MBTI and Hogwarts House

Because MBTI types you and describes who you are many want to find a correlation between the houses and an MBTI type. What these are telling about people are a bit different. For one MBTI as 16 categories and there are only 4 Hogwart houses. I don’t believe a type is more likely to be in one house or the other. MBTI figures out how you function, what comes naturally, and how you will communicate with someone. A house tells you above all else, what you take pride in. What kind of community you fit best in? What community values the same forms of education you do? In what house will you learn best? No community works with the same types within them A Slytherin ISFJ will be different from a Ravenclaw ISFJ.

So I think I will create a series of posts (4, one for each house) that shows how each type would “act” or the reason they would be in each house. Wish me luck!

anonymous asked:

As someone who has both had sex and is currently abstaining, what would you recommend for a teenage girl? I'd like to abstain to focus on my relationship and other things in life, but at the same time people make sex out to be no big deal at all. I mostly want to wait but today's society makes me feel archaic in doing so.

I would abstain. If I knew what I know now, I would have waited until my twenties to have sex for the first time, if at all.

Hey I guess I just want to tell you
how much you mean to me
you know I love you, I do
and I think that’s meant to be
I don’t think you need to know
how your eyes shine and how your lips are soft
wish I knew you were my spiritual angel
who would save me from all the danger
and since we are all made of stars
let’s shine together and not apart
I really hope this all has a meaning
because I adore the way you are breathing
and that you’re mine, my little treasure
I love you with love that I can’t measure
I love you I love you I do I do
and in the end we’re all just passing through.
—  love poem to someone I once loved

Hello friend! I’m glad you respect my humbly intended message about fandom peacekeeping and that we agree we should respect and tolerate everyone. :) I am so glad that we all want to move forward and make the fandom a positive experience. <3

With all kindness, friend, I wish to point out that you’re not spreading respect, tolerance, and love in this message you just sent me. It honestly makes me very sad to see this ask because it goes against what I hoped people would do. One of the most important things we can do is quit spreading negativity and to avoid treating others unkindly in any way, shape, or form. This is regardless of whether or not you agree with a certain individual. I asked that we don’t get ourselves involved with even hate blogs, who are much less reasonable and kindhearted than the person you just critiqued in my ask. Inside the very message where you said you agreed we should be respectful and tolerant, you also outright criticized someone within the fandom. You didn’t say their name, but I could tell directly to whom you were referring.

There is nothing wrong with respectfully, considerately talking directly to the individual about any concerns you have and trying to reach agreements. That is good peacekeeping. (Tolerance can include speaking about concerns to someone). I believe you have already spoken directly with the blog you mentioned in this ask. That individual has very nicely, politely responded to you saying that they disagree with you and that they will continue acting as they have.

I please ask you to take my fandom peacekeeping message to heart about knowing when to quit aggravating an issue. Know when to quit pursuing things that won’t change. You can’t change anything more with this pursuit, friend, so please quit speaking ill. If you truly wish to spread peace in the fandom, friend, please quit sending unkind messages about this blog, either directly to them, or indirectly through people like me. You’re only spreading negativity. 

Please reread my peacekeeping message, friend. I asked that we don’t spread negativity. I asked that we don’t pursue conflicts that won’t change. I asked that we act humbly rather than point the fingers at others and expect them to change. I believe you understand the intent of the message, friend. With all kindness I ask you to apply it to your own actions. I am not the police of the fandom, nor do I ever want to pretend I’m some authority, but I do encourage you to do your part in making this community a positive experience. :) :) :)

Last, friend, I did in that very peacekeeping message ask that no one follow up with any more negative posts directly to me. I will not engage in any more conversation with you or others about negative topics at this time. To reiterate a happier theme of that post: 

There’s plenty of positivity in the HTTYD community and I encourage you to pursue that!

With that, I wish you the greatest of days! Have a wonderful day, friend! Take care! Enjoy DRAGONS and enjoy life, woohoo! :D

I don't usually dream about Storie but when I do it's always a nightmare.

Last night I dreamt that (bare with me, some details are fuzzy but the emotions are what I’m focusing on) someone from my family (I didn’t know who) was watching Storie and wouldn’t let me see her. I was FREAKING THE FUCK OUT. all I wanted was to see my kid and nobody would tell me where she is. They’re all “no. You need time. Relax” Like??? How can I relax when you WON’T TELL ME WHERE MY DAUGHTER IS?????

