anyone who sends hate/bullies someone for shipping reylo because of the perceived abusiveness of that relationship is actually way worse than that ship could ever be, like do you not see how hypocritical it is to send real abuse about something fictionally abusive?
the “abuse” (it’s debatable) in reylo is fictional. these characters are not real.
the abuse you send to reylo shippers is real.
congratulations, you are literally worse than the thing you hate.