I support and respect you

💗💜💙If you are bisexual I love, respect, and support you. I know it does not make you a cheat, or greedy, or untrustworthy. I know it’s not a phase or a stepping stone to being ‘fully gay’. I know you are not just straight and looking for attention. I know that finding someone and falling in love doesn’t mean you’ve ‘picked a side’. I know that being bi doesn’t mean you will always be on the brink of being tempted by someone of a different gender, even when you are in love. I know you are no more likely to be unfaithful than anybody else. I know that you are important, and valued, and deserve to be happy. 💗💜💙

shoutout to asexual trans boys who don’t feel like they belong in the LGBT+ community because of TERFs and exclusionists !!

no matter what they say, you are 1000% valid in your gender and your orientation and you are 1000% welcome in the LGBT+ community !!

you are deserving of so much love, respect, and support and i hope you know how wonderful and how loved you are !! 

lil reasons to love bangtan's syub-d

- album reviews
- when he used the faux fur from the coat as his ‘blond’ hair
- dressed up a mj figurine bc he thought he might be cold
- enjoys working in messy environments
- flipped rm off when the latter ranted in english nonstop
- being extra in rm’s log
- him reacting to kumamon irl
- “swag”
- the roommate who’d offer to watch movies together but fall asleep in b/w
- “aAAAARRRRHMMMYYYYYYYYYYYY”
- when he got jealous bc jimin asked namjoon to help him write lyrics for ‘tony montana’
- OTL moments
- licked a bath bomb bc he wondered if it’d taste like fizzy vitamin
- “lost my bag”
- says drinking coffee from a straw is 2 much so pours it in a bottle
- everything that happened in ‘first love’ and his entire mixtape
- blatantly sticking his ass out for hoseok to kick
- “i teared up but the tears evaporated”
- stitching the doll’s nose then leaving the needle there
- first idol 2 write music for weekly idol
- specialty: yelling jhope even when he isn’t on screen, only having eyes for jhope, can only focus on jhope’s fingers, laughing hysterically @ jhope’s reaction, loving jhope
- when he n jim were trying to push each other using hands only but the former ended up goin straight to jim’s crotch
- pulling chopsticks out of his sleeve
- his lover aka the neck pillow
- his reaction after telling fans he’s turning 24 in a month
- personally thanking heechul for taking care of them in weekly idol (even tho he didn’t get no screen time in the end)
- his trophy gazes
- jimin once described him as, and i quote, “an angel w no wings”
- suggested getting broccoli n salmon sponsorships for hobi bc of his dark eye circles
- do you ever just realize how he’s the first to react to hobi
- running to steal jin’s flag from behind
- saying how rm stealing his food was “so cute”
- when hobi said he was nervous for the rehearsal he replied, “hyung will carry everything so don’t be nervous”
- the legendary leather jacket
- “lost my taehyung”
- invented the lazy way to make a wrap
- making armys convert to the religion called bts
- stretching = lying down
- self added the rude hip thrusts in dope
- attempted in using chopsticks w left hand
- how he charges out of the scene right after the shooting is over
- lil feet claps
- plays basketball
- always there to reassure hobi’s nervousness
- always hyping jhope up before its the latter’s turn to rap
- how he covers his entire head in the airport
- ok but consider this….he was The One who encouraged jimin to write lyrics

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You know when you think you’re out of a hellhole for good only to fall right back into it due to some small character that keeps being stuck on your mind? 

That is you, Connor.

I am not saying I will update a lot but god dammit these Assassin’s are going to be the death of me. 

how easier Connor’s life would have been if he only had Yellow pages to help him

Swimwear advice!!

So sorry, this turned out really long. Anyone is free to message me if you have questions or just want to talk :)

I’ve seen several asks from guys who aren’t out or aren’t accepted feeling anxious about swim wear- I thought I’d pitch in my suggestions on swimwear that is fairly gender neutral, or at least not over the top feminine.

