Conversation between Kai and Elena
  • Elena:Tell me what did Damon and Bonnie do in 1994?"
  • Kai:They spent lots and lots of time together
  • Elena:Talking about me.
  • Kai:No they actually just spent that time bonding and building up a friendship
  • Elena:Bonding talking about me and only me
  • Kai:Well they talked about you some but they also mentioned a lot of other things. Them bonding had nothing to do with you."
  • Elena:But Damon said all thay did was talk about me.
  • Kai:And you believed that? LOL they bonded because they care about each other and it had nothing to do with you.
  • Elena:But Damon said....
  • Kai:I repeat it had nothing to do with you Damon and Bonnie just show their love in that way.
  • Elena:But me and Damon...
  • Kai:Are revolting.
  • Elena:Damon can't care about Bonnie because he's suppose to be all about ME,ME,ME."
  • Kai:Don't be so self absorbed and selfish the world doesn't always have to bow down to you. Anyway can't blame Damon for being draw to Bonnie."
  • Elena:But me...
  • Kai:You know Damon must be with Bonnie somewhere right now bonding and getting close to her."
  • Elena:Nope can't let that happen I'm going to go and insert myself into their moment."
  • Kai snaps Elena's neck with magic:Bitch what did I tell you about inserting yourself into Bamon moments"
Aries female opinion(let me shove it in your faces)

Aries: I’ve known lots.either hit or miss. Females are either the coolest most adventurous interesting chicks ever, or the most obnoxious/loud unoriginal gals to exist. (They also compete eg who has the newest phone)
Males tend to be quick witted/funny but a bit insensitive. Seem to be more selfish than the girls tbh.

Taurus: agh… So incompatible. The females seem really cool and popular but really unreachable. Talented peeps. Creative, rlly into music. Like, lots.
Males actually seem to love learning new facts. Sibling is Taurus and he’s weirdly generous at times, but greedy/self absorbed at others.

Gemini: had a gem bff. Rlly fun, but would argue quickly, get into shouting matches with everyone lots. Rlly loud.
But really fun. Did I mention fun? Lol
Oh- I was never sure if she was being honest or not. I never knew how old she actually was!!!! Haha
Other Gemini was SUPER smart. Like a* all the time. No joke people thought she was a genius. Very religious too. I respected her so much. But she was still immature, had lots of crushes lol.

Cancer: you guys. Haha…..*awkward smile* the females are so sensitive and kind and they listen to you for as long as you need. Tries to give advice though- not your forte imo 😅 downside is that they over react and remember bad stuff from eons ago.
Bad experience with males. Wayyyyyyyy over sensitive and takes offense often. They make it all about them. I need a good thing. Hmm. They can be hilarious. When they’re in a good mood, great party company.
Both genders are super creative and smarter than they give themselves credit for. DON’T BELIEVE ANYONE WHO SAYS YOU’RE DUMB.

Leo: more affectionate than expected. Both genders are great with people and really value their social life.
Had a Leo bff- went out a lot with her, liked concerts etc. But she turned out to be a real… You know. Lol. She gossiped about me, and wanted things her way all the time.
Male I know is the most decent honest friend I’ve ever had in my life. Generous, thoughtful and takes charge. Looks after the peeps around him and accepts everyone in the end. He gossips lots, but isn’t nasty. Usually makes funny comments.
Both genders assume things too fast, and want things their way.

Virgo: I’ve only known a few. Very different experiences.
Female is the kindest most helpful person to literally everyone. Hard to gain trust, and have her rely on others for once. Worry wart. Pragmatic. She’s a business lady, but a bit scatter brained too actually.
Males were actually perverts. They were a bit different from the norm actually, different tastes in music, in food. Interesting guys, just…. Perverts.😂

Libra: only known one… He was wishy washy, said he’d do stuff and didn’t. Kind of boring tbh.. Expected me to do stuff and him to just chill and wait.

Scorpio: not really been friends with any. From what I’ve witnessed the females are dramatic, get into feuds lots especially with family. Fun because they do stuff that isn’t the best idea lol. Good in parties.
Males really are a mystery to me. They don’t really let anything out. They seem interested in deep subjects though.

Sagittarius: I love or hate you guys. Seriously. With a passion. I’ve actually never known a sag female.
But the males are either
1. Interesting, fun, talks about anything and everything, major flirts which is fun. Very open minded and well traveled.
2. The complete opposite. Obnoxious, egotistical, looks down on others, has foot in mouth disease. Gets angry over nothing. Is actually a control freak.
It’s never in between. One or the other.

Capricorn: the girls are crazy and fun and mean well. Usually smart too 👍🏻
Shy at first and then they talk your ear off(both genders).
Males are awkward but take responsibility really quickly and don’t mind it. Very practical helpful guys. Sarcastic and tease people a lot. Can be annoying sometimes.

Never ever been close to these guys. Definitely match the distant cliche. Never really clicked with any but they’re always really smart and accomplished. You can tell they’re socially shy and don’t know what to do but they’re really nice people and are actually better than they think at conversation.
Please have more confidence guys, lots of people like me wish to know you better because we can sense how cool you are. We’re missing out haha.

