listen, i love my tv shows more than anyone else in the world. when I’m in a fandom i can promise you i think of nothing else besides that fandom in real life and let it consume my entire being. i obviously care deeply about the show if i’m willing to dedicate so much of my life to it.
HOWEVER, just because i love something so much does not mean i’m blind to its faults. there are always going to be things i don’t agree with. NOTHING is perfect. and it’s healthy to want to openly discuss these issues in an adult way so we can learn and see how things could be improved in the future. this in no way means i love the show any less or am not a “true fan” for not loving every single part.
and anyone who claims absolutely nothing is wrong and thinks everything the show does is perfect is fooling themselves.