If you’re going to be stuck wearing a “girl swimsuit,” you can definitely find stuff to wear in the women’s sections at places like Target, Walmart, or sporting goods stores. There’s usually a big section of trendy bikini/one piece stuff, but there should be a section that’s more basic and less revealing options.  Check there for basic swim or board shorts. A lot of these are still probably going to be pretty short compared to most men’s trunks, and they’ll probably be more form fitting, so look for some with a drawstring or adjustable waistband and go a size up.

As far as tops go, you also want to go with something pretty basic and toned down. If you can find something that’s basically just a tank top, then that will probably be your best bet. Try to find something with a relaxed cut instead of something that goes in at the waist (going a size up for this will probably help too). Look for something that has wide straps or even sleeves, since thinner straps tend to look more feminine. Almost all women’s suits will have bra cups built in to the top. If you’re lucky enough to find one without them, then that’s great, but in most cases, you can pull out the foam bra cup inserts. Do that! Those will define your chest more. If the suit is a thin material or you feel self conscious, you can take a few pieces of a stiff fabric like denim or canvas and insert those into the pockets the bra cups were in. Doing this won’t work like a binder, but it won’t define your chest like the cups did, and it’ll help to keep you from poking through your top. Be sure to remove the fabric as soon as you take off your suit, since it won’t dry very well and could get moldy or gross if it’s left in.

Other routes you could go would be to wear a basic athletic style one piece with shorts over it, or shorts + bikini top or sports bra+ rashguard top. If you cant find what you’re looking for in swimwear, don’t be afraid to try stuff like sports bras or lightweight athletic shorts/shirts, as long as you don’t leave them wet for too long- toss them in the dryer once you take them off to avoid aforementioned mold.

Some basic pointers on picking swimwear that’s not super feminine:

-Go for darker colors, neutrals, and earth tones. Bright, neon, and pastel colors are usually seen as more feminine.

-You can never go wrong with basic, plain pieces. If you love prints like me, though, stuff like stripes, plaid, geometric patterns, and camouflage tend to read masculine. Anything with superheroes/Star Wars/ video games/ sci-fi is also a pretty safe bet.

-If anyone questions why you’re so covered up, or not wearing a “normal” swimsuit, or whatever, you are not obligated to tell them anything you’re not comfortable with. Lots of cis women prefer to cover up too, for a lot of reasons. You have permission to lie like hell if you need to for your physical/emotional safety and comfort. You can say that you want to protect your skin from the sun, you can say that you don’t like “trendier” swimsuits because you’re worried you’ll flash everyone, you can cite religious reasons, etc, etc. Or you can just say it’s more comfortable and leave it at that. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for how you dress.

Most important: I know it sucks to feel stuck trying to fill a role that you’re uncomfortable in, and it’s really hard and depressing trying to be someone you’re not. Remember that it’s not forever, and some day you’ll be able to have fun swimming with friends, wearing what you want and feeling comfortable and confident. Someday, you’ll get to decide what haircut you want, what clothes you wear, what name you go by, what surgeries or HRT treatments you want, and you’ll be surrounded by people who respect and support you. I know it’s hard, and I know it seems like a long wait, but be kind to yourself. Someday, you’ll look back at how things are now, and you’ll be proud of how far you’ve come.

I’ve seen many people defending pewdiepie and saying things like #istandwithpewdiepie so I’d like to send a message to those people.

How can you be so ignorant? Is the fact that there are many people who truly do want to kill Jews not enough to convince you that maybe joking about such things is wrong? Are you that insensitive to the history of the Nazis who killed 5-6 million Jews? Have you forgotten what has happened when people let anti semitism go ignored?

While it may be all a joke to you, it is far too real to others who face the possibility of being killed for being a Jew. So while you’re laughing and brushing it off, someone else is facing oppression.

You shouldn’t be so surprised the media reacted this way. You shouldn’t be surprised that they called him out for it. This is, after all, not the first time he has done something like this.

