At any moment the feeling of acceptance will come. It just takes a bunch of leaders to get followers. How do you know if you’re a leader or a follower? In order to answer that you must ask. What controls you? Not rules or a structure but what actually controls you. The things you do, say ,and feel when no one is around. Self confidence can be hard in a world of non-believers. You make them believe, you have to achieve, that’s how you know you’re a leader in life.