So I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and he recently asked me to get my ring size measured and I'm kinda freaking out about it, I really hate being the centre of attention and really hope its a not a public scene. Any ideas on how to calm my nerves?
Oh wow that’s exciting! But I see why you’d be nervous. Maybe you could just explain to him that it’d be too much for you to be the centre of attention at some big public proposal, and that while you’re really excited and thrilled that he’s thinking along those lines, maybe he could just keep that in mind? Failing that, try to remind yourself that this is about you and your partner - no one else. If he proposes in a big public way then ignore the people around you, this is a gesture of love and commitment between you two as a couple and no one else should matter during such a special moment. Try to enjoy it. I hope it’s wonderful
Good luck hun 💟