The dream ended with me bawling my eyes out because I just wanted my daughter. I was more than devastated and felt so incomplete when I couldn’t hug/see her. Moral of the dream- never take a break… EVER?! 😂😬

Sigh. Stressed out just thinking about it.

Today was nothing short of heartbreaking. To see someone that you were once such good friends with, not see them for a few years and then all of a sudden they start to deteriorate. This is my exact situation. Someone who I went to university with (one of the nicest people there I would like to add) whom of which I have not seen since uni has incurable brain tumours. I went to see home today and my god. My heart just felt like it was breaking. He can’t talk properly. Can barley move and could barley open his eyes. I just wanted to make it all better and I couldn’t do a thing. I got a few smiles and a yes and no but God I just felt useless. He is one of those people that deserves the world but he’s being taken too quickly. I’m so glad I got to see him but it’s just made me realise you need to value your time with everyone because who knows what’s round the corner. Phil, you’re an inspiration and a trooper. I wish I could take it all away from you and make it better.

I felt the need to vent. Sorry guys. Today has just really broken my heart.

Simon Says: Being in a relationship is pretty cool

It’s been about 2 and a half months, and its been prettyyy cool if I do say so myself. For those of you who are single, very lonely, have no time, or have social anxiety like me, I feel terrible for you. You’re missing out man. BUT YOU CAN DO IT. 

We’ve all been a position where we want to be with someone but we’re too scared to ask them out. I remember the day I was just laying on my bed in my jammies, ready to hit the send button, then my conscious just started to just throw a couple of things she could say. You know, just the basics.

“Uhmm… Sorry I only see you as a friend”

“I’m not interested in a relationship”

“haha you’re so funny”

“o vo”

Or the classic, not responding at all.

To be honest, I was pretty afraid of what she was going to say, would be weird if it broke off our friendship together. I forgot what she said, cause it was a quite a bit ago, but it was probably along the lines of “ye”. That’s what every guy wants to hear. 

We went to MoMA on our first date, which was my first time. It’s weird cause, since I go to SVA, I get to go for free because art. I should really take advantage of this privilege but I don’t. MoMA was a sight to see, the art was breathtaking but what impressed me the most was the architecture of the building, it was really my type of style. When we were at MoMA I remembered how she was grabbing my arm saying “Lets go this way” and “Wait, did we go this way?” 

I took this as a signal, and held her hand, she backed away at first but then she endured it. Just kidding. It was a warm feeling. Normally I would think holding hands on a first date is kind of weird, but it felt right at the time. What a cliché right? 

Take chances guys, you’ll never know what will happen. You could experience the feeling I have, and let me tell you, its pretty cool.

P.S. : I’m pretty bad at writing lovey-dovey relationship stuff. Oops.

funnyfoxes55 asked:

I've usually been declined to work at grocery stores because many people at my area consider deaf = retard. That's not true and after reading this blog, I'm not sure if I could have even handled those kind of people (imagine the rage when I ask)1/2

2/2 people to repeat what they have said, NICELY TOO!) Usually, if someone starts spitting at me, I’m calm but when I start to comprehend what they say, I get very angry. Who wants to talk to people who think deaf are retards, anyways!? Idiots

Holy shit, that’s messed up! I can’t imagine how people can think that the extent to which you can hear has anything to do with your intelligence. 

Given the nature of customers to simply walk up behind an employee and start talking without making any effort whatsoever to get your attention first (and then act all annoyed when they have to repeat themselves), I can imagine the type of shit you would have to deal with from shitty people pretty much constantly. 

I don’t know if you’re in the US or not, but I’m pretty sure it’s illegal for a company to deny you employment simply because you’re deaf. As long as you can perform job duties (with or without reasonable accommodation), they can’t refuse to hire you based on that. And even if an applicant were mentally disabled, so what? They can’t refuse to hire based on that, either, as long as they could do the job. Wow, I don’t even know where your area is, but the ignorant people there are already pissing me off, wow.

anonymous asked:

1-100 😏

1: Is there a boy/girl in your life?

Unfortunately no

2: Think of the last person who hurt you; do you forgive them?

