I want people to see how absolutely amazing they are

As a fat person who is rarely ever complimented for my physical looks (aside from acceptable compliments for fat people), it drives me absolutely fucking bonkers when conventionally attractive people fish for compliments from me.

They’ve got a whole society that worships their body type and tells them that they’re inherently amazing, just for being born with a good metabolism and no hormonal (or other specific health) issues. But they’re gonna come to me and tell me how they don’t look good, or they feel ugly, or no one loves them, and I’m supposed to make them feel better.

I just want to tell them to open a fucking magazine, or turn on the tv. You’ll get to see virtually every person there looking similar to you. I didn’t see a positive role model (ie. not the butt of fat jokes) that was beautiful and funny and successful and that never had their body questioned and who looked like me till I saw Melissa McCarthy in The Heat (came out in 2013, fyi). I’ve never seen clothing models built like me till last week when I found the GRRRL clothing line (plus size models for most fashion companies are acceptable fat, ie. big boobs and ass, barely a stomach, thick but not too thick legs). As a kid, I never dreamed of being a princess because the only people who looked like me in Disney films were evil, or side characters who took care of the princess.

If conventionally attractive people are looking for a partner, they don’t have to worry about being fetishized, they can be loved for themselves, and their partner won’t be questioned as to HOW or WHY they can love them. Their relationship will not have to be justified or explained, they will not face questions of “so… Like, [the fat partner] is never on top, right?” or “doesn’t it kinda ruin the sex when you can’t just move [the fat partner] around?”. They won’t be the running joke among their friends. If both partners are fat, they get even more wonderful bullshit to deal with. When dating, conventionally attractive people won’t be accused of lying or misrepresenting themselves if they don’t post a full body picture and show up to a date fatter than what the date anticipated. Their bodies do not need to come with disclaimers.

I can count the number of times my former partners told me I’m beautiful without a “but” following it (3. With a “but” following it; 5). I remember almost every compliment given to me by friends that was explicitly about my physical appearence and that didn’t skirt around me being fat (there’s acceptable ways to compliment a fat person. Ie. You have a nice face/personality, that clothing is slimming on you, you look healthy, etc. I’m tempted to include cute, but I’m on the fence about that one)

I’m tired of being the bastion of self love, confidence, and body positivity for people whose only barrier in the way of their own self love and confidence is themselves. I didn’t have anyone to push me to this point where I can love myself and others completely, regardless of size. The only reason I am the way I am is because I’ve made myself this way, facing a society that’s continuously told me it’s wrong to be happy and love myself as I am.

BTS Reaction #36 - Their wife being pregnant and they find her adorable

anon asked: Hello! I was wondering if you could do a BTS Reaction to how cute they think their s/o looks pregnant (waddling, looking like you strapped a disco ball to the front of you, your shirts ride up when you reach for something, etc…) lol sorry I didn’t know if I should give examples or not :S .. Anyways  Thank you so much!! ♡ :)   ~this is my first time requesting I’m sorry! ♡

Seokjin: “I always joke around babe, but I’m dead serious when I say I want to paint your stomach to look like a basketball right now.”

He’s constantly touching your stomach, amazed at the size that it’s getting. He also gets really mushy and teary eyed quite often, telling you spontaneously how absolutely stunned he is that this is his life and how lucky he feels to have you and now the baby.

Originally posted by pjmksj

Namjoon: He’s constantly looking to other people around the two of you as you walk around, giggling and pointing out to them how cute you are.


You’d have to occasionally swat the back of his head to get him to stop grinning and giggling at you like a moron.

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I absolutely love how the tag is exploding with fanart right now. You guys are so talented and passionate and inspiring! I have about 0 talent for drawing but seeing you guys’ work really makes me want to create more. This event is bringing the community together once again and it’s amazing to see people participate and build each other up! :D

It still surprises and amazes me how people give me alternative reasoning as to why the American Ghost in the Shell flopped.

