreen love interest- and maybe my real life one sometimes. But this isn’t for me. I think this is for all my fans who feel like they don’t belong or feel like an outsider. I am very much still that little girl who used to get shoved into lockers so, this one is for all of you.”

I’m not sure how I feel about the new dresses. And am I right in drawing Chloe with pink in her hair? Because that’s what it looks like.