Homosexual

Me emputece cuando dicen: "Si tuviera un hijo homosexual no tendría problema, pero no sabría como tratarlo" ¡¿Tratar qué?! No estás tratando con una persona enferma ni fisica ni psicologicamente, pero tu actitud tratandolo como si lo fuera, puede que al final si termine siendo una persona, problablemente, con una enfermedad psicológica.

Si es como lo mismo que “tratar” con una persona que le gusta el Rock y otra que le gusta el Rap.

anonymous asked:

I've always liked guys, but only in a romantic way (I can't ever imagine having sex w a guy). These past years I've noticed I like girls but only physically (I can imagine having sex w a girl). I'm so lost. I feel disgusting and wrong somehow.Advice?

Hey Anon,

You are not disgusting and wrong. No part of your feelings are wrong or disgusting. This is how you feel and it’s completely okay to feel this way. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this. It’s perfectly acceptable for someone to grow and change and begin to realize things about themselves that they did not before; much like what you are experiencing right now. I know that it can be shocking, alarming, scary, unsettling, etc. , but you are growing and it’s completely okay to feel new things and discovering new things about yourself. There is nothing wrong or disgusting about becoming who you are.

Many people actually have preferences when it comes to certain things with people. It’s very natural to prefer one gender over the other for different reasons. There a several people who can seem themselves being romantic with one gender, yet sexual with a different gender. I promise you that you are not alone. If you are romantically attracted to guys, but don’t want to have sex with them, that is completely fine. And if at the same time you realize you are physically attracted to girls, this is totally fine too. This is just how your attractions work.

Majority of the time your attractions are involuntary; you can’t really control them. Just because this is how your attractions work does not make your attractions or feelings wrong. There is nothing wrong with these feelings or how you attractions work. You cannot blame yourself. Who and how you are attracted is apart of who you are and who you are is an amazing person. Don’t let your attractions make you afraid to be yourself. Don’t let yourself, or the world, shame you for feeling. The best version of you is you being true to yourself. It could take some time, but love yourself. Learn to love yourself and be proud of who you are. Remember you are more than your orientations and attractions. You have so much to offer the world and are an important person in many people’s lives. 

You could possibly have a bi-attraction somewhere. Whether it be biromantic or bisexual, or both. I don’t know your gender, so forgive me if I get this wrong, but you may be heteromantic and homosexual. You do seem pretty sure that you are romantically attracted to guys and physically attracted to girls. You may even be heteromantic or bisexual. And it does sound like that you may even be more aesthetically attracted to women then men. It’s completely possible for your romantic attraction to defer from your sexual attraction. The choice is really up to you.

In fact, you don’t have to define these feelings at all if you don’t want. Remember: attractions may be involuntary, but your decision to act on them or not is all up to you. You could go through your life only dating men if you want and still have these feelings for women. It does not have to mean anything significant in your life if you don’t want to. You don’t even have to tell anyone that you have these feelings towards girls. If you prefer to identify how you previously did before, even with these feelings, you are totally allowed to do that. It’s perfectly acceptable for you to identify as straight even with these feelings towards girls. Always identify with how you are most comfortable. 

Hang in there, Anon. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Many people have their gender preferences and things that they prefer to do with certain genders. Some people like to date men, but prefer to have sex with women. Some people like to date women, but prefer sex with men. Some like men over women. Some like women over men. Some people are more romantically attracted to one gender over others and at the same time sexually attracted to a different gender. I promise you that you are not alone with these feelings and attractions. What you are feeling is completely fine. I do think you have a bi-attraction somewhere, but the final decisions is always yours. Whether you want to label these feelings or not is completely okay. You can live with these feelings and not label them at all if you don’t want to. There is nothing wrong with that. Do what is best and most comfortable for you. If you ever need to talk or have any questions feel free to message me any time.

(I deeply apologize for the late response.)

Las leyes del universo

1. Grita lo que quieres hacer y pasara todo lo contrario

2. Susurra lo que quieres hacer y pasara aún mejor de lo que pensabas hacerlo 

3. Si dices “nunca” pasara más de una vez, y el universo te lo recalcara lo máximo que sea posible

4. Lo que más quieres no necesariamente va ser lo que más amaras

5. Cada vez que un agujero negro aparece en tu vida, se crea un nuevo Big- Bang 

6. El karma es su mejor amigo

7. Todo sucede por algo

8. Si de verdad lo quieres él te ayudara a conseguirlo si lo mereces

9. Nunca intentar adivinar que quiere para nuestro mañana porque cambiara sus planes

Si se te ocurre algún otro comentalo c: Vamos hacer esto entre todos 

-Júpiter

Yo me quedo aterrado con el nivel de estupidez que puede llegar a alcanzar esta sociedad. Debido a los hechos ocurridos en Orlando por el asesinato de unos 50 homosexuales, ahora la gente está sacando una estúpida campaña que básicamente dice “ si es normal matar homosexuales, que sea normal matar ignorantes “ a lo cual honestamente creo que deberían de fusilarse la mismo quien sea que propuso y siga una bestialidad como esa, pues claramente el mayor ignorante es usted que piensa que con más muertes va a solucionar algo. ¿Acaso la historia, no ha sido suficiente para demostrarnos que tal violencia no nos lleva más que a la miseria y el sufrimiento? ¿acaso ya no estamos en el 2016 y deberíamos de avanzar un poquitico en nuestra mentalidad para decir que las cosas no se solucionan ojo por ojo, diente por diente? ¿dónde quedó solucionar las cosas con amor, con educación, con ayuda? Pero no, lastimosamente da asco leer que aún vivimos entre unos montones de animales salvajes casi cavernícolas que no tiene otra opción más allá que simplemente matar a  aquel que piensa diferente en vez de educar bajo argumentos válidos, sólo somos capaces de optar por la solución más promitiva y sencilla.  Que tristeza de verdad.