Do you even know how often this happens to me

anonymous asked:

Hi! So last month I told my cousin I'm asexual and he told me I was broken and tried to "fix me" and he ended up kissing me. That shook me. I had not even thought that something sexual was happening. I often remember him touching me inappropriately and holding my wrist tightly so that I couldn't leave. I don't know what to do or how to feel. I'm so afraid it's going to happen again and that made me feel there's something wrong with being asexual. These days you just want to cry.

I’m sorry that happened to you. It is not acceptable behavior from your cousin at all. I’d really suggest you tell someone. Tell your parents, or tell an adult you are comfortable with. You aren’t the broken one, you didn’t do anything wrong, your ace identity is not broken. Your cousin is dangerously crossing the line. He is the one in the wrong, not you. 

I’m also going to give you a hotline/live chat that is 24/7 that I’ve heard good things about because if I want you to feel secure that you always have someone to talk to. 

RAINN: 

1-800-656-4673 (24/7)
Live Chat with RAINN (24/7)

anonymous asked:

Ok, so like you, I also like to let my body hair grow freely and naturally. But I was wondering if you ever had issues with your hair not being able to break through the skin sometimes where it grows heavier, like on the chest or pubic area, and leaving weird, almost cystic like spots because the hair is trapped? How do you deal with that if it's even a problem you have to face at all? Sorry for the awkward question, but literally everyone I know shaves. So I figured you might know something...

It does happen often yeah (and sometimes they hurt like a b!$&@.) I normally just pop the hair out cause if not it’ll bother the heck out of me. I never had that problem down south though.

anonymous asked:

I need some advice if you'd be willing to give me some. I am a bi closeted female. I only have one very close friend who is lesbian that I told I am questioning because I was afraid. No one else in my life knows and I always feel left out, especially today in light of this amazing news in the USA (I'm canadian) because I can't reblog posts about being bisexual or supporting bisexuals because people I know follow me. Idk this probably sounds immature but how do I stop feeling like this?

The only way you can stop feeling like that, is to embrace who you are and be super proud of it. You might even set an example for others, because trust me, often people around you are struggling with the same issues but are just too afraid to speak up. This happened to me and a lot of my friends.

I’ve came to terms with my sexuality because of how accepting my friends turned out to be and I think a lot of people should do this. I understand that this isn’t always the case, but I think we should be open about who we are and who we love. Be happy about it, and just support it! I was in the closet for a long time and look at me now, I’m giving advice and try to help others and am 100% okay with my sexuality!

anonymous asked:

the dysphoria is hitting right now so hard and it's not even specific I don't even know what it's about I just feel so uncomfortable.. I'm so depressed right now I don't know what to do. what do you do when you don't know what gender you feel atm or you're feeling very dysphoric please help

I know exactly how you feel right now. Often times I have no idea what my gender is. When that happens, I sit down, take a deep breath, and just think “what would make me more comfortable?” Usually something will come to mind. Try changing your outfit, doing your hair differently, or even just taking a nice shower. Usually letting the warm water run over you will calm you down. Its really frustrating not knowing what your gender is and its something most genderfluid people have to face at some point. Hang in there and it will pass. I wish you the best.

-Asher

anonymous asked:

I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend, like I've had tons of opportunities when I was younger, 4 with boys I liked but I was always scared like of commitment I used to run away and normally I would stopped liking them or I'd get all paranoid but now I want a stable relationship so bad like idk like I have this huge crush on this guy but I don't talk to him much and I catch him starring at me more than often but idk how to make anything happen and it's like ugh so irritating do you feel meee?

I FEEEEEEEEEEEEEL YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I WAS LIKE THAT WITH MY BOYFRIEND BEFORE WE STARTED DATING. HE EVEN LIKED ANOTHER GIRL (MY SCHOOL BEST FRIEND AT THE TIME) WHEN I LIKED HIM AND HE DIDNT EVEN KNOW I EXISTED LOL.

-T

anonymous asked:

I just want to say that your writing is priceless. Some days it's the only thing that I read just to feel. Leaving the world seems so easy and actually manageable and it's sad and also terrifying how often I think about it and the so many good outcomes of that happening and yeah one day I will but you should know that your writing helps. You're an amazing writer, don't ever stop.

hold on for me, my sunflower. you will leave such a hole in this world even if you do not believe you will. come talk to me if you need to, okay? on or off anon, either is fine. 

i love you. i’m glad i can help, even if it’s not much. i love you, i love you. please know that you always have a place to stop and rest by my side.

hazelable125 asked:

Creme brulee and matcha ice cream! <3

creme brulee- my current obsession… I don’t even know omg. probably obsessing over losing weight i have to do (╥_╥)

matcha ice cream(?) - how do i sleep? hehehe i usually lay across my kind of big bed, before finding comfortable position i HAVE to change it at least 3 times hehe and i have to have my pink jimin teddy with me… don’t ask about the name it just happened (╥_╥) and I tug blanket all over my shoulders so often I wake up head hurried under the blanket and no blanket on my legs..

