listen. cis gay people are just as cis as cis straight people. theyre just as transphobic. being gay doesnt let you get away with that. it doesnt allow you to speak on trans issues. and it sure as hell doesnt let you make fun of “cishets” since youre cis. just say hets. you are not incapable of oppression for being gay.

things tumblr needs to stop thinking are good, cool or constructive

- looking for things to be offended by
- glorifying certain demographics
- vilifying other demographics
- throwing around words such as ableist, sexist, transphobic, etc like confetti to the point where they are becoming meaningless (much to the harm of victims of actual hatred)
- self victimization
- censorship
- policing people’s language
- throwing tantrums over fictional characters not representing demographics you like
- pretty much reducing people to small aspects of their identity
- doxxing and bullying people who disagree with you
- conflating gender with personality traits or clothing style
- pretending that obesity is not a bad thing
- prioritizing hurt feelings over everything else
- pretending that you strive for equality when really you strive for special treatment

referring to a trans woman as anything other than a woman/female is transphobic. referring to a trans man as anything other than a man/male is transphobic. referring to a nonbinary person as anything other than nonbinary/their gender is transphobic. 

misusing science to harm others is anything but scientific, ur using it as a base to harm ppl, to justify ur hatred and bigotry.

  • Trans people: We're being murdered and our killers aren't being persecuted.
  • Bi people: We're being alienated and erased and because of this are 6 times more likely to commit suicide than straights.
  • Lesbians, trans people and bi women: We're far more likely to experiance sexual harassment and assault.
  • Pan, asexual, aromantic, non-binary, agender, and omnisexual people: our identities aren't aknowledged by mainstream society.
  • white cishets: YEaH BUT guYS SOMEONe oN TUmBLR SaID tHAT THe STrAiGHtS NEeD tO STOp ANd I FElT SO OFfENdED! foCUS oN THe rEAL ISSuE!!!!! #HETEROPHOBIA #CISPHOBIA

“you hate cis people just for being cis so i can hate trans people just for being trans!”

listen

listen real nice and close

i don’t hate cis people just because they’re cis; that’s not how this shit works. i don’t even hate cis people, not in the way you’re thinking.

when i say “i hate cis people” i’m not saying i want cis people to die–you know, like how when cis people say they hate us they mean they want us to die. 

what i’m saying is i hate the transphobic shit i have to put up with every day. i hate hearing the kids at my school make jokes about how they want to “kill all tr**nnies, i hate that my own family talks about how disgusting i am, i hate that there are people who actively campaign against my basic human rights, i hate that there are people killing my trans siblings every damn day, and i hate that when it comes down to it, cis people just don’t care about us.

there is a fundamental difference between a cis person saying “i hate trans people” and a trans person saying “i hate cis people” and if you can’t understand that, you should really go outside into that “real world” you’re so fond of.

If you’re gay and you hate straights, you are making gay people look bad.
If you’re trans and hate cishets, you are making transgender people look bad.
If you’re black and hate white people, you are making black people look bad.
If you’re a woman and hate men, you are making women look bad.

Stop. Making. Your. Own. People. Look. Bad.

((Feel free to add on to this, I probably missed some))

cisphobic? yeah im cisphobic. im literally terrified of cis people. i have a phobia of them. im scared every time i leave my house that a cis person is going to deadname, harass, or otherwise microaggress me. im scared i’ll be killed, that they have the power to kill me for being trans and get away with it. fuck yeah im cisphobic. i have chronic cisphobia.

How To Spot A Transtrender:

1.) Them being trans is everything about them, not just a part of who they are
This is a big one. When I say everything about them, they seem to put being trans infront of every other characteristic of that person

2.) They only seem to bring up them being trans in an argument to gain leverage
These are usually social justice warriors that are teenage girls and extremely against cis and straight people. A majority of the time have an excessive amount of self diagnosed illnesses as well

3.) They make little to no effort to appear either male, female, or androgynous, but then get very angry when people ‘misgender’ them
Usually this is just another ploy to get an excuse to hate cis people (their “oppressors”) and bully everyone who doesn’t agree with them

If you have any more, please feel free to add