yall are all like “too much fluff with yousana we need angst and tears” but ukw ? I’m good bitch! I’m great! in my plaid! drinking ma tea! watching my mena babies being adorable and lovely and made for each other! Love my ao3 show! my vanilla love… love these fucking soulmates….
a love stone such as rose quartz (if you have one)
How to proceed:
Take the time to light a candle,
meditate if you wish to and focus on your intent:self love, feeling love to yourself, seeing your beauty, etc. Visualize it cleary and with as many details as
Add the sugar at the bottom of your jar, then all the
other ingredients in layers. With each ingredient, repeat your wish
for loving yourself.
Finally, add the lid to your bottle and seal it with the wax (I used vanilla wax here), focusing on your intent one last time
Add a pink ribbon if you wish.
Keep the jar with you and don’t hestiate to pull it out everytime you feel self doubt overpowering you!
Note: you can also do the same thing as a charm bag, using a pink, red or golden fabric!
When I was a little girl, I could never choose between vanilla and chocolate.
I loved the lightness and the simplicity of vanilla and the bitter sweet of chocolate. I loved both of them and could never choose.
When I starting growing up, a blonde boy and a brunette boy came crashing into my life. The blonde boy brought me danger and chaos and the brunette brought me peace and happiness. I loved both in the way they were so different, they both gave me different things and I couldn’t help but want both. I didn’t want to lose what they both gave to me.
So I never really decided on just one. I took some of each depending on what I wanted at the time.
I have never been able to choose.
Its cuffing season! You all know what that means… It means there’s love in the air! For those of you experiencing a little “cuffing season” fever, I have a little spell for you. I personally am not a fan of love spells potentially manipulating another person, so here is an attraction spell instead to give you a little boost of confidence and extra shine, so let’s get right to it!
What you’ll need:
Two pink candles - for love and romance
Twine/String - a natural bond
Bay leaves - attract lovers and grant wishes
Rosemary/rosemary oil - makes you memorable
Vanilla oil/extract - creates an attraction
Epsom salts - for calming and cleansing for a fresh start
Before you begin, mix some Epsom salts, rosemary, and vanilla together in a container and set aside for a bath after you have completed the spell. I prefer to use rosemary oil for this, but be careful applying essential oils straight to the skin for long periods of time! Bath salts dilute them and make them safer.
Begin with your personal pre-ritual cleansings, meditations, or circle castings. Allow yourself to enter a pleasant state of mind, like a “happy place”. Picture the candles as you and a future partner, but imagine no certain person, only pleasant thoughts regarding a partner. Take your two candles and tie a knot around the one representing yourself and then around the other, leaving twine or string draped between the two. Dress your candle with an oil of your choice or with vanilla. Carry this oil down the twine connecting the two, and then dress your partner’s candle; light your candles. Take three bay leaves for each candle. On your candle’s three, write three “attractive” attributes you wish to have, and on your partner’s three, write three broad personality traits you would like to see in a partner. Burn the bay leaves in their according candles, and then allow the candles to burn out or burn as much as they can safely and snuff out the flame. Complete your ritual by lighting some candles, burning some incense, and taking a nice warm bath with your Epsom mixture while you absorb the qualities of your oils!
do not date guys that can’t compliment your lifestyle.
If your like me prefer the finer things in life, vacations, splurging whenever I feel and anything fabulous. Why date a guy who is the complete opposite? Someone who would make you feel guilty about the way you live or even try to change you completely? Don’t get me wrong opposites do attract but does it last? How much are you willing to put up with, is something you should ask yourself. Are you wiling to give up and change what makes you happy to make someone else happy….
don’t pay for shit (dates,vacation,gifts etc) unless you want to, & even if you do.. don’t.
unless you plan on making him your boyfriend and i don’t mean he’s your boyfriend and he’s single, then there is no reason why you should be paying for anything. And don’t let anyone tell you otherwise, it doesn’t take away from you independence and it doesn’t make you a bum bitch neither.
Especially when you are physically away… but it can also just be because you want to show your love to your significant other<3
a red or pink bag with a red ribbon
the Two of Cups from your favorite tarot deck (a printed version if you don’t want to ruin your deck)
jasmine / orchid flowers
a photo of you two
When to do it?
During a waxing or full moon preferably.
Take the time to meditate and focus on your intent (all the love you feel for your partner), on how they make you feel, all the memories you have together, the joys you shared, the happiness they are bringing in your life.
Then add all of the ingredients (cleansed with the method you prefer) in the bag.For each ingredient, take the time to stay focus, to feel the loving energy in your entire body. Only think of all this relationship means to you.
Once this done, close the bag whispering:
“ With this charm in hands, may we feel close
Whenever we are apart”
and it’s done!
Now you can offer this bag to your loved one so they can place it at home and feel all your love for them
How to make it even better?
Do two bags, one for your lover and one you’ll keep to yourself!
How to make it even better than better?
Do it together! you and your partner! And then, exchange the bags between you!
When you feel sad, when your miss your other half, take the bag, remember all the feelings inside it, how your partner makes you feel. Take the time to smell it and receive all the energy put there in the first place.