Image it as something like this: 

Your classmate is allergic to peanut butter. Even just touching it will cause an allergic reaction. You are fully aware of this. 

You decide to one day bring a PB&J sandwich to lunch. If that wasn’t enough, you also decide to deliberately bring it near them. And when they point out how insensitive this is, you throw a fit claiming that “you don’t deserve this harassment” and “you’ve done so many nice things in the past”.

If you truly cared about your classmate, you would have respected their allergy. 

So go ahead and keep supporting him. But do understand that by supporting him, you are also supporting the harassment of millions of people who face real threats by real Nazis.

asexual people who still want to look sexy are no less asexual than asexual people who do not!

regardless of your reasons, you are allowed to want to look sexy and still be asexual!

regardless of other people’s perceptions about asexuality, you are allowed to want to look sexy and still be asexual!

regardless of what other people tell you, you are allowed to look sexy and still be asexual!

no matter how you present yourself, you are still 1000% valid in your asexuality and you are deserving of respect, understanding, and support! i hope you have an excellent day!

anonymous asked:

What would you like to say to your future wife ?

To the woman who likes to take her sweet time, 

I can’t wait to meet you. If I am with you, it is because you make me better. Because you are everything that I need and more. Because I want you to be the other half that raises our children; I want them to be just like you. You are my person. You are the one I want to wake up next to, tell about my day, sit next to at our children’s graduations - whether it be kindergarten or high school. The one I want to say “your turn” to when the baby is crying. Your hand is the only hand I want to hold. The one who’s shoulder I want to cry on and who I want standing next to me through life’s greatest moments. I promise to share the covers, no matter how much I like to steal them. I promise to be everything you need and to always show you just how lucky I am. I promise you my love, my respect, my support, my honesty, my ears, my shoulder. I know you are going to make me into the woman I was made to be. Thank you for putting up with me. Thank you for choosing me. Thank you for loving me. My heart aches for someone I’ve possibly never met. Thank you for teaching me love - a love that I feared I was incapable of or was never going to get. I am already so in love with you. 

See you at the end of the aisle. 

Dear Superfruit fans

I know y'all are probably freaking out rn over the groundbreaking news (I know I am), but we need to remember a few important things:

- Scott and Mitch are PEOPLE, and this is their actual life, not a made up story.

- they have NO obligation to share their private life with us. So being mad they didn’t tell us sooner, harassing them to share more details or trying to bully them into talking about their current relationship status is NOT OKAY.

- no matter what your opinion is on their relationship (wether you ship them or not), you have no right to attack people that see things differently.

- be nice to your fellow fandom members, and most importantly

- show Scott and Mitch your love and support in a respectful way

Thanks fandom family, I love you 💜

and your shaky hands [ eh x r ]

fandom : Dear Evan Hansen

by : Summer

pairing : Evan Hansen x Reader

summary : You find origami to be a great coping mechanism regarding your unstable hands. Spending the day with Evan, you think he could give it a try.

word count: 3,333

warnings: Cussing?? idk

a / n : Originally titled “origami” but i found another imagine with the same title and didn’t want to copy or whatever. This is (probably) the first imagine I write for this blog!! Yay, okay I hope this is a good way to start this off, and if you do read this, bless your souls and I love you. Any sort of support is sincerely respected: liking, commenting, reblogging, following, anything! Constructive criticism is always appreciated :) Thanks, and enjoy! Much love.
          -S


Shaky hands were always an issue with you.

Like that time you were four and you heard the ice cream truck coming down your street.

You grabbed your mother by the arm and begged her to let you buy something. She reluctantly allowed you to and walked out to the sidewalk. You saw the truck making its way slower and slower towards you and began bouncing with excitement. The truck came to a full stop, the driver giving you an award-winning smile. You pointed out what you had been craving the most and your mom handed him the money. He lowered the sweet to your small self, and without a single hesitation, you snatched it out of his hands.

