I don't even know how I feel right now

when i was a kid, i thought shonen heroes kind of overdid the “friendship is important” thing, but now that i’ve grown up i find myself tearing up and my heart grows three sizes sometimes when my friends call me by pet names or just do the smallest stuff for me like printing things and like… I’m sorry I doubted you naruto you were right all along my friends ARE my heart

i can’t imagine what she’s going through right now…..a fan did an interview with a news station just now and talked about how ariana’s mom literally pulled fans that were in the first few rows backstage along with security to get them to safety. her family and team saved fans lives tonight. absolutely nobody deserves this and i just know ariana’s taking it all to heart. she’s going to be traumatized by all of this. i feel so terrible for everybody involved i don’t even know how to begin to put it into words

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So… I took a bit of an ‘unannounced vacation’ for a few weeks while I tried to regain my sanity but everything’s cool now and I’m going to get back to drawing responses.

GUYS I NEED YOUR HELP

Something really bad happened. Today at 5:00 A.M. a group of 4 men forced the entrance to our house. They beat up my mom and older sister (they were trying to protect me and to protect my 1-year-old niece). They had guns and, for a moment, I thought they were going to kill us. They stole everything from us. They stole my laptop, our cellphones, food, money. They even stole my little niece’s clothes :(

We went to the hospital to check if my mom and sister were ok. I paid for the hospital bill and bought a little bit of food but I don’t have any money left. I don’t know what to do. I still need to buy more food and to buy clothes for my little niece. I’m the only one with a job right now but, sadly, my salary isn’t enough to pay for everything.

Please, if you can, and are willing to help me, you could send a few dollars trough paypal. E-Mail: americacolina2704@gmail.com (My best friend e-mail. She’s the one helping me right now).

I’m desperate.  EVEN A DOLLAR IS A LOT TO ME. Or you could help me just by reblogging this post.

I’m crying so hard. I feel angry and sad. How can a person do this to another person? I feel embarrassed too, and I’m so sorry that I’m asking for your help but I don’t really know what to do. I need to help my family. I’m really sorry guys…

Guys, honestly. That’s almost ridiculous

You can NOT tell me there’s no romance between the two. YOU. CAN’T.

I mean, not for nothing do most people Ship them. It’s so obvious and extreme that it hurts. And now everyone wants to tell me that the two don’t come together? Yes, of course. Even if they don’t, if Keith and Lance were real, we would all know that they were together. I mean, look at that!

If that is not the look of Love and Care, then I’m just not a human. I mean, look at this!!! How can you make that look even more romantic ?! HOW? RIGHT! YOU CAN’T (Well maybe, if you put Blush on them but Hoe)

I don’t understand my life right now. If the two have no feelings for each other, then please show me how romantic feelings look like. And you don’t have to blush when you’re in love, (experience!) So tell me what that is!! WHAT IS IT FOR YOU?

I think I’m a little bit aggressive. I need to drink a Tea ~ Jenni❤

anonymous asked:

hi, I'm sorry if I am bothering you but I really need advice. I have a friend who I don't wanna hang out with anymore because I don't think it's healthy friendship. She can either make me feel like the luckiest person or the worst human being on earth. i've tried breaking up our friendship but she manages to make me stay and make it seem like it's my fault. how do i manage to get out of the situation without feeling like it's my fault?

Hi cutie !! No need to be sorry, you aren’t being a bother at all. Know that what you’re going through right now is not easy, and it can definitely be a very emotional process even after that person is out of your life. It’s important to be patient with yourself.

Sometimes, it’s can be helpful to openly talk about your honest feelings with the person (consider writing a letter instead), but realistically some people won’t make an effort to change. If they don’t respect your boundaries now, it’s unlikely that they will later. It’s never your responsibility to remain in their life. If you choose to speak to them in person, I recommend doing it in a public place.

If you’re ready to cut them off for good, here’s what you should remember:

• Feeling guilty is actually totally normal. You’re a human being who doesn’t want to hurt another person- but putting your own health and happiness first is absolutely essential. We do crave and need friendships, but not all of them.

