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This Undertale Red fangame reminds me of my social life (or lack there of) too much.
I can’t even get the anime stereotype sentient airplane to love me, I don’t know what I expected trying to woo a cutie pie like Red.  
At least I still have that cactus back at Toriel’s to hook up with. 

Confession

To be honest, I get skeptical when a guy says he plays video games and he’s not in my school’s video game club. I really do. I also get skeptical when they’re surprised I play video games. My first relationship with guy was because I said I loved video games. Somehow, I was more attractive because I played them but when he broke up with me, me being sexual was a problem. Like he wasn’t ready to have sex with me from the second week were dating. But he was a virgin anyways so that’s his problem.

But even then, some of the other guys that end up being attracted to me because I play games, realize I don’t just play shooters. If you ever look at my Steam, Origin, Xbox, and PlayStation Profiles, I don’t play COD (racists and bs game series anyways), I have Halo but it lost luster for me, and I have zero sports games. Unless it’s Wii sports, fxck any sports game (EA is mediocre in this genre anyways). But when I say they should expand their collection, there’s hesitation. Like sports and guns are cool and all, but f you rolling with me, you gotta play League, Smite, Borderlands, Assassin’s Creed, or any game with campaign that isn’t 2 hours of the same damn level re-skinned.

But to go back to my first point, blerd guys will focus on the fact that you love games and will do everything to date you. But suddenly “you’re too opinionated,” “your too sexual,” “you’re too shy,” “you’re too loud,” blahblahblah. Like you didn’t catch any of that before or were you too stuck on the fact that we share a common interest? Suddenly I go from “not like all the other girls” to “every other girl” status? Suddenly *gasp*, I’m a person with flaws and emotions and not a fxckin toy. Grow the fxck up bruh.

I’m glad I’m bi because at least their are blerd girls that do not cling to this bs like it’s set in stone. We make up the majority of the gaming community and we get sexualized and fetishized the most. I wonder why I’m still an active gamer but then I made friends with this girl in my department and we’re hunting down Dance Dance revolution and some dance mats.

If this was all over the place, I apologize. It’s been bothering me for a while and I hope someone at least understands at least one of my points.

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C: I never really worried about relationships before, but now accepting that I’m demisexual has changed a lot for me. I don’t know if I will find another to complete me, especially with how bleak the dating world can be for black women anyway. Adding demisexuality on top of it just feels like “doom” or “the end” but it’s not like I can help being this way. I’ve known asexuals that feel the same way. There’s a whole spectrum of sexuality that goes under the radar no matter what groups you adhere to, but understanding doesn’t seem to be coming any time soon and it all worries me.

I can’t blame anyone for being more curious about my relationship status than my career, as I too have been guilty of doing the same with other woman. After all, we are all taught through expertly crafted commercials and advertisements that it is of upmost importance for a woman to get a ring put on her finger.

Perhaps it’s time for society as a whole to re-evaluate what aspect of women’s lives we put the most value on.

Tonight I planned on telling my date that I’d been sexually assaulted by an exboyfriend while in college and I get weird about being touched now.

I had the opportune moment when talking about Valentine’s Day, because the last time I had a Valentine, it was with the college ex.  But I couldn’t say the words, it was too hard.  Instead it came out more like, “The last time I had a Valentine it was with an ex who…wasn’t… When I was in college, something bad happened that I really don’t like talking about.  I can’t talk about it, but I’m working on it, and I guess what you need to know is that sometimes I get weird about being touched and I really don’t like it.  It can take me a while to warm up to someone and even then, I still get weird.  So I guess, if you want someone more ‘easy-breezy’ and normal, go for it.  But that’s not me, and I guess if you still want to get to know me, that’s something you should know.”

He said he understood and thanked me for telling him.  He said to let him know if I felt uncomfortable, and that he’d let me take the lead when it comes to getting physical.  I felt better having said something, but I wish I just came with a warning label that said all of that for me.  Baby steps, though.

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Wendy: Sure, elementary school was kind of rough but that’s past events. We grew up since then and we’re doing pretty good together.

Stan: Yeah, both elementary and middle school were kinda tough, but since freshman year things have been good.

anonymous asked:

I'm 13 and a bi girl, and i have a crush on a 16 year old girl from school. We're barely acquainted but we have each other on social media and stuff. Idk my feelings are pretty strong but what do I do? It's not normal to talk to ppl in other grades..

If you feel strongly, it’s okay to let her know, especially if you feel she might feel the same. But it might be better to try and get to know her more in person to not only get to know her better, but see if your feelings are as strong, since it can sometimes change once you know someone more closely. Let me know if you need more help with this, but I hope this helped!