Unfortunately yes

3: What do you think of when you hear the word “meow?”


4: What’s something you really want right now?

McDonalds tbh

5: Are you afraid of falling in love?

only if they don’t love me back

6: Do you like the beach?

not really

7: Have you ever slept on a couch with someone else?


8: What’s the background on your cell?

my dog!

9: Name the last four beds you were sat on?

my own bed, other than that I dont remember

10: Do you like your phone?

it has a great personality

11: Honestly, are things going the way you planned?

No, not at all

12: Who was the last person whose phone number you added to your contacts?

I can’t remember it was that long ago

13: Would you rather have a poodle or a Rottweiler?


14: Which hurts the most, physical or emotional pain?

well I experience physical way more than emotional, so ill go with physical

15: Would you rather visit a zoo or an art museum?


16: Are you tired?

pretty much always

17: How long have you known your 1st phone contact?

my whole life

18: Are they a relative?


19: Would you ever consider getting back together with any of your exes?

maybe one of them

20: When did you last talk to the last person you shared a kiss with?

10th of january

21: If you knew you had the right person, would you marry them today?

not today im already in my underwear

22: Would you kiss the last person you kissed again?

mmm yeah

23: How many bracelets do you have on your wrists right now?


24: Is there a certain quote you live by?

the entirety of the eye of the tiger (even though its not a quote)

25: What’s on your mind?


26: Do you have any tattoos?


27: What is your favorite color?


28: Next time you will kiss someone on the lips?

No idea

29: Who are you texting?

literally 0 people

30: Think to the last person you kissed, have you ever kissed them on a couch?


31: Have you ever had the feeling something bad was going to happen and you were right?

I dont think so

32: Do you have a friend of the opposite sex you can talk to?

yep I have 2

33: Do you think anyone has feelings for you?


34: Has anyone ever told you you have pretty eyes?

yeah actually

35: Say the last person you kissed was kissing someone right in front of you?

thats cool I guess

36: Were you single on Valentines Day?


37: Are you friends with the last person you kissed?


38: What do your friends call you?

My name mostly

39: Has anyone upset you in the last week?

not enough to get worried about

40: Have you ever cried over a text?


41: Where’s your last bruise located?


42: What is it from?

a soccer ball

43: Last time you wanted to be away from somewhere really bad?

a month ago

44: Who was the last person you were on the phone with?

probably a relative

45: Do you have a favourite pair of shoes?

nope I only have like 2 pairs

46: Do you wear hats if your having a bad hair day?

I dont wear hats 

47: Would you ever go bald if it was the style?


48: Do you make supper for your family?

not usually

49: Does your bedroom have a door?


50: Top 3 web-pages?



8 chans

51: Do you know anyone who hates shopping?


52: Does anything on your body hurt?

most things

53: Are goodbyes hard for you?

hell yeh

54: What was the last beverage you spilled on yourself?


55: How is your hair?

it says its good

56: What do you usually do first in the morning?


57: Do you think two people can last forever?


58: Think back to January 2007, were you single?


59: Green or purple grapes?


60: When’s the next time you will give someone a BIG hug?

probably like in a few months

61: Do you wish you were somewhere else right now?

yes pls

62: When will be the next time you text someone?

tomorrow maybe

63: Where will you be 5 hours from now?

still in the same spot probably

64: What were you doing at 8 this morning.


65: This time last year, can you remember who you liked?


66: Is there one person in your life that can always make you smile?

there was

67: Did you kiss or hug anyone today?


68: What was your last thought before you went to bed last night?

Im going to play farcry tomorrow

69: Have you ever tried your hardest and then gotten disappointed in the end?

yes my life

70: How many windows are open on your computer?


71: How many fingers do you have?


72: What is your ringtone?

no idea its always on vibrate

73: How old will you be in 5 months?


74: Where is your Mum right now?

no idea

75: Why aren’t you with the person you were first in love with or almost in love?

because she broke up with me over text ah ha ha

76: Have you held hands with somebody in the past three days?


77: Are you friends with the people you were friends with two years ago?


78: Do you remember who you had a crush on in year 7?


79: Is there anyone you know with the name Mike?

yeah i know a mike

80: Have you ever fallen asleep in someones arms?


81: How many people have you liked in the past three months?

just the 1

82: Has anyone seen you in your underwear in the last 3 days?