I don’t care if there were other reasons why it flopped. It’s a whitewashed version that came out while Asian Americans are being very vocal about it and want fair treatment in media that was either derived from them or are about them. If you don’t think that is important over all and/or was a factor in the demise of that movie, then we absolutely are not seeing eye to eye.

Because white washing is absolutely a problem that I will not stop being vocal about

anonymous asked:

What was your first impression of Kirishima and how did it change while you read/watched the series? Share your Kirishima feels please, I really love your fics and opinions on Bakugou! :D

anon, i have about 7000 kirishima feels. so idk how coherent this ask will be, but here’s my best shot–

so i think my initial impression of kirishima was that he was funny, because in the first few episodes he shows up in he’s just reacting to things– bakugou’s throw of the baseball, and then the midoriya-bakugou fight in hero training. i have a predilection for red-haired characters, so i think i was already intrigued by him, but the first time he really made an impression on me was during the usj arc. when he and bakugou rush at kurogiri, i think my thought was “oh, another hotheaded teenage boy”, but then when the two of them get separated from the others and begin talking, i think i quickly fell in love with kirishima’s personality, specifically because he proved me so wrong. so here’s a quick list of things i’ve learned to love about him since then–

even though he and bakugou rush at kurogiri in the usj arc, kirishima isn’t a hotheaded character. he subverts the classic teen boy hero personality because two of his great strengths are being thoughtful and understanding. during the usj arc, his first thought is about protecting others, but he soon shifts to a more offensive heroism because he likes how bakugou presents that option. and i really love that kirishima is always trying to figure people out, and is really good at that. i’d argue that he has the best people skills/emotional intelligence of anyone in class 1A. 

and he uses that emotional intelligence to help people! i really love how in the latest manga arc, he’s so in awe of a person like amajiki, because it demonstrates that kirishima is really good at finding people’s strengths– even when they can’t see them, themselves. kirishima really fluidly adjusts to dealing with different kinds of people– he can casually insult bakugou in a friendly way, and he can also joke around with midoriya, asui, and uraraka. he’s basically just made to be around people. 

kirishima’s also a character with a very specific code of honor, and that’s always an interesting character trait. when kirishima talks about “manliness,” it’s a stand-in for his honor code, and his concept of pride. there’s a lot to be said about that point on its own, but shortly– kirishima values when people are honest with each other, when they respect each other, and when when they support each other. his relationship with bakugou really starts to develop after kirishima understands bakugou’s concept of respect, and kirishima is hardest on himself when he isn’t strong enough to support the people around him. 

and while kirishima’s personality makes him great as a supporting character, he’s also got his own unique vulnerabilities. kirishima placed second in the yuuei entrance exams– right behind bakugou in points. he was arguably the most balanced candidate, between rescue and villain points. kirishima has the makings of an absolutely fantastic hero. and yet, he’s insecure! he doesn’t think he stands out, and never really declares himself a contender for the number 1 hero spot in the way a lot of other characters do. kirishima is a character who’s so good at seeing the best in others, and on focusing on others, that he often completely misses how amazing he is, himself. he’s a heavy hitter and i want to see him recognized as such.

he’s also not just always smiling and supporting others. he’s shown real anger and grief over the course of the series, and that speaks to how his emotions are a strength. he doesn’t hold them back, which probably allows him to understand other people all the more. he’s not just a “nice character”– he’s super complex, understanding, and strong. but that strength isn’t machismo, despite his manliness schtick. his is an emotional strength, which i absolutely love. 

and of course, he has so much more room for development. we know nothing of his backstory, but he’s shown that he can empathize with villains– something that’s just begging for an explanation. 

in sum– he’s a good person and a great character, and red riot is probably going to be a wildly popular and successful hero. 