• Missing them is another normal part of moving on. Know that you can still miss all the amazing things and memories about the person while letting go of the bad things.

• Don’t feel like you owe anyone an explanation. If you want to explain, that’s more than okay. Just remember to be honest because your feelings are not up for debate. If you prefer, you can tell them simply that you drifted apart, or that you don’t want them in your life anymore.

• Block and delete them anywhere and everywhere on social media. Delete your past messages, photographs, etc. This step is usually the hardest for me personally. Remember, you don’t have to be sentimental.

• The likelihood is that the person will try to find out why you’re ignoring them. They may try manipulative tactics to get you to talk to them. You still don’t have to engage.

• Just because you aren’t talking to someone anyone, does not mean you can’t wish them love and luck.

• Make an effort to reconnect with others and make new friends who make you feel good, but most importantly take the time to concentrate on yourself.

Some other posts that may be helpful to you:

how can I focus on recovery when everyone is bringing me down
how to tell if someone is actually a toxic person

Cutting a toxic person from your life is an act of self care. You are not a bad person for putting yourself first, darling. 💖🌷

lorealola  asked:

I'm crying right now I have no idea what's going to happen to me. I was supposed to apply to medical school next year but now I might not even finish my undergrad. I have a perfect record and a great academic transcript. I work at a cake shop. How am I a threat to the country? I just feel like everything is being taken from me and I don't know what I did to deserve this. I honestly think my life will end once my DACA expires.

You’re going to make it through gorlie there are THOUSANDS of people contacting their senators and congressmen like hell right now. People are fighting for you and they WILL continue fighting for you. We still have six months to convince congress to not pull through with this. We still live in a somewhat democracy and it’s not 100% up to that saturated baby in office. Don’t give up on your dreams, you should still try because giving up is exactly what those xenophobes want you to do. They want you to feel intimidated because they think you’re less when in reality you have a lot of good things to bring to the world. I know it’s extremely stressful and I can’t even imagine how scared you feel, but just know a lot of people are on your side 💕💕💕

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Well. Gotta end 2016 like I ended 2015.
I wanna thank you all so much for last year and wish you very happy new year!  

anonymous asked:

Need help on this topic, im so lost.. I'm 20, female and have NEVER had a romantic relationship of any kind. I blame living in the country and lack of a dating pool. But I would like to try and find someone.. I want a relationship thats aimed toward marriage, but I don't know if I'm ready or how to start or if I'm actually attracted to anyone which scares me. I know girls don't turn me on but I'm not even sure if guys do and if I can't love or feel for anyone I'm scare of being alone forever

I know it’s frustrating, but try to remember- there is no set schedule for meeting someone, falling in love, and getting married. You have so much time! I know it might not seem like that right now, but I promise that that special someone is out there waiting for you. You’ll meet them when the time is right. And please remember, you don’t have to decide who/what that person is right now. Just feel it out as you go along, and listen to what feels right.

I’ve combined three posts for you. Advice on finding someone, dating someone, and then having sex with said person (if you so choose).

I hope you find this helpful! Hit me up with any specific questions.

Finding That “Special Someone(s)”

1. The first step is deciding what you’re looking for in a relationship. It’s best to be as specific as possible, while knowing that you can always adjust with time. One of the things you need to be definitive about is whether you’re looking for a committed relationship or not. No judgment either way, but you need to know what makes you comfortable. Some other things to consider:

  • Monogamy or Polyamory 
  • To sex or not to sex
  • Are you willing to LDR?
  • What sort of activities are you looking to do with this person? Hiking, gaming, exploring, etc.
  • Does age matter to you?

2. Once you know what you’re looking for, start looking for people who fit that criteria. This might seem like an obvious notion, but really, so many people form unrealistic expectations with people/persons who don’t fit their ideal. I’m not saying that they need to be 100% what you’re looking for. Nobody will be! But if you’re looking for a committed relationship and get involved with someone who is not ready to settle down, you can’t expect them to suddenly come around to your way of thinking. Start off with someone on the same page as you.