83: Will you talk to the person you like tonight?


84: You’re drunk and yelling at hot guys/girls out of your car window, you’re with?

I dont drink so.. probably nobody

85: If your BF/GF was into drugs would you care?

if they were hardcore and damaging their health yeah

86: What was the most eventful thing that happened last time you went to see a movie?

the little droid made a beep boop noise

87: Who was your last received call from?

from my uni

88: If someone gave you $1,000 to burn a butterfly over a candle, would you?

nah son

89: What is something you wish you had more of?


90: Have you ever trusted someone too much?


91: Do you sleep with your window open?


92: Do you get along with girls?

sure do

93: Are you keeping a secret from someone who needs to know the truth?


94: Does sex mean love?


95: You’re locked in a room with the last person you kissed, is that a problem?

not really

96: Have you ever kissed anyone with a lip ring?

I think so but they wern’t wearing it at the time

97: Did you sleep alone this week?


98: Everybody has somebody that makes them happy, do you?

not anymore

99: Do you believe in love at first sight?


100: Who was the last person that you pinky promise?

haven’t done one of those in years i have no idea

Do you ever just get that feeling where you don’t want to talk to anybody? You don’t want to smile & you don’t want to fake being happy but at the same time you don’t know exactly what’s wrong either, there isn’t a way to explain it to someone who doesn’t already understand. If you could want anything in the world it would be to be alone, people have stopped being comforting, & being alone never was. At least when you’re alone no one constantly asks you what’s wrong & there isn’t anyone who won’t take “I don’t know” for an answer. You feel the way you do just because. You hope the feeling will pass soon & that you will be able to be yourself again, but until then all you can do is wait.
Calling all comic girls!

My name is Madeleine and one night I was just like you know what I want to do? I want to stop relying on comic book resources and bleeding cool for my news. I want someone who thinks how I think giving me my comic book news and if no one was going to do it for me well than damn I’m going to do it myself!

That’s how I came about creating comicsirens. My vision for this blog is a place where me and my other contributors post news pertaining to mainstream and indie comics with our own opinions and thoughts on the matter. That’s where you come in! 

I need girls and non binary peeps, preferably at least high school graduates (not saying y’all chillens aren’t up to par but it would be easier for me to work with women who have been around the block) to help me make this blog into the best it can be. I don’t have a lot of journalistic work behind me besides basic school news paper stuff but this is going to be a pretty lax project if it goes the way I’m seeing it going. 

You must be to be knowledgeable, passionate and the free time to post at least 2-3 times a week. DC/Vertigo, Marvel, Image and even IDW/Dark Horse/Valiant inclined girls are welcome and depending on which you read the most of I will give you jurisdiction over that section of posting. 

Has this piqued your interest well here’s what I need from you to be able to consider you for a position at comicsirens: 

  • Preferred Name
  • Age
  • Time Zone
  • Time availability 
  • Just for funsies: What publisher do you read the most of? Who’s your favorite superhero (mainstream or indie?) If you were a superhero what would your name and power be? And finally, why do you love comics? 
  • You MUST include a short 100-500 word article about any comic news of your choice. If you don’t include this I can’t consider you for the position.

Submit is open and I’m ready to consider any and all applications. Even if you’re not interested in contributing it would be really great if you signal boost this so people who may want to can see it! Also if you ever have anything you want us to see tag comicsirens!

skypin’ studyblrs

hey, everyone! I know that there are people out there (like me) who love being with/interacting with other people all the time, so I wanted to try creating a Skype community within the studyblrs! Basically, the idea is that there would be a group/groups of studyblrs doing homework/studying together or even just relaxing and destressing! It’s another way for people to get to know one another! Personally, there’s something very calming about someone else’s presence while I’m studying, so this could even act as another tool of studying motivation!

