ANGRY POST

if someone is showing off their tattoo and it’s fresh and they’re happy about it do not fucking make fun of it i don’t care how pretentious or typical or pseudo-artsy you think it is if another human being shelled out a large sum of money to have something permanently etched onto their body and they are happy and proud of it do not fucking try to make them feel bad about it especially if it was a really big tattoo. holy shit.

friendly reminder that trans!lock, ace sherlock, fawnlock, balletlock, teenlock, omegaverse, etc. all these AUs and headcanons are not exclusive to johnlock. you may be the majority of the fandom, but you are not the only one allowed to enjoy these tags.

fanfics and headcanons are us playing around with the characters and the story we are given and we are free to interpret it however we want.

if you can all say “fuck canon, i’m going to make sherlock a FUCKING TUNA” or give john and sherlock self-lubricating assholes because fanfiction reasons, i can very well fucking enjoy sheriarty headcanons with a trans!sherlock and agender jim and you are not allowed to fucking attack and ridicule me for it.

you’re not allowed to tell me to “get out” of the tag because i have as much right to enjoy headcanons as you do. don’t be fucking rude.

if you make fun of characters’ disabilities i actually fucking hate you

like disabled people barely get any good representation as it is and if you’re gonna shit on the little representation we do get and make your fandom unsafe for us, you’re fucking trash

We were in class, presenting project proposals. One of my classmates is doing a project on the mental health of genocide survivors in Cambodia. In her presentation, she said the Pol Pot regime was responsible for one of the worst genocide’s in history, considered to be on par with the Holocaust and the American Genocide.

One of my classmates raised his hand and said, “I mean, I know who Pol Pot is and I know the Holocaust, but what’s the American Genocide?”

The classmate presenting said, “I don’t know. That’s just what my research said but I don’t know what it is, either.”

I waited through five seconds of complete silence as no one in my class could answer his question and then I just said, “It’s Indians. Native Americans.”

And then there was more silence and he just nodded and shrugged.

I was telling someone about this and they asked me, “What’s the American Genocide? Like…the Civil War?”

Someone else: “Yeah, but I mean. They all died from disease. So they would’ve died anyway.”

Someone else: “That was a different time. People like us wouldn’t do that.” Canada’s last residential schools closed up between 1994-1996. You were alive still. That’s not even 20 years ago. “No, no. I think you’re wrong. Canada and USA don’t do stuff like that. That’s not going on anymore. Genocide isn’t going on still.” What about all the babies taken from their communities? “Oh, well. That’s not genocide. They just can’t take care of their kids so they have to be raised by people that can…”

I attend one of the best public universities in the USA and I have to hear stuff like this every week.

We really need to think about why we learn so much about the Holocaust but nothing about the American Genocide. It’s not even that these people don’t think genocide happened in this country. It’s that they don’t even know it happened.

So I’ve mentioned the really really terrible way my Human Sexuality professor is handling the sexual orientation unit of our class and how it’s absolutely fraught with cissexism, binarism, and erasure. It’s really bad, but this particular slide pissed me off enough to prompt me to get my phone out and take a picture of it.

We were talking about supposed “types” and “explanations” of bisexuality (one slide was entitled “Real Bisexuals” to my chagrin) and hopefully this picture is clear enough that you can read that this does in fact say “Denial of Gayness”. The “explanation” being that some bisexuals were pretending to only be “half/partially homosexual” in order to protect themselves from the full societal repercussions of being gay.

Now I honestly usually try to give people the benefit of the doubt and blame most of the offensive things they say on simple ignorance since our society still has a long way to go in regard to queer issues awareness and a lot of the time you just have to blame the system rather than the individual, but when you are a college psychology professor who teaches a class entitled Human Sexuality,

this is not acceptable.

KALADIN STORMBLESSED IS NOT YOUR WHITE DUDE POWER FANTASY.

KALADIN STORMBLESSED IS A TRAUMATIZED, MALNUTRITIONED, DEPRESSED NINETEEN YEAR OLD MAN OF COLOR.

AND YOU KNOW WHAT! HE’S OTHER PEOPLE’S POWER FANTASY! HE SHOWS US HEROES CAN FIGHT MENTAL ILLNESS, CAN FALL SO FAR THEY CAN’T PULL THEMSELVES UP ON THEIR OWN POWER

THAT HEROES DON’T HAVE TO BE WHITE OR KINGS OR ANYTHING ELSE

KALADIN STORMBLESSED MAKES THE REST OF US FEEL LIKE HEROES AND YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM THE FUCK ALONE AND FIND YOUR DUDEBRO SELF-CONGRATULATORY SELF INSERTION IN THE MILLIONS OF CHARACTERS WRITTEN FOR JUST THAT.

LISTEN HERE

If you can explain to children how a magical man in the sky impregnated a virgin women and gave birth to himself, then why the fuck can’t you explain to your children that heterosexuality isn’t say all be all for sexuality and gender.