Pisces: rlly romantic even when it’s platonic? Seriously. It’s a good thing. They’re fun people and in my top 3 of most interesting people ever. Almost always interested in spirituality and paranormal etc. Which I adoooorrreeee thank you guys for existing you feed my mind and soul.
When they’re invested they give someone their all. Really makes you feel special and if you lose that, you’ll miss it. It’s unlike anything anyone else could make you feel.
You guys are special. That’s all I need to say. Keep being different. You’re a blessing. Seriously thank you.

😅srry for long submission.

It’s Sebastians 2nd birthday today, and I know it may seem a little weird to celebrate a kitties birthday but he is literally the only thing I have ever loved more than myself. I know that seems a little self centered but I’m completely willing to admit that i am pretty self absorbed. I would run into a burning building to find him and I’m so fucking happy he’s mine. A lot of you have told me that the only reason you follow me is because you’ve seen photos of him all around Tumblr and you it’s impossible not to adore him. About a week after i got him (he was 6 weeks) he fell really sick, he was limping and had a fever. Turns out he had an infection from being fixed so young and ear mites and a sprained paw. I was so worried I was going to lose him even though I had just gotten him, but now he’s strong and healthy (and huge, the size of a medium dog) and grows cuter every single day.

Forgive me father for I have sinned… After being broken up with my boyfriend for exactly twenty minutes, I succumbed to inebriation, performed at a speakeasy, and surrendered my virtue to a self-absorbed ass. The only good news is he’s a total pig who’ll act like it never happened, thank God. Truthfully, I’m not even Catholic. But losing my virginity to Chuck Bass? None of my friends will ever understand. I’m ready for my punishment.
– Blair
How I (an Aquarius) See The Signs

Aries: Youre pretty chill. Kind of like an older brother. A lot like an older brother…. Are you sure we aren’t related?
Taurus: You’re stubborn. I like that, when we’re on the same side.
Gemini: Chill fam. Take some truth medication and c h i l l.
Cancer: You’re really fun to talk to! You get hurt really easy though… But, I’d never want to get on your badside.
Leo: You are either like a cute little kitten or a giant lion and I love that. You can be a little self-absorbed, but, you’re not lying.
Virgo: Eh… You can be nice… I guess….
Libra: “Oh really? Well, let me tell you what I have to say about that…” Also, you actually calm down Gemini. Please don’t leave him. He scares me when you aren’t there.
Sagittarius: You can be pretty chill. But, when you’re mad you talk alot about me. And are very wishy-washy on what sides you choose. You have really amazing conversations, and an even better humor!!
Capricorn: DO YOU ALL DO DRUGS?!?!?!?!?!?!??
Aquarius: Hot. As. Fuck. We can be dicks though. And there are a lot of contradictions. You’re also hard for me to read… Like you send out nine vibes. Stop. Send out one. Vibes aren’t some weird sort of text lingo.
Pisces: You guys are so sweet. I don’t understand how you tolerate my horrible humor/friends/friendship and other things. You guys should be protected at all costs.

I’ve grown to love Ford, but he’s very flawed and the biggest flaws are selfishness and being so self absorbed. Ford never considers people’s feelings.

And so far this lack of consideration has caused more problems than any good, had Ford considered Mabel an equal to Dipper, he would have explained her the deal with the rift, and she wouldn’t have given the rift to Billdin (that’s my nickname for that possession).

I think Ford is enclosed with the idea that his identity, his whole life, revolves in how smart he is. It almost seems like a shield he built around himself to deal with rejection for being a freak or socially awkward. “It’s fine if people don’t want me around, its obvious they can’t understand me.” 

I also get the impression Ford keeps telling himself everything is fine as a way to avoid guilt. “But its for the greater good! I have a logical and justificable reason to do this! So it doesn’t matter how people feel, it’s the best course of action!” 

This man is messed up, real bad. 

So, I’ve seen a lot of hate towards Oliver because of the “self-absorbed pretty boy” line and it makes me a little upset. Yes, Oliver hit home by saying that, but that’s just how Oliver is. He probably doesn’t think before he speaks and things come out awkwardly or very blunt. I’m like that, too. I say something and then I immediately regret it. And I bet if Oliver would’ve seen Connor’s expression he would’ve felt bad, too. He knows that Connor is more. He loves Connor he’s said that already. But he’s also upset with him and feels betrayed. So no hate for my Ollie anymore please. :)

anonymous asked:

I see people calling Oliver an *asshole* for saying Connor is a "self-absorbed pretty boy" in the tag. IMO, Oliver is comfortable with saying this because they love each other and know that Connor won't care when he says something like this? IDK. "Self-absorbed" and "pretty boy" do describe the Connor we've met before Oliver pretty well, so I want to know your thoughts about the line and whether it was ok Oliver said it.

I see people calling Oliver an *asshole* for saying Connor is a “self-absorbed pretty boy” in the tag.