3. How do you meet such a person? Use your environment! You’re around so many people all day, people who may not be of interest to you, but people who know people. Find out if your friends know anyone who fits your picture. Friends are a great way to meet people. Also, hate to say it, but go to parties! Go to parties with you friends and socialize. Is there someone cute in your Physics class? Find out if she wants to go over homework with you at the campus cafe.

4. I also recommend frequenting places that you enjoy, and scoping out potential cuties. If you like to read, hang out at Barnes and Nobles to find a guy who likes to read. If you like hiking, join an outdoor adventure group. Feed your soul, while on The Hunt.

5. I highly recommend befriending any person you’re interested in. Put yourself in social situations with this person, to see if you’re socially compatible. We all know people who are sexy as all fuck but share nothing in common with us. Start with the shared experiences and work from there, I guarantee you that this method creates better and longer lasting relationships.

Dating Tips

1. Figure out what you’re looking for in a partner. There are lots of fish in the sea, and every one is different! You may be attracted to someone but not sexually or socially compatible with them. If you know exactly what you’re looking for, you may find it easier to zero in on the person(s) that interest you the most. Remember that you can always and should always adjust your wants/needs as time goes on.

Here are some ideas to get you started, but this is by no means a complete list:

  • Are you ready to commit to certain relationships? Or are you in the mood to explore different people with no particular ties?
  • Are you interested in one person? Or multiple people?
  • Are you interested in sex?
  • Are you bold and looking for someone to get out of your comfort zone with? Or are you confident and happy with where you are sexually? Or a mixture of the two?

2. Choose your “perfect date” ahead of time. I’m not a super spontaneous person, and I envy those that are. But I feel much less anxious when I already have a date planned in my head. Plans can always be adjusted, but I like to have a plan. In my mind, the “perfect date” has three parts…

One: The shared activity. Start your date off with an activity for you to do as a couple. Something public like a movie or a visit to a museum or hiking. While this may not seem super romantic to you, this is a great way to bond in a non-sexual way. And a public venue and a pre-determined activity takes some of that anxious pressure off. You don’t have to talk a lot (if at all). Keep it light!

Two: Dinner. This takes a bit of research. Find out if your intended is an adventurous eater or if they have any food preferences. I like to experience new things, and I want to be with a person who is open to that. So I think this meal should be something new and exciting. Possibly food from a different culture that they’ve never tried, or else something gastro and experimental. But not too expensive. Stay under $50 for this first date. And TIP!!

Three: Romance. Now is the time for you to spend some one-on-one time together, if you’re both feeling it. You could invite them back to your place, or take a romantic walk in the park if you’re not ready. But somewhere semi-private where you can have a deep conversation and really get to know each other.

And that’s it! Rinse and repeat!

3. Please ignore any societal notions you ever had about communication. Text or call whenever you want to! If you really like them, do it right away. If someone is really put off by how quickly you contacted them after a date, then they are not for you.

4. Be open about your experiences. If you’re a virgin or haven’t dated before, tell the other person. If they really like you, they’ll remember that these are life experiences that everyone develops at different times and they won’t care. Don’t be with someone who thinks that inexperience is a bad thing. Everyone is different!

5. There is no timeline for when you should sleep with a person. Well, actually there is, but it’s called “your personal judgment”. The same goes for any oral sex you may or may not want to have. If she eats you out, you’re not required to do the same to her. If he gives you a rim job and then she licks your balls, you’re not required to suck his dick or her tits.

6. Safe sex is so important! Please use condoms or some form of birth control. Some STDs will stay with you for life, and not everyone is honest about them. I’d also suggest that if you are getting serious with someone, that both of you get checked out by a doctor. Your health insurance should cover a yearly visit!

