I just love him a lot

harry has such a gentle, tender heart. it’s one of my favorite things about him. he’s just so emotional, not even in the sense that he cries a lot he just feels what he feels and doesn’t make any apologies for it and he’s so genuine, i mean, gimmicks/images aside, who he’s revealed himself to be is so soft and squishy like a teddy bear and i just have the need to love and protect him always :( 

mathryn  asked:

how to tell bf that i love him but am lesbean

wow, this is a tough spot to be in. i think a lot of how you might approach this situation depends on your own personal understanding of your boyfriend’s attitudes toward lgbt people. if you have any reservations whatsoever about him reacting really negatively, i would advise you to simply give him a different excuse when you sit down to talk with him. 

it doesn’t sound like that’s the case here, though - you still really care about this person, but you’ve come to realize that he’s just not what you’re looking for in a partner on a fundamental level. i think the best thing you can do here, if it’s safe to do so, is to be as honest as you can. tell him that you love him deeply and care about him a lot, but you’ve come to realize that you’re only interested in dating women. any guy worth his salt will understand fully and respect you and your choices. if he does anything less than that, you don’t have to keep him in your life.

it’s likely that you’ll both need some time to process this on your own, and you might agree to give each other some space for a few weeks as you adjust to this new dynamic in your relationship. then you can check back in with each other, see where you’re both at, and move forward in growing your friendship.

best of luck bb <3

carl gallagher is the definition of unexpected. the little boy who melted dolls together, tortured animals, put a goldfish in the microwave all while his siblings just watched in some kind of amused horror. the little boy who bullied the other kids because he wanted to make people cry, who fantasized about pushing people on train tracks, who never had a problem with death or murder. the teenage boy that ate out almost every girl in his grade just for the hell of it. that boy is the same boy who put his shirt back on and had zero complaints about it because his girlfriend didn’t like sex, the same boy who took her entire family in even when his siblings resisted (”they live in a van.” “why is that my problem?”  “it’s winter”). it’s the same boy who was so devoted to his best friend that he gave him a place to live, never complained about or mocked the things that made him feel safe and did them with no judgement (watching his back in the shower at home, letting him sleep on the floor). the same boy who saw a (not his first, but his first fresh) dead body and knew he couldn’t keep going down the same path he was going anymore because he didn’t wanna see that. the same boy who only questioned ian’s sexuality because he wanted to know more about it and no one would give him any answers, the same boy who accepted caleb’s sexuality even when ian and even caleb barely did, the same boy who comforted mickey when ian was being diagnosed. the same boy who said he wasn’t good enough for his girlfriend but he would do whatever she asked as long as she liked him (he literally cut the tip of his dick off for that girl). he never said any rude things to her, after the whole sorority ordeal he didn’t even speak to her. he just hung out with her dad, the only positive father figure in his life, and bettered himself. he even almost gave up his newfound dream to be with her after she cheated on him, but he went anyways after she just broke his heart again. he went to military school, he’s trying to be a better person. this is the same boy who tried so hard to help his father so many times, and in the end his father tried to force him to stay in the business he was in despite the fact that he was terrified and miserable. carl is so devoted and loyal to everyone, not just the gallaghers, and even the people who hurt him, and he’s the most well-rounded character on the show.

we also need to talk about what magnus’ spellbook implies which is that he’s singlehandedly created hundreds if not thousands of spells and that these are spells unique to him. meaning he’s the only one who can both cast and undo them, except for what he may have chosen to share to a select few. and that these are likely the spells warding the Institute, but not only that, the Clave is probably relying on many other spells he’s created.

basically what i’m saying is magnus bane has the greatest insurance policy ever because if he goes, all of his spells go with him.

Andrew is one of the most interesting and complex characters I’ve ever come across. He completely subverts the hero archetype. He cares deeply for his family and those immediately close to him. He’s willing to do and has done anything to protect the people he cares about. He’s an abuse survivor trying very hard to move forward and take control of his life. But at the same time he can be cold and calculating and he’s not at all soft or nice. A lot of the things he’s done could qualify as irredeemable. Yet the reader comes to understand him deeply without being pushed to ignore his past behavior because while he does change in letting Neil in, he essentially doesn’t change. Our perception of him does.