ive had. this picture saved since i had like 200 followers n i have just over 500 so now seems like a good time 2 use it! thank u for following an idiot like me 💛💗❤️️💗💛

danielle. the fact u still put up with me after 5? Years is a miracle. like really i would have ditched my own ass by now but ur still here n put up with my shit so im really grateful n thankful. u are the yoongi 2 my hobi & i hope that one day……… One Day we can go 2 a bts concert together. and disneyland. maybe even both at the same time. i rlly love n appreciate u so! Much! So thank u, again. for putting up with me for so long. 💖💛💗

the day i made a post abt a group chat was the day i met one of the most amazing people and made one of the best friends. i am so happy u replied 2 my post when nobody else did n honestly!! I love u so much. the mingyu 2 my seokmin. the the jiho 2 my jine. the lisa 2 my rose. the renjun 2 my jisung. i could literally go on forever but! none of them will ever compare 2 my favourite aries in the entire world (u). i also. cant believe its been like 6 months when it feels like ive known u for like. 6 years. but i am blessed™ to have u in my life & i cant wait! for the day we get 2 hang out n laugh at the most ridiculous things together, like a measuring table 💛❤️️💛

the yuta 2 my doyoung ! We roast each other n argue about literally everything but i love u so much!! i feel like we have been friends for Literally Years and honestly i feel like some of the most meaningful friendships r ones where u can roast each other 2 no end but still know that u love each other at the end of the day. n i really do love u. u should probably screencap this because its the only time im gonna admit that. thank u for being a great friend n an even greater roasting partner ❣️💛💘

my Favourite svt stan! i honestly…. have no idea how we started talking but my gOD Do i love u. u are so! Cute and the day i met u my life got brighter, and not just because of the beautiful puppy pics i receive. you are such a ray of sunshine and i rlly can’t imagine what life would be like without talking 2 u daily. u rlly cheer me up and gosh darn i just !!! Really Love u. 💗💛❤️️

I LITERALLY! Can’t remember when we started talking but i know u were like. one of the first people i followed n honestly!! Where would i be without u. u were one of the first friends i made on here n BOY! does that seem like it was a long time ago even though it wasn’t. u are one of the funniest ppl i know and ur love for Seokjin really gives me life. it is so pure!! U are so pure!! i know (think) you’re on holiday at the moment so i hope you’re having an amazing time!! But when u get back i hope u see this and know that wow i really adore u! 💖💘💛

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What I want from Marvel Legacy

Logan stays dead: I like Logan as much as the next guy, but we already have 3 wolverines running around we don’t need 4.

Amazing Spider-Man gets a new writer: please for the love of god get rid of Dan Slott.

The fantastic Four return: Its never been the same with them gone.

Emma Frost gets a redemption arc: They did my girl wrong in IvX. She deserves better.

She-Hulk gets better: Seeing her all depressed/broken like this is well depressing. And after what happened to her in Civil War II, she deserves better.

Mary Jane gets written properly: A long shot, but the way she’s been written in the past 5 years have been awful and once again she deserves better. 

Phyla-Vell comes back from the dead: Yeah this is a looong shot, but dammit i miss her and moondragon.

The OG X-men return to there time line: They have overstayed there welcome and are honestly not compelling enough to warrant there stay and pale in comparison to there older counterparts.

Carol Danvers/Captain Marvel gets called out on Civil War II: It needs to happen. Carol was an absolute monster in CW2 and frankly needs to be called out on it. Someone needs to say how much of a cunt she was. 

New creative teams: The most important thing that Legacy needs is new creative teams for there books. I mean if all there books have the same people working on them then absolutely no one will care. 

pirickili  asked:

Hi! I have an art blog with like 1,000+ followers, then I hit art block for a while and now every time I post a drawing it gets like 12 notes max?? Do you have any suggestions on how to improve interactions with followers/ gain a following?? I feel like my art's improving but it's getting no attention and it makes me feel poo :^( Sorry if this is a weird question!

hi! it’s not a weird question at all!

gaining a following on here, or anywhere for that matter, i think requires both a lot of patience and luck.

for me i started gaining a lot of followers after this golden retriever drawing i did got super popular. and the reason it blew up could be because just the right people with a lot of followers found and reblogged it, or it was a good drawing and really struck a nerve with people, or both! i didn’t do anything different for that post to get popular over my other ones, but for some reason that was the one that did it!

but there are some things that i know will help with this stuff and i’m going to put it under a readmore because it’s a lot!

