Honestly though, these two:
• Made up fake aliases
• Flirted with their enemy
• Gave their number to said enemy
• Had a meeting with said enemy and revealed their true identity
•Tried to kill said enemy on countless occasions
• Is literally the same person in the opposite gender
This is how we meet our brothers and sisters. Our fav shows/books/movies/comics/bands teach us to see the right and the wrong, to appreciate particulat things…
So when I see a fan of: Harry Potter, the Silmarillion, Tolkien in general, Sherlock, Supernatural, Rick and Morty, Adventure time, World of Warcraft, Marvel, Merlin, etc etc…. I know I see a pesron who understands me. Who cries over the same thing I cry over. Who knows the lore, the backstory, the tragedy, the fun.
No matter what fandom you belong to, if you do, you have a family and soulmates all over the world, who you share the wrongs and rights with. Be proud of it and appreciate it.