Things that AREN’T inherently bad by default:

-White People
-Men
-Straight people
-Cis people
-Neurotypical people
-Able-bodied people
-People whose ideologies don’t perfectly align with yours

. . . .


Things that ARE inherently bad by default:

-Hating someone simply for factors that cannot be controlled such as race, gender, sexuality, or able-bodiedness.
-Actual Nazis
-The Emoji Movie

can we get rid of the concept that boys don’t like mushy romantic lovey-dovey shit? boys can like dates. boys can like flowers. boys can like gentle kisses. boys can like rom-coms. boys can be overwhelmed with adoration and appreciation. they need to be taken care of emotionally just as much as anyone else does. spoil them, treat them like kings. let them cry without having to worry about judgement. play with their hair. be the big spoon sometimes. give them spontaneous gifts. let them rant and whine. comfort them. guys have emotional needs. they need to be taken care of, too. love your boy the way you want your boy to love you y'all

Just Breathe

“Just Breathe”

Whenever the pain is to much to bear
Whenever you’ve given all you can spare
When the sights in front of you are too gory to see
Remember to close your eyes and just breathe

Whenever your smoke rises to high
Whenever you think about wanting to die
Whenever you lose and drop to your knees
Stand up again and remember to breathe

Whenever you feel like you’re becoming undone
Whenever you feel like everyone is gone
After you lost all the blood you can bleed
Stitch yourself up again and remember to breathe

Whenever you’re lost and and can’t find direction
Whenever your shadow stops casting reflections
Whatever egg shells you broke beneath your feet
Buy a new carton and remember to breathe

Whenever you feel like there’s nothing left
Whenever you have days you want to forget                          
Whenever you feel like screaming in sheets
Lower your voice and remember to breathe

Nothing is ever as bad as it seems
And this sounds absurd coming from me
With the lives we lead, but I’ve already seen
Things aren’t as bad as long as you breathe