7. Please use caution before sending anyone naughty pictures of yourself. Just Skype them and do some naughty cam stuff.

8. Remember that fights are totally natural. Fighting every day is not, but occasional fights are bound to happen. It’s so important to talk through problems! Don’t keep them bottled up and festering inside, if you can’t be honest about how you feel then why are you with them? Compromise when you can but stay true to yourself. A couple is a unit, but it’s the individuals that make it successful.

9. Go traveling and vacationing together. People are often at their most anxious when traveling, and I would absolutely recommend that you spend some time together to see if you can work through the stress. Also, if you’re going to move in with someone spend some time living with them first. Before my boyfriend and I moved in together, I spent two nights out of the week living at his parent’s house and he spent one night living at mine.

10. During the first few months of dating or being with someone, you’ll probably want to spend all your free time with them. Think “Glue” by the Velvet Underground. Spend that time with them, but stay true to what makes you passionate. Keep painting, running, cooking, whatever.

General Sex Tips

1. I would highly recommend that you spend some time “getting to know yourself” before having sex. Feel around down there, see what feels good and what doesn’t. See if you can get yourself turned on. The more experience you have knowing what works for you, the better you’ll be able to communicate with your partner or partners and have an enjoyable experience.

2. If you have a vagina, odds are that your first time having sex is going to be slightly painful. This is totally natural, and will go away as time goes by. But be prepared to be upfront with your partner and to ask them to go slowly or use more lube if things do start hurting.

3. Condoms! There are many different kinds (ribbed, flavored, hot and cold). Magnum are large condoms, so if you are buying condoms and don’t have a monster dick, you probably should not use them. An ill-fitting condom is an ineffective condom! Also make sure to always store condoms correctly and to throw them out after their expiration date. Only one condom at a time folks, wearing two condoms is not twice as protective. They’re more likely to rip.

4. If you have a vagina, you should be peeing and/or showering immediately after sex to prevent UTIs. These are no joke! They are extremely painful infections that cause you to pee blood. Always pee after sex. Pee twice. People with penises can also get UTIs, but it’s far harder.

5. Did you know that only 25% of people with vaginas can have vaginal orgasms? So if you can’t, don’t stress! There are all sorts of different orgasms to be had, and they are all equally amazing. If you’re not cumming, you’re not being stimulated properly. Try a new position, a new technique, try having your partner or partners stimulate you in a different area. The page I linked above is a bit gender specific, but it has really useful information, so please ignore these terms.

6. Foreplay is so important! Vaginas take an average of 20 minutes to get properly revved up and horny. The reason you’re “dry” down there is because you’re not properly stimulated. You can always use lube in a pinch or ask your partner to go down on you, but you’ll find that sex is easier and more enjoyable when you are literally “wet down there”.

7. Period sex. Oh how I love period sex. Vaginas are at their most sensitive during this part of the cycle, so achieving an orgasm can be easier. If you’re going to have period sex, throw a towel down first. Blood comes out super easily in the wash, you don’t have to do anything special to the cloth to get it clean. You will probably want to shower afterwards!

8. Communication is key. You cannot just lie back and think of England and hope that you’ll achieve a magical orgasm. It’s not like that. What turns your partner or partners on may not turn you on. This is absolutely fine! You may not even want to cum or be able to cum during your first time having sex, and this is fine too. Tell them what works and what doesn’t and be AS SPECIFIC AS POSSIBLE.

9. On a similar note, you are not obligated to do anything to anybody else or to yourself that you are not comfortable with. You do not need to give blowjobs or hand jobs or even have sex with someone if you aren’t 100% into it. If someone is pressuring you and thinks that sex equates a happy relationship, then I would advise you to ditch them and get on with your life.

10. Protection! Please use protection. Whether this is condoms, birth control, an IUD, whatever. The pull out method does not work. I am a product of the pull out method. Not everyone with a penis has precum, but many do. Don’t take the chance! I am on birth control and I love it, but that’s a whole different post.

11. Dildos come in all different shapes and sizes. You can get ones that are smaller and thinner than actual penises and ones that are comically large. Make sure to use lube! Wash them with dish soap in your sink and leave to dry. Some dildos that are “hyper realistic” come with a powder that you have to put on them. These are incredible dildos, I highly recommend them. They feel so life like!