thank you for questions ♡

QUESTION TIME
http://sugarplumjimin.tumblr.com/post/122103082341/sweet-things-question-set

it’d be nice if you asked me 。^‿^。

hyejpg asked:

>> ... << ... hyejpg

Opinion on;

Character in general: I don’t know much about her since I don’t know much about AOA but she’s really pretty, and from the few gifs I’ve seen around, a quiet yet goofy girl. 
How they play them: Awesomely. I like how detailed your bio is. You even described her clothing preferences and that doesn’t happen often. For a general muse, that can become boring sometimes, you’re doing an excellent job. 
The Mun: Don’t know them but, probably a great person.

Do I:

RP with them: No–
Want to RP with them: Of course.

What is my;

Overall Opinion: Keep up the good work. You write beautifully and picked a very cute muse, so there’s nothing that can go wrong. 

**Note: Mun’s answer are all to be completely honest. Don’t send url if you don’t want brutal honesty

russiasexbutterfly asked:

Sam/Katerina

001 | send me a ship and I will tell you:

russiasexbutterfly

when I started shipping it if I did: 

Sam clicked with Katerina really really fast. Which doesn’t happen very often at least not that fast. I didn’t even know I was shipping them until we started doing all this shippy threads. 

my thoughts: 

They are cute together and they take care of one another. It’s still a new ship I have and I want to do more things/ threads with it

What makes me happy about them: 

How adorable they are and essentially how fast Sam clicked with your muse.
What makes me sad about them:

Haven’t done any hurt/agnst threads to make me sad about them.
things done in fanfic that annoys me:

n/a

things I look for in fanfic:

n/a

Who I’d be comfortable them ending up with, if not each other:

I’m not aware of any of Katerina’s other love interest but any of her other love interests are cool with me. For Sam it can be a lot of people, a mixture of marvel characters and oc’s

My happily ever after for them

They get some time off from this whole SHIELD gig and live happily together  without a single care in the world. 

who is the big spoon/little spoon:

Sam’s big spoon. Katerina’s little spoon

what is their favorite non-sexual activity:

Watching movies or training.

anonymous asked:

hi vesper! first off thx a bunch bc you helped me figure out my asexual identity <3 second of can you give me some advice: i was just outed to my dad bc i put my my gender as female on a form for a camp & even though my patents are 100% supportive of my trans brother i'm worried that people will be mean about me "not being the right" housing. if that does happen, how should i deal w/ it?

hi! and thank you so much. :)

i’m afraid i really can’t give you detailed advice as i do not know the details of your situation. :/ but first of all let me say that i’m very sorry to hear that you were outted to your dad. that really sucks, regardless of how supportive they are of your brother. :(

often camps (and programs/organizations in general) have set policies on things like housing and who can stay where. sadly, those policies often do not take into account the existence of trans people or non-binary people. if that is the case for this camp, they may require that you stay in housing based on your legal records/identification. :(

if your parents support you as much as they support your brother (and i sincerely hope that they do), they may decide to confront the camp about this to try to work out a way that you can stay in the correct housing. they may or may not be successful in this, it really depends on the camp and the people in charge of it, among other things.

beyond your parents defending you, i’m not sure what else can be done. perhaps my followers have suggestions?

either way, i sincerely hope that the camp recognizes your gender and that there is no problems regarding housing. all the best!

It’s been quite a while since I saw her, having seen her disliking me that badly. Don’t know what happened or how she processed some pieces of information, but I never once told a bad thing about her. At this point, I don’t want to even defend. Nor do attempt to convince that you are thinking is not true. My only wish is that how it ends cuz for me, only good part of you remained so clear in my brain. Very interesting. On the other hand, somehow and to a great extent, she hates me like that. I learned maybe there were less times when I conceived our relation as “us”, but often times as “me and you”. Sorry wouldn’t do it. I know. Just let v me test in peace. No agony, hate, and or any negative feelings needed since … I would never talk about her with anyone so deeply anymore in my life, since I see her again every time and when I see her, she is someone who hates me now. I accept it because no matter how she became I loved you soooo much! I just sincerely hope he loves her more than I did. He would be one who thinks nothing is more important than her in life cuz I really felt so. By now, it sounds all Bullshits and none of her business she may say. But it is my only little wish :) so please don’t hate me in dreams anymore. I hope she would cry when she learns I become “us” with someone else just like I cried when I learned. Though it appears so long to get there. God, can’t you just bring down someone for me. I need no one but need someone. But no one can be her. No one can be better :( :) :(? maybe someday. Morning to the beautiful Beijing sky!!! Just before I forget.

teenagemayor well that’s true actually, tags are often a great reflection of one’s character so sadly people now know how ‘fucked up in the head i am’ lmao nandosbutt tbh i’m kinda confused aswell it was quite a shock for me bc i refused to believe that until i saw him in the red shirt.. idk people around me kept telling me about the transfer and i was always like 'nah no way this is not happening he would never do that stop’ but well.. anyway i’m glad you had fun reading the tags even if just for a second 😊

odinslut asked:

Nose, eyes, Cheeks (question thing)

Eyy thank you Diamond here we go

Nose: What is your favorite perfume/candle fragrance?