God damn it the wage gap in this country makes me so mad.  Like so fucking Vesuvian levels of enraged.  My coworkers and I shouldn’t have to stand outside a board meeting with signs demanding fair pay and get thumbs down from drivers passing by.  We shouldn’t have to endure getting yelled at from car windows by parents when we stand outside the school in the morning to make our point because they don’t understand.  Half of my monthly salary shouldn’t immediately be eaten by rent, MORE for many of my coworkers.  I shouldn’t have to check my bank account before I want to go out and have fun.  And moreover, we shouldn’t have to HUMBLE ourselves and grovel and make excuses and assure people we’re not asking for much because asking for more money is somehow seen as greedy in this fucking country no matter how tiny it is and people get fucking angry over minimum wage being raised because how DARE they ask for more than they’re worth.  I shouldn’t be told I should choose a different goddamn profession if I wanted to make more money and to just accept it.  I DON’T fucking accept it.  I am putting literally zero money into savings because I need it all to live and ENJOY my fucking life and this is goddamn ridiculous and I wish people would see that.  Why the everloving fuck do people feel so free to tell people they don’t deserve to have money?  And toss banalities at them like money doesn’t buy happiness and you could have it worse well YEAH but I COULD HAVE IT BETTER TOO.

my friend won’t fuckin let me talk about assassins creed like whenever i bring it up shes fuckin like “ya i don’t wanna talk about assassins creed” well fuck you you useless ketchup pre cum u fuckin talkin about natuto all the time and u dont see me complaining

goddamn

Okay I’m going to go off about something.

My wonderful datemate softgrantaire keeps getting anons basically shit talking me for not posting tons of romantic posts about them on my blog, and it’s upsetting both of us.

I’d like to start by saying it’s none of your fucking business how often I share information about my relationship online. 

And no, maybe I don’t post massive amounts about them on my blog. It couldn’t possibly have anything to do with the fact that the last time I posted publicly about a relationship I got a ton of invasive questions about it! It couldn’t possibly have anything to do with the fact nobody is entitled to information about my relationships just because I have quite a few followers! 

My relationship is not public property.

I love that Lily posts things about us. I love it. It makes me smile whenever I see it, it brightens up my day, it gives me giddy, fluttery feelings deep down in my stomach. But just because I don’t make them myself as often doesn’t mean I’m less invested in the relationship. 

Also, for the record, whilst I might not be posting an influx of romantic posts, it’s mostly because I am busy booking us tickets to Les Mis and making fucking dinner reservations because, you know. Our relationship doesn’t begin and end inside of this awful site and I always figured actually doing things for your partner in real life is important. 

It’s so wonderful that in the wake of French Jews being MURDERED IN COLD BLOOD by terrorists (after attacks on Jews in France have been happening WEEKLY for some time now) I’m encountering MORE UNAPOLOGETIC ANTISEMITISM THAN EVER ON THIS HORRIBLE FUCKING SITE

JUST FUCKING THANK YOU. FUCK ALL OF YOU.

things my parents think I do on my computer

  1. play games
  2. that’s it

things I really do on my computer

  1. play games
  2. blog
  3. have friends
  4. entire social life
  5. give reason to live
  6. actually feel loved
  7. read stories
  8. learn shit
  9. work
  10. hell of a lot more

oh yes maybe I should spend a bit less time on the computer

after all, nothing gets done when I’m online

All this fucking “stop white people” and “cis/white people are scum” and general hate towards white people and/or cis people is just so fucking stupid.

How pathetic are you to hate a whole group of people? How pathetic are you that you let yourself become just like the people you claim to hate and be proud of it?

PSA

STOP MAKING IT SEEM LIKE BUCKY IS A HELPLESS LITTLE PUPPY

STOP MAKING IT SEEM LIKE BUCKY NEEDS STEVE TO HELP HIM ALL THE TIME

BUCKY WOULDN’T GUILT TRIP STEVE FOR NOT LOOKING FOR HIM AFTER HE FELL

BUCKY WOULD NOT HATE STEVE FOR NOT LOOKING FOR HIM AFTER HE FELL

STOP MAKING THESE BAD CHARACTERIZATIONS FOR YOUR DAMN SHIP

Can someone explain how this makes sense?

Sorry, I’ve been spamming. I have a lot of thoughts. 

So, Adam & Eddy said they made the decision to kill Neal at the beginning of season 3 right? So…you’re them. You’re talking over the plot for the season and you’re like “Hey, so Neal’s dead..”

“Well, everyone just thinks he’s dead.”

“Right. So what if we made him really dead instead?”

“But, we already revealed that he survived the gunshot/portal fall.”

“Crap, that’s right. Okay, so what if we kill him again. But for good this time…”

“Brilliant!”

Come to think of it, they only showed the others discovering Neal passed out on the beach. It would have been less painful (and less ridiculous) to just change their minds and have Aurora, Phillip & Mulan try but fail to save him in 3x01. Sure, we got a little bit more development for Neal/Emma/Henry but WHAT WAS THE DAMN POINT?? 

In my opinion, this will go down as one of the stupidest decisions in television writing ever. Bold. Yeah, boldly stupid and unoriginal. Hey, everybody, we’re just going to kill off the character we pretended to kill off half a season ago but this time you can believe us lol. 

If I was the rest of you Oncers, I’d be scared that these people are in control of my favorite characters. Yikes.