Oliver isn’t an asshole; he isn’t saying this to hurt Connor, he’s saying it to make a point of why he’s upset. There is truth to what he said. When Connor told Asher and the rest of Keating 5 about Oliver’s diagnosis, he gave no thought to how Oliver would feel about it. He needed to say something quickly to throw Asher off, and he just said the first thing that came to mind. Does this mean Connor is self-absorbed all the time? No, but in that moment he was thinking only of himself and gave no consideration to Oliver. So I don’t fault Oliver for calling Connor that when he was mad at him for that reason.

Oliver is comfortable with saying this because …… Connor won’t care

Connor definitely cares. Right after Oliver says that line, there’s a quick shot of Connor’s sad face. Oliver’s opinion of him matters a lot to him. When his sister called him a slut, he didn’t bat an eye, but when Oliver called him a slut he was hurt by it. So again, Oliver said that because he’s mad at Connor for being self-absorbed and he wants him to know it. He wants Connor to care, for Connor to take him into consideration before revealing personal things that aren’t his any of his friends’ business.

All of this being said, Oliver is not perfect. Even though he doesn’t try to hurt Connor, when he’s trying to make a point he often comes off as quite harsh. I mean, imagine if Connor actually was a drug addict. Asking him, “So what are you on right now? Adderall? Heroin?“ is probably not the best way to go about things. But that’s just a part of Oliver’s personality; he calls Connor out on his bs and does so bluntly. That doesn’t make him an asshole to me; I like that he’s a multi-faceted character who isn’t just sweet all the time.

This is Not a Day Care. It's a University!
In this Talking Points, Dr. Piper says OKWU is a place to learn: to learn that life isn't about you, but about others.

Dr. Everett Piper, President

Oklahoma Wesleyan University

This past week, I actually had a student come forward after a university chapel service and complain because he felt “victimized” by a sermon on the topic of 1 Corinthians 13. It appears that this young scholar felt offended because a homily on love made him feel bad for not showing love! In his mind, the speaker was wrong for making him, and his peers, feel uncomfortable.

I’m not making this up. Our culture has actually taught our kids to be this self-absorbed and narcissistic! Any time their feelings are hurt, they are the victims! Anyone who dares challenge them and, thus, makes them “feel bad” about themselves, is a “hater,” a “bigot,” an “oppressor,” and a “victimizer.”

So here’s my advice:

At OKWU, we teach you to be selfless rather than self-centered. We are more interested in you practicing personal forgiveness than political revenge. We want you to model interpersonal reconciliation rather than foment personal conflict. We believe the content of your character is more important than the color of your skin. We don’t believe that you have been victimized every time you feel guilty and we don’t issue “trigger warnings” before altar calls.

Oklahoma Wesleyan is not a “safe place”, but rather, a place to learn: to learn that life isn’t about you, but about others; that the bad feeling you have while listening to a sermon is called guilt; that the way to address it is to repent of everything that’s wrong with you rather than blame others for everything that’s wrong with them. This is a place where you will quickly learn that you need to grow up!

This is not a day care. This is a university!

“Elena is treated like a prize to be won.”

Uhhh….Elena MAKES HERSELF a fucking prize to be won.  By pitting brothers against each other by going back and forth between them and talking about them to each other and making them hate each other and fight for her.  Stefan doesn’t play the game, but Damon does because of his inferiority complex.  He wants to WIN her, and she’s so self-absorbed that she loves it.  

I will always hate Damon for his relentless pursuit of Elena while she was with Stefan.  But Elena is not blameless, not she is just some “prize to be won”.  No one could have her that she didn’t want to have her. 

And that is why I’m fucking allowed to be pissed at Elena for leaving Stefan for Damon.  It’s gross as hell.  She is gross as hell and so is Damon.  There’s nothing sexist about it.  It’s just two SUPER shitty people. 

“I really cannot stress enough how much I love Tyler Breeze. He is just so damn pretentious and self-absorbed. His theme music is just the perfect amount of confidence to his character, but his in ring work is just outstanding: he sells moves very well, extremely technical and has a great move set. I hope he holds a title on the main roster and he’s used in good story lines”

anonymous asked:

Gaster honestly makes me feel better about myself. He is a selfish self-absorbed misery lover whose own son hates hisguts. Good job Gaster my day is better thanks to your existence.

Your message really made me happy ;w; I’m really glad to hear that Gaster makes you feel better about yourself :w: it’s surprising since he is the worst, but I find it so cute that he is the one who makes you feel better.

Please be happy and love yourself UwU

anonymous asked:

Do you think Hwa-shin has it in him to end up living with Na-ri and Jung-won forever?

What I can tell you is that Jung Won definitely loves Hwa Shin more. While he is not the one to propose the date us both idea — he gives into it because it’s the only way to keep Na Ri and him. While he admits he’d like Na Ri for himself, to date her exclusively, he says, “But that’s just how I feel” meaning he realizes it’s important to take into consideration what Na Ri feels, and if she’s okay with the idea, then he’s game too. He loves them both so much that he is willing to piss on his own desires. I think he’d be first one to move into the “shared house.”

(Unless they change his character radically…)

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