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so i found out that i passed over seven thousand followers today, and i couldn’t be happier and i’m completely grateful for all of you. whether we talk all the time, or haven’t yet, or you’ve been following me for a while, or only just started, i just wanted to say thank you so damn much.

i wanna keep this brief, but you have no idea how much it means to me to be able to come on here and be surrounded by such amazing people who gush love and support. and i have tears in my eyes writing this oh geez. but you guys are a family to me, and i absolutely love seeing you on my dash, and discussing headcanons and ships and edits, and seeing all the amazing stuff you guys tag me in. i am so thankful to be a part of these communities alongside you guys. 

i love each and every one of you!! thank you!!  xoxo, kylo ❤️

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anonymous asked:

hi!!! could I pls get 54 with todoroki where the reader feels they shouldn't be a thing since everyone hits on him (and he's like pretty much top of the class) and she's just average? thanns!!!!!

54 from here!

I’m going to try my best with this!!! I went under the assumption that the reader and Todoroki are already in a relationship but it’s new. It’s kind’ve long, hope that’s okay!


Todoroki Shouto 

He couldn’t understand why his s/o was always so reserved when they went out together. Well, not that he wasn’t. But he tried to remember their favorite things and try to incorporate them into their dates. Maybe they were going through something personal and they weren’t ready to talk about it with him? Or maybe they thought that he couldn’t help them with it? He couldn’t even focus on his schoolwork, maybe some perspective would help.

“I don’t know what to do,” he said to his friends in the study lounge, “should I ask them about it, or should I wait until their ready to talk to me about it?”

“I wouldn’t recommend waiting,” Midoriya chimed in, “we waited for Iida to talk to us, and look at what happened.”

“That’s true!” Iida exclaimed, hands already directing nearby planes, “ although my actions may not have changed, talking about what was going on would’ve helped me considerably.”

“But I thought that they knew that they could tell me anything,” Todoroki looked down at his phone, seeing their photo, “maybe I really am like that old man.”

“What do you mean?” Midoriya asked, obviously picking up on the angsty vibe that his friend was dropping.

“Maybe I can’t do relationships,” he sighed and leaned back in his chair, “we just started dating and they already can’t talk to me.”

“NO, you can’t let yourself think like that!” Iida was very much in his face now, “As your class president, I am telling you to go and talk to them and tell them how you feel!”

“Iida, maybe talking to us first-”

“No he’s right,” Todoroki got up and put his books back in his bag, “I can’t just sit here guessing.”

And so he left and heading down stairs, towards the lobby of the dorms. He sent them a text to meet him. He couldn’t let himself worry about interrupting them, this was important. He only waited a few minutes before he saw them.


“Hey,” they couldn’t even look at him. 

“I don’t know what’s going on,” he said and grabbed their hand, “but I want to. I don’t want to be someone who ignores those who are important to them.”

“Nothing’s going on,” they looked at him, they didn’t seem sad, maybe it was defeat, “I just don’t know how to do this.”

“What do you mean?”

“I’m not good enough for you,” they looked up at him, eyes clearly watering, “you’re the best person I know and you’re going to be this amazing hero and I’m in the support courses,” they choked up and their tears started falling. All he could do was hug them, he had no idea that they felt that way. 

“I thought that you felt like you couldn’t lean on me,” he said into their hair, “what other people think or how they view me has absolutely nothing to do with my feelings for you. You make me a better person.” They nodded into his chest. “Do you want to go get ice cream?”

“Yes.” Finally he got to see them smile. 


I hope it was good enough!!!!!

Let me know what you think

anonymous asked:

How about the RFA reacting to how clumsy MC is? Like MC is a very clumsy person.