I don’t know what it’s called actually, but there was something that someone I used to sleep with used and it’s actually a pretty subtle smell but I can smell it from like a mile away and I really like it. I don’t actually even know how to describe it properly.

Eyes: What is your favorite show to watch?

Hannibal, True Detective, and Netflix’s Daredevil are my faves (big surprises, I know). I also really love The Boondocks.

Cheeks: Do you blush easily?

Yes and no? I tend to only blush when I get really, really caught of guard by something (which doesn’t happen that often). So like, sure, but it’s contextual. But when I do blush I can feel myself doing it, which makes me a little frustrated because I’m otherwise pretty good at repressing visible displays of emotion for the most part.

anonymous asked:

I'm a follower of yours who happens to be shy but would like to be friends. I know it's an awkward question but how would you recommend someone become friends with you if they're really shy and find it difficult to talk to new people even if they really want to.

You have no idea how often I’ve been in your shoes, Anon. I am surprised to even see someone doing this to ME haha. All I would recommend is just–doing it. Go for it. Take that chance and say hello. You have no idea how many people actually just sit around waiting for a friend, for someone to be interested and to say hi.

There’s no need to be scared. Worst comes to worst, they don’t want to talk. But if they don’t want to talk to you, then they aren’t worth it as a friend to begin with and at least it’s not such a grey area anymore!

brokeassfeminist said: Ask to know more about both The Emissary and what’s below. Would they pursue us even if we left? How often does this happen? Has anyone tried to fight it?

———-

“How do we know more?  What happens if we leave?  Have people tried to fight it?  How often does it happen?”


“Every forty years.  My mother raised me on her own.  She volunteered, when I was just a teenager.  I stayed behind.  To help save her.  When they took her, I followed her down.  Tried to get her away.”  He shakes his head.  “I don’t know what happens if you try to leave.  I know that you can hurt them but not kill them without light.”

So about the whole revamp of the 10 dollar bill… Fuck no, fuck them, fuck it all.

They’re trying to play it off as “Well, it’s not the twenty. But it’ll be on the year of the 100th anniversary of the right of women to vote.” I have a lot of problems with this.

Top two?

Not all women were given the right to vote at that time. It’s not as momentous as they play it off to be.

It’s the freaking ten. It’s been such a long time coming, and they only allow us the ten.

Seriously. How often do you see Susan B. or Sacagawea? They’re tossing breadcrumbs.

Don’t even get me started on race, because you know they probably won’t be picking anyone out of their usual scope. If they do it would be a pleasant surprise.

If it isn’t happening already, someone with more social media prowess should start something like #itsnotthe20. Seriously.

/rant

eutrophian asked:

10-20!!


10: Have you ever been caught masturbating?
 Nahhh
11: What does your favourite underwear look like?
 I have like 17 favorite pairs, but I have to say all of my black thongs. They make me feel great 😅
12: How often do you have sex?
 That’s for me to know 😘
13: Is there anybody right now you’d like to have sex with? I guess 
14: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
 Well, okay. I LOVE receiving it, but giving a girl oral is one of the most amazing things on earth. Just how she moves and sounds is beautiful.
15: Most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you during sex? 
 I’m not even going to talk about it. Needless to say that’s when I found out I don’t like having sex with guys.
16: A song you’d listen to during hard/rough/kinky sex?
 Dude I have about 71 songs. 😅
17: A song you’d listen to during soft/slow/passionate sex?
 That’s hard. 😂 I have a ton of songs
18: Are you into dressing up for sex? Depends. 
19: Would you prefer sex in the bath or sex in the shower?
 Ehh, either
20: If you could have sex with anyone right now, who would it be? Ruby Rose.

anonymous asked:

thorin its elly i'm having a rough time and don't know how to stop feeling like i don't deserve the bad things that happened to me bc i'm so flawed and such a fuckup. others would agree that i deserve it.

Dear Elly,

Thorin here. Elly, would you like to tell me more? Friend, you do not deserve to feel so low, no matter what you did or what happened. We can try to make amends if we really hurt someone, apologize if that is appropriate, and try not to repeat our mistakes, but often something may not even be our mistake, or the situation is a lot more complex than ‘find the guilty person’. Either way, it is not for others to judge what you do or do not deserve, and making you feel bad does not accomplish anything. Please take good care of yourself. 

If you would like to explain more, I would be very happy to listen, and to try and help in whatever way I can.

Yours,

-Thorin Oakenshield