(please note that this is a work in progress and if you do chose to participate, you’ll have to bear with me as I figure things out)

Originally posted by mybestlovesong

if you…

  • have/can make a skype
  • are willing/wanting to make friends within the studyblr community
    • like there’s a possibility that someone you meet will become your best friend
  • are 100% down with taking part in a mutual feeling of death and sadness b/c stress
    • but also are 100% down to be like “aw yis, time to study, yeah, radical, bro
  • find someone else’s presence comforting :-)
  • are like: “👌👀👌👀👌👀👌👀👌👀 good shit go౦ԁ sHit👌 thats ✔ some good👌👌shit right👌👌th 👌 ere👌👌👌 right✔there ✔✔if i do ƽaү so my self 💯 i say so 💯 thats what im talking about right there right there (chorus: ʳᶦᵍʰᵗ ᵗʰᵉʳᵉ) mMMMMᎷМ💯 👌👌 👌НO0ОଠOOOOOОଠଠOoooᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒ👌 👌👌 👌 💯 👌 👀 👀 👀 👌👌Good shit”  when people talk about stationary/new books/future goals/their general life experiences
  • wanna be a cool cat with cool friends and cool experiences
    • this is such a diverse community so you can be exposed to all types of ideas and people and it’s gonna be gr8 :-))))))
  • are none of the above but still think it’s an interesting idea

…then you should click on this link!!

(again, this is a work in progress, so please be patient with me b/c I’m just a smol child but I’m super excited and I hope there are other people like me and wanna be friendsssss!!! please don’t be afraid to message me or ask me any questions you have about this or if you want some more information or anything!!! if you wanna talk, holla! @! ya’! girl!)

please reblog and spread the word!! tag your friends!! tag your fav studyblrs!!

If you ever wondered what an unfiltered up close picture of my fat head looked like, wonder no more. Haha no but seriously, today was rough. It was actually shitty. But I was sitting in my car. Listening to music and taking it all in before heading right to work. And I stopped, smiled, and took this picture. Most people would consider this vanity, and most see it as so. Which makes me feel bad for them. Why is it that when we capture ourselves, in moments when we want to do nothing but bring light into something, it’s put down as something vain. As someone who constantly likes to make others feel uplifted, I sometimes forget to follow my own advice. But nights like right now, I know that I’ll always be the one to piece myself back together. It’s okay to fall apart, to feel like you don’t have it all together, and to feel like you’re scrambling to make sense of things. But don’t ever let it all get to you and your path to happiness. Work, school, money, destructive people. These can be such small factors that take the biggest toll on our lives. That grab us by the leg and pull us down to the deepest depths. It all gets heavy at some points. But I stopped to just breathe. To remind myself that it will all be okay. That none of this matters, at least not enough to get in the way of realizing that life is too short. Embrace your flaws, grab your stress by the horns, and be you. Be fucking radiant, be fucking amazing, take a million fucking selfies, listen to your music as loud as you want, treat yourself to your favorite drink. We forget that as our paths change, life continues. So don’t waste a single minute of it. Even if you don’t have someone to tell you, I’m telling you now, it’s going to be okay. Wether you’re going through a shitty breakup, wether you’re struggling with money, or simply having to let go of a concept you can no longer carry, it’s all going to be okay.

Maknae Line Ideal Type

“I honestly have no idea if you take requests like this and I’m sorry if you don’t but in your opionon what type of girl do you see the maknae line with? Looks and personality wise please (:” 
Yes anon, I would take any request! So if y’all want something done just hmu!




  • someone smaller than him so i feel like someone 5′5 and under
  • i feel like he’ll prefer a brunette, length won’t matter
  • feel like he wouldn’t go with someone with more color than him. rip me
  • he would be the pickiest out of the three for features i feel
  • why is this so hard


  • someone either wildt like him or just really chill
  • has an amazing laugh just like him
  • someone who is more sensible than him
  • who gets along with almost anyone 
  • someone who isn’t really needy because he would get annoyed

Jungkook/ Jeongguk


  • he’s more taller than jimin so a girl 5′7 and under
  • someone with melanin!! 
  • brunette for sure
  • someone with nice legs


  • someone as quiet as him
  • someone as emotional as him
  • is down to do anything
  • someone as athletic as him 
  • a really nice person who wouldn’t hurt a fly

V/ Taehyung


  • he seems less picky so the tallest possibly 5′9
  • any skin color but i feel someone with color would high-key suit him better, any hair color
  • someone with nice lips 
  • would love a girl with nice legs and hands


  • someone calmer than him bc this little shit is something else.. not an ‘alien’, give him some justice and banish that nickname
  • who got some jokes
  • someone shy and friendly
  • must like kids c’mon
  • open to new ideas

this was really hard bc it’s coming off my opinion… got any requests? hmu!

ajayredonkulus asked:

As someone who has just left their teaching degree because it destroyed my soul I have to ask. How did you begin your career both online and off the web? My university degree was centred entirely on creative writing and ive always had a passion for comedic, pop culture writing styles. Any advice for starting at the bottom?