  • Definitely finds your clumsiness super endearing
  • Also he’s a little clumsy himself so he can sympathize!
  • However, this also makes for an… interesting dynamic
    • If you move in together, your house is covered in stains from spilled drinks
    • One of you running to get ice or Band-Aids for the other after they’ve stubbed their toe, hit their head, etc. is a much more common scenario than it should be


  • He becomes a master at swooping in and saving you from your clumsiness
    • Drop something? He’s caught it before it hits the ground.
    • About to run into something? Smoothly pulls you out of the way.
    • Trip and fall? Catches you, of course. that one’s his favorite and sometimes he even dips you
  • Low-key actually loves your clumsiness because 1) he feels it adds to your overall adorableness and 2) he gets to show off by doing all that stuff above


  • She’s so concerned for you! Every time you trip she practically does a full medical exam. “Are you okay? Are you hurt anywhere? Let me check. You’re sure you didn’t twist an ankle?”
    • Meanwhile, if any other RFA member trips (maybe minus Zen) she doesn’t even bat an eye and only says “Be more careful.”
  • Tries to look up ways to become less clumsy and offers advice and suggestions for improving your coordination and balance
    • Not that she thinks you’re not perfect the way you are; she just really doesn’t want you to get hurt as a result of your clumsiness!


  • Honestly he’s kind of amazed by your clumsiness. He didn’t think people that clumsy actually existed outside of character tropes.
  • He absolutely loves everything about you though, so clumsiness is included in that
    • Overall he’s essentially indifferent to it except for concern over you getting hurt
  • When going out, he’ll insist you hold his hand or link arms with him so he can keep you steady and prevent you from tripping heehee <3


  • “Well, I can see how you fell for me eyyyyy” *finger guns*
    • You, from the floor: “Seven why are you like this”
  • He thinks it’s hilarious and totally teases you about it all the time (tho he’s sure to not overstep any boundaries and keeps it well-intentioned)
  • However, if you do something clumsy in public, he’ll pretend to mess up in a bigger way so that all the attention is on him and you’re not embarrassed
    • Like, you drop your bag? Immediately he keels forward and dramatically tumbles to the ground, rolling a few feet away for good measure

                                       HOLY SHIT THERE ARE A LOT OF YOU !!!

so, this is my 1,000th post, and i’m currently sitting at 337 followers, which i’m sure doesn’t sound like a lot when you compare the amount that a lot of people have, but i’ve only had padmé since january second of this year. that’s not even two full months, and somehow, still, over three hundred people have decided that my padmé is the kind of content they want to see. i’m still not sure why, but since i’ve hit such an amazing number and this is my 1,000th post, i wanted to do something nice for everyone and gush about how much i love you all. so without further ado, here’s my follow forever !!!

                                              THE DELEGATION OF THE 2,000

@aftcrshocks​ / @icaryian​ / @imhiscarer​ : to the shock of absolutely no one, i’m gonna take this moment to yell about my favorite person on this earth, kells. kells is probably my most staunch supporter on this website and in life, and it’s really……awe-inspiring ?? it’s amazing to me, the kind of love that kells has to give to her friends, and the unbelievably selfless ways she continues to show it day in and day out. my entire aesthetic on this blog was crafted by her, and she’s always willing to do anything at the drop of a hat, which is just !!! so much !!! we don’t deserve kells. i don’t deserve kells. she’s so talented and she’s so supportive and kind and i’d take a bullet for that woman. 

@jedibetrayer / @warcompass : in addition to being the best smad egg husband a senator could ask for, chloe is about 85% of the reason that this blog even exists, and i’ll always be forever grateful to her for that. her enthusiasm for star wars and for her muse is off the charts 100% of the time which is just A+ in my eyes. her writing is beautiful, her talent is off the fucking charts, and i just. straight up. adore that girl. 