12. Edible underwear does not taste all that good. Neither do flavored condoms.

13. Black sheets or black blankets and sex are not a good mix. You will see cum stains. They wash out super easily, you don’t need to do anything special to clean them. Just keep them out of sight when your friends and Aunt Kathy come over.

14. If you start having sex and decide that you want to stop having sex then please tell your partner and stop. You are not obligated to keep going if you feel uncomfortable. Your body = your choice.

15. If you have a vagina then you will want to make an OBGYN appointment shortly after you start having sex. These are vagina doctors and they can check your vagina out to make sure that everything is okay. You should probably get your vagina checked out often if you have multiple partners. If you are in a relationship with one person and use protection, then once a year is fine.

“you should go to therapy”

with what money

“you should go back to school”

with   what   money

“you should travel more”

with        what        money

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Assault

Requested: Hi, can you do a imagine that y/n’s assaulted and Shawn comforts and helps her? I understand if isn’t possible! Thank you, have a good day (sorry for my bad English, isn’t my first language) ❤️

Thanks for the request! You don’t have to apologize for your English! It’s great for English being your second language. Hope you enjoy this! Sorry that its short and a little different than you were probably expecting, I’m pretty happy with how it turned out though and I hope you are too :) 

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Shawn’s hand on your waist makes you involuntarily jerk away from him as your heart starts pounding with panic before you can even process that it is just Shawn, and nothing to be afraid of. “Shit, I’m sorry,” He immediately says as he removes his hand from your waist and runs it through his hair instead.

“No, I’m sorry,” You respond quietly, shaking your head, just trying to get all the bad stuff out, just trying to forget it all.

“Can I,” he hesitates for a second as though he isn’t sure if he wants to even ask or not before continuing, “Can I hold your hand?” His eyes are wide with concern and worry. It is a simple request for something he shouldn’t even have to think twice about just doing.

The self-hatred has already started eating you alive. Why did you let it happen? How did you let it happen? You wish you could have done something to prevent it. You wish you hadn’t gone out that night at all. Now your own boyfriend has to ask before he can hold your hand because if not you’ll literally freak out on him, even if you don’t mean to and even though you wish you didn’t. He’s still getting used to that too. He’s not used to having to ask permission for something as simple as holding your hand, or touching your waist when he comes up to you. That used to be something that was so natural, something neither of you ever thought twice about, but now he has to, and you have to hype yourself up just to let him touch you. You have to constantly remind yourself that Shawn would never hurt you.

You nod in response to his question, and he slowly intertwines his fingers with yours, carefully watching your eyes the entire time, making sure you’re not feeling triggered at all. “Sit down with me?” He questions, and you nod, following him to the couch. Once you’re both seated, he starts talking, “Baby, I know I can’t change what happened, and I can’t force you to feel better. I’m not trying to do that, I know you need time to heal, but I just want you to know that I love you. I want you to know that it’s not your fault. None of what happened was your fault, okay?” He says, trying to make sure you understand. He’s already told you this, so many times, but yet, you still find it hard to believe. You just nod in response. You want to believe him, you do, but it’s hard to get out of your head, to not think about the past.

He doesn’t try to pull you any closer to himself, even though he’s a very touchy person, well at least he used to be. He used to always need to touch you, always pulling you down into his lap when he sat down somewhere, always resting his hand on your hip, or throwing it over your shoulder. Now, he wants to touch you, to hold you close, to keep you safe, but he doesn’t.

“I love you.” He says, and even though you know he means it, his voice is full of hurt. Hurt because of what happened to you. Hurt because he feels responsible, even though there was nothing he could have done because he wasn’t even with you when it happened. But most of all, hurt because he knows you’re a different person now, and neither of you are sure you’ll ever be able to find your way back.

anonymous asked:

Hi, I don't know if you're still taking asks or not, but I need some advice! Instead of needing to find a job or nail that interview, I actually need some tips on quitting. I've come to a conclusion that I cannot work at my first job anymore (I work two jobs) as the stress, anxiety, being made to feel worthless even after giving it my all, I feel when working are not worth sleepless nights and disregard for my health, I just don't know how to quit politely bc I've never quit a job before. Help?