Sure! First of all, I’m sorry that either the pursuit or the practice of being a teacher was crushing, I’m sad to hear that because I’m sure it was a teacher along the way who made you want to do creative writing in the first place, I know that was the case for me. As far as writing for pay I would say find the sites or magazines you love, read as much content from them as you can until you can build a scatterplot in your mind of the boundaries of their tone and subject then write to exactly that voice. In other words, take yourself entirely out of the work and just make something funny that blends perfectly with every other piece of content they run. 

Submit it, and then another and another.

I don’t mean for that to sound disheartening but the truth is that publications want to see that you are capable of writing within their specifications first and foremost. They have no idea who you are and proving that you can write in different styles effortlessly is just as much of a skill as building up your own voice. Once you can prove that you can make something good based on their tried and true methods, they will loosen the chain and give you the freedom to explore more. The truth is that they want you to succeed as much as you do but they want to make sure the foundation is solid before giving you carte blanche. 

As an editor, the thing that drives me crazy is anyone who submits to Cracked and says “I don’t really do lists so here’s this short story I wrote in my Junior year of college instead.” What that says to me is that this person has no intention of putting any work into this gig, and worse, believes innate ability is what makes a writer good. 

I don’t want someone that always post his relationship on social media to tell everyone how happy he is. I don’t want someone who complains about my physical appearance, ask me how my weight comes from, and who complains about what I wear. I don’t want someone that I can only share my other interest with, rather than all the stuffs that I like.


I want someone who understands me. He would listen to all my shitty things and have a deep conversation with. I don’t know, maybe talk about the existence, how the galaxies are made, death, politics, history, philosophy, what is life, what life means, music. I don’t want to have a conversation that is just saying “hey, what’s up”, I do really hate small talks.

I want someone that looks me the way Johnny looked at Winona. The one that we have something in common, but also something to argue. Despite the arguments we would make, we still look each other in the eye and last the bond.

I want someone that is just okay for what I wear. Ripped jeans, oversized tees, sneakers, messy hair, all black outfit, flannels. Dresses, tank tops, blouses, heels, make ups. He would not complain for what I wear, instead we just have fun.

I want someone who I can call in the middle of the night just to tell him that I just ate a cereal. He would listen all those nonsense, and continue to talk about how did Socrates could have such a great minds.

I want someone who makes me laugh. Telling me his jokes even though it’s not funny, tell me how his day was and being lazy together. Maybe watch a movie, listen to music, read books, or just lay in bed all day. Or maybe, watch The Breakfast Club, Dead Poets Society, The sound of Music, Disney, Pride and Prejudice, or 10 Things I hate About You.

I want someone that doesn’t afraid to tell me if I behave rude lately. We just share our thoughts and being outspoken. 

I want someone that can also be my best friend. Instead of “Hey baby, I love you” he can say “Hey let’s have pizza, my treat”. He doesn’t have to buy me sweet things, like flowers, expensive stuffs, dresses, and all those cliche things. I would rather be given a mix-tape. Or love letters. Or a book about our bucket list. 

I want someone that photographs the memories and even though he would photograph the insecure me, he would just pause me to do other thing and capture it and he would say how perfect it is. Not to be posted in social media, but instead being framed or saved in the photo albums. We would look to all those photographs some other time, and how the person in it would never change.

I want someone who takes me to unpredictable dates. Not a fancy dinner, but maybe we could hike. Explore nature and go on adventure. An impromptu date night where we would just lay on the grass and stare at the starry sky, or maybe we could have a snack eaten outside a closed library. I don’t know, take me somewhere I have never been before, or somewhere that is your favorite place. Your sanctuary. 

I want someone that Winona hard to get over, and be someone Johnny really tried to get over. We just complete each other and we don’t know what to do if finally we are being apart.


Maybe this is too much for I could have asked for someone. But I swear, the way you give me your best, the way I do give you the very best of me.