@kybercore : sen is one of my newer friends and i’m so grateful that padmé brought me this lady because honestly ??? idk how i lived without sen in my life before now ??? sen’s writing is so amazing and her characterization is so on point and she’s always making me question my life choices every time she brings up a plot idea, but in the best way possible. i love her a lot ok.

@demandpeace : haley is just….my salt sister. like a soul sister, only closer, because we get salty about the treatment of our fave ladies and it’s EXCELLENT. i love haley even when she’s using her perfect writing to stab me in the back with padtine feels and i love her for giving me the powerful sassy space nobility girlfriends that i deserve. 

@masterofcraft / @triggrhappy : lillie was one of my first new friends on padmé and i’ll always be so glad and grateful for that. she’s been such a happy influence on my life since entering it, and has given me so many obidala feels it’s unreal. idk how i got to be so blessed but i’m so moved and grateful and never gonna stop being emo about it.

@coughbot​ / @crdered​ : MY SON. zach is my son whom i birthed and raised from infancy and is genuinely one of the sweetest and most talented souls i have ever ??? in my life ??? met ??? they write with the kind of elegance and cohesiveness that writers twice their age struggle with and i’m like. constantly amazed. also so fucking kind like call out post for zach for being TOO PURE.

@sempermemoriia​ / @penitenciia​ / @harlemforged​ : tj is pretty much my favorite of all time ??? tj is, first of all, unfairly fucking talented, and second of all, so thoughtful and observant and it’s kind of the best thing ever ??? i never have to worry that tj hasn’t read my rules or my headcanons because not only does he read all of them but also he incorporates them in everything he writes with me and honestly i love that man more than sharks love blood.

@rosecrime​ / @trustfunded​ / @redeemself​ : maddie aka my other best friend i’m so !!!! i love that girl !! i would die for her !! i’m so blessed to have so many talented friends in my life and i’m sure y’all are tired of hearing that word but EVERYONE !! IS SO TALENTED !! I’M SHOOK !! maddie is such a fucking powerhouse with her replies it leaves me shook all the time, and her characters are always so multi faceted and amazing. no one makes an oc like maddie, like you could throw an fc at her and she’d come up with a well rounded character in under an hour, i’m sure of it.

                                                THE LOYALIST COMMITTEE 

@tachiisms​ / @ofalderaan​ : liesl is hands down one of the kindest, if not The Kindest, person i have ever met on this godforsaken hellsite. i am like 100% sure she has done nothing wrong in her life, ever, and i am, frankly, in awe of her skill at writing and of the amount of positivity and love she graces my dash with on a daily basis. also her siri is so good i’m fucking Shook at all times.

@rebelsacrifice​ / @ofeffulgence​ : lyssa is so incredibly lovely it deadass amazes me all the time like what a machine with her replies ?? how do you do so many replies so fast ?? how are they all phenomenal ?? teach me ?? her characterization is always spot on and her replies are always so good and honestly I Die.

@rcbelborn​ / @eireniic​ : val pretty much constantly has me screaming, if i’m being entirely honest. i have never, in my entire life, looked at another writer on tumblr as ‘goals’ as much as i look at val as my life goal. her writing is so phenomenal and poetic and beautiful while still being coherent and concise and i stalk….everything….and it’s all amazing……i can’t believe this….

@scarificed​ / @warbones​ : i’m pretty convinced miriam is actually satan at this point and i’ve sold my soul to the devil or something but honestly if that means i get to read all of her stuff about oak and also padmé gets to kiss his face i’ll take it ?? i care so much about miriam’s oc’s and i can’t wait to read more of them tbh.