You should absolutely quit! No job is worth your health and/or well being.

Quitting Tips

1. Ask to have a private meeting with your supervisor or boss. Oftentimes you may report to multiple people, and in that case you’ll have to tell all of them that you’re leaving. I recommend starting with your direct supervisor- ask them if they are available to speak with you right now, and if they’re not make an appointment for later.

2. Let them know that you are putting in your “two week’s notice”. It’s impolite to quit outright without giving your boss time to find a replacement for you. If you’re going to include this job on your resume or use one of your supervisors as a reference, you’ll absolutely want to leave on the best terms possible. While it may suck to be stuck doing this job for two more weeks, I highly recommend that you stick through it as best you can. However, if your workplace environment is so awful that you can’t take it anymore and you need to leave immediately for your sanity, then leave. If you CAN stay a little longer, you’ll have a better chance of leaving the job on a positive note.

3. Your supervisor will likely want to know why you are leaving. If there’s a positive reason (for example, you found a better paying job or are moving elsewhere for college) tell them as much as you feel comfortable with. If there is a negative reasons (for example, the hours don’t work with your schedule or the job is too stressful) you may want to give them specific examples as to why this job was not the right fit for you. Supervisors are supposed to be objective, but we’re all human and they may be offended or take it personally that you’re leaving. I had to quit my last job and my boss literally broke down crying in front of me and it was awful. Be prepared for this, and try to stay as clear-headed as possible while speaking to them. Again, your objective here is to leave on a positive note.

4. Lie if you have to. You do not owe this company anything! If you’re leaving because it’s a bad environment, but feel uncomfortable telling your boss that they’re part of the reason you’re leaving, then lie. Tell them you got another job, tell them the hours don’t work for your schedule, etc.

5. Make sure to gather all your personal items, paperwork, references, etc before leaving. Don’t leave anything at your old job if you can help it, especially if your workplace was unsatisfactory.

Good luck!

Mistakes

Tom Holland x Reader

Plot: You thought it was the right thing, he thought differently. You both acknowledged it was a mistake, but maybe it was for the best.

Note: I seriously don’t know what I was thinking.

Originally posted by tmholland

It was all falling apart, quicker than either of you realized it. Things were certainly not going to plan. You were supposed to be in this together, but the more things proceeded, you’d both noticed the decisions that had been made were not lining up with one another.

Everything was perfect at the start, but one little mistake had made that crumble in seconds.

You stood in the bathroom, staring straight at your reflexión. You wore a stoic expression, worry lines having suddenly appeared in the mere minutes after everything had gone downhill. You were never good for dealing with stress, the situation making that very evident.

You heard the door handle jiggle and turned just in time to see Tom entering, quietly closing the door behind him. His face still wore the same expression from a few minutes ago, pursed lips, furrowed brows and dark eyes, quite different to the beautiful chocolate brown color they usually were. Now they looked as if they were black.

Nothing was said at first, uncomfortable silence overtaking the small space in seconds, him staring at you and you staring right back.

“Do you regret it?” He spoke first, voice low. It was almost a whisper, almost as if he was afraid there was people on the other side of the door listening.

You gulped and looked down to your sock clad feet, “I do. But a small part of me thinks it was the right thing to do.”

He clenched his jaw, stepping closer to you, “you should’ve asked me first. We had agreed it was what we would do in these situations, so why didn’t you?”

“I don’t know Tom! It was a stupid decision, okay?” You said letting out a big breath of air. “It was a mistake, a really big one. But I have a feeling it will al work out.”

“How can you be so sure, huh? That it will pay off?” He questioned, “You know we can’t afford to make mistakes right now, we’ve got a lot to lose.”