It’s common for plenty of people who strive in making the world a better place for those marginalized in it to socialize with those who may not be on the same page as them. No one ever said you couldn’t befriend those who represent things you detest or even benefit from the very things that oppress you. But what I would like for you to do is analyze the people you surround yourselves with. I’m not telling you to point out their privileges any time you can. I’m not telling you to call them out all the time. That may be emotionally unsafe for many. But I would appreciate it if people would stop making excuses for their friends, loved ones and relatives when they are wrong.

  I don’t excuse anyone. I may be lenient on some more than others but I never turn the other way when someone I care about does something fucked up. So when black men like Kanye defend the likes of Kim Kardashian and the white women they surround themselves with, it makes me not want to take their social actvism seriously. I don’t have any respect for Kanye as a person or black activist. His colorism, misogynoir, wh*rephobia, homophobic antagonism and contempt for those who try to critique his flaws are beyond redemption. Kanye claims white supremacy is the enemy but he continues to act as if the white people in his life are the exception. They are not and will never be. The white people in my life aren’t the exception. The light-skinned black people in my life? Not exempt. 

 I wonder why people think to point out Franchesca Ramsey’s marrying a white man who was in a video with her combating a racist decrying #BlackLivesMatter and actively backs her work within the social justice community. What do white women like Kim Kardashian do for men like Kanye besides act like racism is their “loved one’s” problem and not theirs? I don’t know many black men with white and non-black women who care about the issues these black men claim to care about. Maybe Chrissy Tiegen but she’s trash for defending Ayesha  Curry’s misogynoir and calling Quevanzhane a “brat.” As far as I see, she’s for #BlackLivesMatter from a cishet black male perspective via her husband. The only public black male and white female couple I can think to come close to productivity in the black community is Rick James and Teena Marie; and Rick James was the toxic one in the relationship. 

 I wonder why people think to criticize any black woman who dates white or lighter-skinned men. Most black women who date outside their race or lighter men aren’t doing so because they hate black men nor make it a point to say that’s why that is. And the fact you have black women proclaiming their “love” for black men while spitting on the black women who have developed an aversion from black men shows the dynamics here. I don’t see no black man going as hard for black women as I see some black women do for black men. A black woman can say, “I’m sick of black men,” and you’ll have a swarm of kiss-ass black woman calling them “bitches” and “coons” without context. They don’t wonder why some black women may not want a black man who utilizes colorism and misogynoir. Some dark-skinned women don’t even want dark-skinned children because they fear their offsprings being treated like they were. Although I certainly don’t think a lighter skinned child should be the antithesis to how black children are treated. I personally think a dark-skinned child deserves the same amount of love as a light-skinned child. But that’s me.

Anyway, a black man can apparently sleep with any woman and be pro-black but I and other women have to prove our “pro-blackness” by fucking black men and marrying them. You don’t want me so I wonder why we should want you.

one & only rant about it

I can’t stand it when someone calls any of my animal babies gross/disgusting/etc and it’s already way worse with Darwin because he’s a snake. 

Reptiles get SUCH a bad wrap. I understand fears, for example I am terrified of spiders and I know a lot of people who have pet tarantula’s but I would never call one disgusting or gross to someone who clearly loves their baby. That’s such a rude thing to do to someone. I made a separate blog for pictures and updates of Darwin because I realize that some people are afraid of snakes and I also want to keep this a mostly book blog. I did that out of respect for all of you so please don’t send me messages asking me why I would get a “disgusting” snake or make rude comments about him. 

Darwin happens to be hella fucking awesome. He’s cuddly and sweet and I already love him so please keep your comments to yourself, thanks. 


Thank you, @venndrake! <33 glad you like the AU! I personally see Chara as someone like..Reznov from Call of duty world at war XD; some of his quotes would really fit wartale!Chara imo, they’d be a sergeant cause  they’re quite young to be in a higher position. 

Of course Frisk would be such a cinnanom roll who didn’t ask to be in this war who  had no choice but to do something in order to survive, and I love the idea of them being a medic, trying to help as many people as they can x33

Oh, well I’m still an inspiting artist as well 8D;; there is still a lot for me to learn! I guess all I can say is to always practice everyday and take your time. And most importantly, never compare your artwork with someone else’s, and focus on making your art better than before! I don’t know what kind of advise you wanted but those are the first things that poped on my mind 8D; thank you so much <3!