                                                   THE GALACTIC SENATE 

@17000 - @afewmistakes - @aldcraanian - @allianceintel - @arebelnow - @arepure - @artcfwar - @bellassan - @betrayedjedi - @bloodthirstygod - @bluethreepilot - @boogcyman - @bredhope - @brehaa - @bridgrs - @brookesmxrt - @captaxn - @captcassiansandors - @catholiccrowned - @coldbattle - @cosmichymns - @cosmosbeing - @cuyanir - @dathomirborn - @diretales - @disguis - @dualknown - @efridcct - @empireworthy - @ersoteric - @fauxquccn - @fcrcepilot - @forcerebel - @fulcrumm - @galaxyslasthope - @godcoded - @halfworldborn - @heavcnsgrief - @helluvapilot - @hiddensteel - @hopeandrhetoric - @hotshotflyboy - @iinquiisitor - @illecebras - @ingenuitys - @inkwrittcn - @inusitus - @ironfistedwill - @itspersonalforus - @iviaw - @jaigsight - @jaigvision - @jcrso - @jedhaguardian - @jedimessianic - @jediheart - @jediswcrd - @kalofhouseel - @kaminosfinest - @khagaan - @khuravhi - @killedstars - @knightcrusader - @kybersung - @lasanguarded - @lastorgana - @legacyappetite - @lothrat - @menaceborn - @moonjeweled - @moranument - @mossofash - @ncrfherder - @nctapawn - @neverthedark - @obscvrc - @ofashandruin - @ofcloudcities - @oferiadu - @ofironandbeauty - @ofmillennium - @ofsoprano - @oftogrutas - @oftwileks - @ofvaliancy - @orscn - @ostardust - @paxjinn - @princessofwar - @rcguecne - @rebeliintel - @rebelraiised - @rebelvoiced - @republicdied - @roguecapt - @scruffysmuggler - @secretusreginam - @senthope - @shadcwpreacher - @sergeantstardust - @simplehunt - @sithshadow - @smugglerson - @snipisms - @sonnenkonigin - @soulscatter - @sovietperil - @spunstories - @starchillcd - @starrises - @stillsolo - @txrkin - @tyranusss - @underoosed - @unsith - @weaponexpert - @weiirdwitch - @withoutpeer - @ziinariya ( and my other blogs, @freedomscost , @poisonedtwin , and @wanderiingstars )

Thank you <3

I wanted to offer a huge, gigantic thank you to everyone who commented on The Riven Crown. It’s amazing to have finished it, and even better to see how much people have enjoyed it!

All of you, whether you found me in the Hobbit fandom or followed me from Sherlock (or before) have kept me going through a really difficult time, and it’s only with your support that I was able to finish Riven Crown.

So thank you, from the absolute bottom of my heart <3

What Now?

I still have plenty of project ideas bubbling in my head, which is great. There are Sherlock fics, as well as Bagginshield. I’m also hoping to get my Patreon going and my personal site as well. 

However, I am going to do what I’ve never done before after finishing a fic and take a solid chunk of “time off”. I love writing, but I tend to throw myself into one project after another and never take the time to really celebrate my achievements.

Now, time off for me doesn’t necessarily mean I’m not writing, or that I’m not around. I’ll still be here bugging you, maybe posting snippets now and then, I just won’t be posting anything in a scheduled, organised way. Writing is fun, and with a bit more organisation and such, I hope to make it more sustainable (especially as I’m also getting help with my mental health!)

I’ll also be replying to reviews as soon as I can!

Much love,

B xxx

anonymous asked:

Your recent ask - where the anon asked why CC shippers think that Darren is being forced to play straight - reminded me of something. There's a podcast online where a panel analyses every Glee episode - if you Youtube 'Original Song Afterbuzz After Show', which was filmed in 2011, they hit the nail right on the head with why Darren is being sold as a marketable object. If you want to check it out the timestamp is 36:12. Proves that even back in 2011 people could see what Ryan and FOX were up to

Thank you anon, I did not even know this existed.  Amazing how they found over an hour worth of material to discuss a 42 minute episode of Glee.

But yes absolutely, right at the 36:12 mark we learn that Darren is in fact “straight.” And the host goes on to explain how that is genius marketing as he is the new poster boy for the show and he is now a real option to the “tween girls.”