You brought your hand up to rest against your forehead, “I know that Tom, everything you lose, I lose too don’t forget that. I already said I was sorry, I thought we had moved past this situation already. I already acknowledged it was a huge ass mistake.”

“You knew coming in to this that making any mistake, no matter how small would cost us everything. It was the first thing I told you.” He stepped closer, to the point you could feel his breath mingle with yours, “This is ruthless, Y/N, you either get with it or you don’t.”

His proximity became to much for you, so you stepped back and went to sit on the toilet lid, head cast down, as if you were a child getting scolded at by your parents, “Well how was I supposed to know he would do that? Things like that can’t be predicted. And you know how he is, you should’ve expected his move.”

Tom crossed his arms, things were getting to him even more now. “You’re right I should’ve known,” you turned up to look at him, “I let him pressure you into taking a decision I know you didn’t want to take, I’m also to blame here, but in the end it was you who took the decision without really thinking things through.”

“I did think things through…well kind off. But we needed what he had, you can’t deny that, and if my decision is what got us that then I don’t really feel I should regret it. After all it was small loss with a big gain.”

“It wasn’t a small loss!” He groaned.

“Oh my god Tom I sold Pacific Avenue, not the damn railway!”

“But you know the green cards make a lot of money, we could have profited off of them!”

Your rolled your eyes, “The railways make more, and we have three of them! We can afford to buy the other one from Evans now.” You argued back, “This is why you don’t play Monopoly in pairs, everyone fights enough as is when you play it the normal way.”

“Evans is an ass when it comes to this.”

“Yes but Hemsworth paid a lot for Pacific Avenue. We can still win this, we’re still in the lead. We need those free meals at Downeyville the rest of the shooting, I need to eat good food.”

“I know that’s why we can’t lose this!”

“Remind me to never play Monopoly with them ever again. If Anthony makes Sebastian pay taxes one more time, that table is getting flipped over.” Yo stood up from the toilet and walked towards Tom, “We got this, we’re so winning. No one wants gourmet food more than us.”

Tom nodded, his face now sporting a cocky look, smirk and all, “Damn right we are.”

“Now lets go, I think I hear Robert and Pratt arguing…..that will not end well.”

You didn’t see that coming.

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Turning 18 doesn’t make you an adult. Getting a full time job and taking care of your finances, even if partially, among other things makes you an adult. And it’s not easy. When people pay you, they expect a thousand things out of you. And this is the first time this is happening. Because in school and college, you/your parents paid money to the institution. Now tables are reversed and it’s a totally different thing. Any sense of entitlement you have will disappear instantly. And so will any free time or a personal life. I got a job right after my finals and I didn’t get enough time for this transition. Not that I think any amount of time would be enough for this. The hardest part I think is the realising that this is going to be an everyday thing. Day after day after day after day after day after day after day after…And what do you do when this realisation hits you? Take life hana dul set at a time (one, two, three). When days are tough at work, I literally take my day hana dul set at a time. And when I am assigned shitty projects or things I think are not meant for my skills, I start this narrative, “It was the summer of 2018. I was right out of college and …” and then I can take this anywhere. It gives me some peace to imagine myself a few years later, happier, in a better and stronger place professionally and in general, and out of this situation. Another major thing working has made me realize is that the social structure honestly doesn’t change whether it’s school, college or work. You will find the same kind of people everywhere. The guy who thinks he is too cool to be here. The pretty girl who is kinda dumb and everyone loves her for that combination. And basically everyone else you came across and thought it was just that place or that age. But it’s life. These are the characters of life. And right here is you who is just as socially awkward or more like socially detached because you understand that you have just an hour everyday of lunch, which is literally the only hour you can do whatever you want to and you don’t want to spend it sitting in a group who isn’t even including you in the conversation. So here you are writing this post.

anonymous asked:

I know it makes sense for narrative reasons for setting up season 3 but I am very sad Marco didn't show any interest in Star after her confession and that he avoided her after song day. I don't like Star hurting so much

I feel your pain. But hey, Star needed basically all of season 2 to properly sort out her feelings, and managed to finally do it in the nick of time, rethinking about his whole relationship with Star isn’t going to be easy for Marco either, even more since right now Jackie is his girlfriend, and we know how focused he gets on the task at hand, from getting a juicepack open to retrieving Star’s dimensional scissors.
Right now I don’t feel like making any prediction about the future of Starco, but…

And something like this is bound to make him think, or at least I hope so!

