High-Self-Esteem

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MOTIV

Materialist | Offbeat | Thinking | Intimate | Vital| Spartan | Conventional | Emotional | Withholding | Depressive + MCEIX

GLOBAL 5
social | reserved | limbic | calm | organized | unstructured |accommodating | egocentric | non-curious | inquisitive + RCOAN

HOLLAND
realistic | investigative | artistic | social | entrepreneurial | conventional + SIA

R-DRIVE
Narcissism | Unconventionality | Empiricism | Vitality | Othercentricism |Independence | Integrity | Intellect | Stoicism | Orderliness | Hedonism | Dynamism | Activity | Romanticism

ENNEAGRAM
type 1 | type 2 | type 3 | type 4 |  type 5 | type 6 | type 7 | type 8 | type 9

JUNG/MYERS-BRIGGS
enfp | enfj | entp | entj | estj | esfj | estp | esfp | infp | infj | intp | intj | istj | isfj | istp | isfp

ALIGNMENT
lawful good | neutral good | chaotic good | true neutral | lawful neutral | chaotic neutral | lawful evil | neutral evil | chaotic evil

4 TEMPERAMENTS
melancholic | phlegmatic | choleric | sanguine

ROSENBERG SELF-ESTEEM SCALE
1 - 3 | 4 - 6 | 7 - 9 | 10 - 12 | 13-15 | 16 -18 | 19 -21 | 22 - 24 | 25 - 27 | 28 - 30

#Tbt to a time where I absolutely hated how I looked. My high school years were filled with times of low self-esteem and full of jealousy towards the girls who were skinny and gorgeous. I never liked to go anywhere and had high social anxiety, mainly due to the insecurities I had of myself. Fast-forward to now where I absolutely love myself, have lost some weight, and think I am quite adorable most times. I can’t get enough of taking selfies, making faces at myself in my bedroom mirror, and wanting to now venture out into public because it makes me feel better. I go out in shorts and dresses not caring about how bad my legs may look from cellulite and I no longer worry about what other people are thinking of me. I am so glad I dealt with low self-esteem at one point because it shows me where I no longer want to be and it helps me be more positive towards others when they make comments showing low self-esteem. I may not look perfect to any one else, but as long as I am happy with myself, that’s all I care for. I am so incredibly glad that my self-confidence arrived in the past few months.

With Love, xx

I am in my mid 20’s, and I’ve finally just started to really figure out who I am, and what I want. It has taken until my current age to finally be ok with exactly who I am, who I want to be, what I want, and how I feel.  I am finally figuring everything out, and it is incredibly liberating. I just wanted to share this with anyone out there that is still trying to figure themselves out, it may take longer than you think it will, but I promise, one day, you will finally begin to figure out who you are. I certainly don’t have everything figured out, by any means, but I’m now on the road to self discovery. And although life is truly a journey and you’ll learn new things about yourself every day, every year, it’s truly freeing when you begin that journey of self acceptance, and self love. I just wanted to share this with everyone, sending this with love, love you all! xx

Sincerely,

KH

Characteristics of High Self-Esteem
  1. Lives authentically
  2. Demonstrates self-responsibility - does not blame others
  3. Takes responsibility for life and consequences of actions
  4. Sets goals and is committed 
  5. Has purpose in life
  6. Is emotionally and intellectually honest with self and others
  7. Confronts and deals with fears
  8. Is aware of both strengths and weaknesses (self-objective)
  9. Is self-respectful and sets appropriate limits and boundaries 
  10. Does not lie about the choices he/she makes
  11. Self accepting and self-soothing (does not seek external sources to “make it okay”)
  12. Self-sufficient (thinks and makes decisions independently)
  13. Does not hold grudges
  14. Is persistent in all efforts
  15. Is genuinely grateful
  16. Positive attitude (cup is half full not half empty)
  17. Accepts others
  18. Genuinely pleased for the success of others
  19. Does not compare oneself to others
  20. Directs efforts toward being the best he/she can be (recognizes that life is about continual personal growth with an aim for excellence not perfection)
  21. Lives according to one’s own internal values, principles, and standards
  22. Chooses to see opportunity and challenges instead of problems 
  23. Is spontaneous and enthusiastic about life
  24. Is able to praise oneself and others for efforts and accomplishments
  25. Is able to see the big picture versus being trapped by stumbling blocks (mistakes have value)
  26. Appropriately asks for help and utilizes resources
  27. Is an active participant in life
  28. Is comfortable with self and can enjoy alone time
  29. Is true to oneself
  30. Has quiet self-confidence
Positivity

Whenever I see people post body positive selfies, it makes me so incredibly happy!  I love to see people post pictures of themselves saying that they love the way they look, that they feel beautiful, that they’re happy and feel great.

I have struggled with my body and how I look for years. I’ve always had rather low self esteem, and been rather negative about my body for a long time. I’ve always been very hard on myself, and my shape, and it’s rather exhausting. I don’t want to go into all my issues here, but in general, it’s a daily battle, which is why it took me a year to even post a selfie of my face on here.

So, I truly, genuinely, honestly, love to see people post their selfies, and have so much pride in their bodies, I think it’s wonderful, I love it so much!  It makes me feel very happy. Everyone is so beautiful in their own way, and seeing such positivity and happiness makes me feel better about myself, and reminds me how much beauty there is in everyone around me.