I do love how he got in “or maybe he is gay…”

So I just had my fitness consultation and the guy who’s been helping me is super nice. When we were first talking about goals he seemed to start out a little stiff bit as I talked about my goals and what I valued in fitness he started lighting up. Like I told him I wanted rounder, more useful muscle and to feel solid and he was grinning and was like “yeah that’s what I do!!”. He did a little evaluation of my capabilities and he kept stopping and was like “wow.. your form is on point” and by the end of the session he was like “I would absolutely love to train you” and I felt so bad I had to be like “bro I cannot afford personal training.”

But he offered to help me out if I ever needed direction with form or how to use a machine and it made me so happy. Like YOOOO I started out my session by being like “bro I’m trans and I want to be taken seriously when people see Me” and he was so fucking nice and respectful and he took m 120% seriously and it was literally fucking amazing

ok honestly i went to see rose and rosie in glasgow yesterday with one of my best friends and i just want to say (again) how much i love being gay. i love it, i know i talk and meme abt it all the time but this time im for real, i cant imagine my life without this community? absolutely love that i get to meet all these amazing people, i love that when we went yesterday there were so many lesbians and bi and pan girls and trans girls and even some guys, and everyone was chatting and taking selfies and getting to know eachother and it was so comfortable and nice. one girl proposed to her girlfriend on stage!!! yk this is a thing that straights dont even have to think abt bc its just safe for them but for lesbians to be able to do that, and to have literally everyone in the room cheer and clap and scream?? i was ready to cry. i love the lgbt community, i love being a lesbian, i lov u all goodnight

Reasons Why Elisa Yao/Stump is the Best Person Ever

If you dislike Elisa Yao please unfollow me and never come back because she is a literal queen:

•She puts up with Patrick’s crazy schedule

•Seriously, raising a baby is hard with both parents, almost impossible alone

•She’s literally the most beautiful woman to ever walk the earth

•Patrick is crazy in love with her

•She’s an ENGINEER

•She’s never once stepped into Patrick’s spotlight

•You know how tempting it would be?! But no! She just wants to have a career and a family and be amazing without any credit

•You can see in every picture just how unbearably in love she is with Patrick I mean come on

•She birthed the most beautiful baby ever

•She puts up with the stupid fans who feel the need to harass her with absolute grace, and has never been anything but wonderfully sweet to any fan who has ever approached her


•My god I love her

Tony/Rhodey Fic Recs

(because tony and rhodey make the absolute cutest couple and i rly wished more people shipped them too (i mean did u see civil war??? how can you not??) so in an effort to convert more people to this wonderful pairing, here is a list of some truly amazing tonyrhodey fics!)

A Date on the Moon by what_alchemy [NC-17, 13.2k]

Just because someone’s name is on your hand doesn’t mean it’s easy.

A Lonely, Lost Thing by PhoenixFalls [T, 9.5k]

James Rhodes just wanted a nice relaxing night out, drinking with some classmates, maybe a bit of dancing. Tony Stark probably wanted the same. Unfortunately, some people willfully misunderstand how consent works. James educates them (with his fists), and Tony makes a friend.

A Million Shades of Blue by Not Applicable [T, 8.5k]

“I just know that if I could get to wherever he is, I could find him. Dead or alive, I’d bring him back to us.”

James Rhodes will never stop searching for Tony Stark.

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i changed my url a couple days ago; i used to be lovelyhans.

i hit 1k the other day, and i can’t even begin to explain how thankful i am. the last 4 months have been absolutely amazing, and the amount of wonderful people i’ve met is truly astounding.

in honor of this awesome milestone, i thought i would have a celebration to thank every single one of you!! <3

here’s what this celebration will include:

  • quick blogrates
  • detailed blogrates
  • aesthetic blogrates
  • blog compliments
  • url-based moodboard requests
  • character/fandom moodboard requests
  • make me choose moodboard requests

you’ll notice that i have a bit of a moodboard theme going on

formats/rules under the cut. please don’t let this flop! feel free to blacklist “gabby’s celebration” if you don’t want to see these!

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