Taking a large bite you could feel your whole body tingling with joy and excitement. Unfortunately a painful pulsing made its way around your head and you felt your treat wobble violently in your unsteady hands.

Long story short, you dropped your ice cream.

Now it seems like a stupid thing to cry over but back then it was an overwhelming amount of trauma for a four year old.


There was also that time in second grade when you wanted to make a bracelet for that cute boy Evan Hansen.

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agender people who have to deal with being misgendered as girls are still agender

being misgendered sucks but no matter how people perceive you, your identity is still 1000% valid and you are 1000% valid

you deserve to be around people who will respect that you are agender

you deserve to have your identity accepted

you are wonderful and amazing and absolutely agender and you are deserving of lots of love, respect, understanding, and support, and i hope you get exactly as much as you need!

oh, sana.

pushing aside your own pain to help noora; like you helped eva, and vilde, and isak.

you are worthy. to be heard, valued, understood, supported and respected. you are so worthy. I can’t wait for you to feel that from all those around you.

BBMA's

Yes BTS DID THAT! They deserved this award, they worked so hard to be recognized and to get to where they are. I am so proud that they are out there not only representing Korean artist but showing the respect they have for other artist. It was amazing to see the standing ovation they got. They have truly done it all and then some. I can’t wait to see what the future holds for not only bts but for Korean artist as well. ARMY you truly are a supportive fandom and I respect that aspect about you all.

Originally posted by mvssmedia

My dear lgbt+ kids who wear Hijabs (or other kinds or religious headwear),

You belong into the lgbt+ community. You belong, and you are loved, accepted and respected. I support you wholeheartedly - and with you, i mean all of you. 

No matter which gender you identify with, who you feel attracted to or not or what your individual reasons for wearing it are, you are welcome here. 

With all my love, 

Your Tumblr Mom 

anonymous asked:

Any advice on how to approach tough conversations with my parents without getting overwhelmed and crying?

-Keep in mind that not every discussion is a fight. It doesn’t have to turn into a fight.

-Think about what you want to say on beforehand. You can write your ideas if possible so you don’t miss any point or get lost within the conversation.

-Tell your parents that you want to talk about something important. Schedule a brief time with them in which they can give you their attention.

-Let them know why talking about that subject is important for you.

-Your emotional well being goes first. If the thing is getting ugly you can ask to pause the conversation and re take it when everybody is more calm (this particular tip has made wonders in the relationship with my mom).

-Keep your voicetone calm but steady. Don’t shout, and try to not get heated. Remember that it’s a conversation. Don’t get defensive even if they do. The outcome might not be what you wanted and that might be frustrating but try to stay calm.

-Some phrases that might help are:

“I would like to know what you think of (the subject)”

“Why do you think that way? What are your concerns?”

“I understand why you say it but I do not agree”

“From my point of view…”

“I would appreciate if you could give thought to (subject)” and negotiate a partial agreement

“I don’t agree with that but I respect your decision/ will support you”

-If things don’t go your way you can always try again when armed with resources.

And even if the outcome isn’t what you wanted I am already proud of you for speaking out. I believe you and support you.

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I made this videos after reading a series of disgusting comments about him yesterday and it made me really sad to think that he might actually read what people are saying about him. I’m not good in video editing or something I just found the need to do that to remind some people that this kid is a 17 year old human being with feelings and it’s not okay to just say the nasty things they’re saying. Honestly the amount of negativity not only him but also his family has to go through right now is unbelievable and also unacceptable. You don’t need to like him, you don’t need to support him but I beg you to actually respect him and see him as the human being he is. Ofcourse he makes mistakes! I’m not telling you to like his personality neither am I saying that he’s the most qualified to be in top11 but honestly he doesn’t have to! He has the right to be treated just like any other human being, just like every other trainee on this show. Please just respect him and his family and stop being nasty towards them.