AUTHOR GOALS HAVE BEEN ACHIEVED THIS DAY

So I just got a message from someone on FF.net that would like to translate my 46,000 word KakaIru fic in to Spanish to share with their community. 

Originally posted by yourreactiongifs

I’m so honored I might start crying? I don’t know what to do with all these feels? I absolutely said yes. I’ll be honest, even if they don’t credit me and my fic ends up getting stolen I’m still gonna fly high knowing someone loved my fic so much that they felt it needed to be translated in to a whole other language just so more people could enjoy it. 

And they were super nice and polite about it???

And hot fuck do you know how long it’s gonna take them to translate that much writing? Probably a really long time! That is a lot of effort to go through.

I have to go squeal and fangirl now. Author goals. Super author goals. 

anonymous asked:

so like,,,, this one person told me i'm not a "real army" because i started stanning them so late. specifically i stanned them on july 4 and now it's august and it hasn't been a long time... but i love them a fUCKING LOT. i don't even have a bias bc i cANT FUCKING CHOOSE. but now i'm just thinking that i ain't even a real army because of some dumbass saying i wasn't and now i feel weird. thoughts? opinions? yell at me if you have to

Just because you know a bit more about BTS does not give you the right to tell new ARMYs that they don’t belong in the fandom. Also being part of the fandom is not based on how much merch you own or the amount of knowledge you have. If that’s the case 90% will be out of this fandom ASAP. Not everyone can invest a lot of time and money on what they like. Everyone’s situation is different. What makes you part of this fandom is when you love, support (be it just by streaming their videos) and respect them. PERIOD. 

Whoever bullies any new ARMY, is really weird. BTS is working so hard to get more recognition and fans and you are out there making them lose them? Where is the logic? We are in this fandom to help one another. So for Suga’s gummy smile, Jimin’s pinky, Jungkook’s biceps, Namjoon’s dimples, Jhope’s smile, Jin’s shoulders and V’s collarbones FREAKING SAKE STOP IT.

Originally posted by sirtae

Dear, you are loved, you are appreciated and you are needed. I love you and I am sure BTS do too ^^

Married!Stydia: Stiles and Lydia making a FaceTime call to celebrate their anniversary.

«How’s your badass top secret seminary going? Are your finger-toes still alright?»
«Ah-Ah. That’s not funny, Lyds.»
«Well, I bet it’s not for them!»
«It happened once. Just once. And I saved the day.»
«Yeah, sure! Derek, in fact, is still keeping you in his prayers!»
«How is he? – I’m ignoring your sarcasm, just to pointing that out.»
«I got it, yup.
He’s fine! You know him, he’s stoic. Even though he’s trying his best to not show us his pure terror of becoming a dad.»
«Once a sour-wolf, always a sour-wolf.»
«And Braeden is cool with it, apparently.
You didn’t answer, tho. Was this whole agents-meeting-thing worth missing our anniversary?»
«If it helps any, I feel awful.»
«I know you do, dummy. I’m just having a little fun.
(…)
I notice you picked out the black one. Good choice.»
«Yeah… Someone told me it’s a good color on me.»
«That someone has taste.»
«That someone is missing me terribly, you know?»
«Oh, really?»
«One hundred percent sure.»
«How do you know that?»
«Because she’s wearing my shirt right now. And still looking amazingly beautiful, by the way.»
« (…)
You’d better get your ass back home, Stilinski. As soon as possible.»
«I promise I will, Mrs. Stilinski

«Happy anniversary, Stiles.»
«Happy last-on-FaceTime anniversary, Lyds.»



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